here we go im only 17 and my boyfriend is 19 and we have been on and off for 4 years and he used to sell weed but he changed hisd ways ever scenc he got on a year probation but every time my aunt or my sister here his name or when he calls they dont wont to talk to me any more for what reason why ? casuse someone sniched on him, in school last year but eveyone loves his twin to death do you think i barked up the wrong tree or something cause i dont know at all he treats me like im a prencess or his queen we are suppose to get merried on christmas in 08 i mean am i doing the wrong thing to hurt my family i mean me family is not even close so do yall think i shuld go my own way with my life? HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 08:17:06 · 6 answers · asked by MaShelda B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your boyfriend really did stop selling drugs, and you and he really do love and care for eachother, then yes, you should marry him. Who cares what others think? All that matters is that you two are happy together. If your family and friends don't like who you marry that's their problem, not yours. Eventually they will have to except the fact that you love him, and that he's now one of the family. They might never treat him with the same respect, or hold him to as high of standereds as others, but they will except him. If you and your family aren't really THAT close, but you and this other guy are, then you should be with him. Maybe everyone else thinks that he's a jerk, but that doesn't matter. Just do what you think is right. Follow your heart. Who cares about his twin? Those people aren't deciding your life, you are!
2007-03-28 09:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Hmm... ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you see a future with this guy. If you can honestly answer yes...then you may have a hard decision to make. But, honestly, it is difficult to give yourself honest answers when you are this young. Taking a step back from things for a couple months should help you sort things out. Remember, boyfriends come and go, but family lasts forever.
2007-03-28 15:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family, regardless of what you think right now, is trying to look out for your best interests. They have more experience with life than you do and they don't want you to get mixed up with somebody who will probably end up in jail. The greatest percentage of dealers of drugs are repeat offenders. The greatest percentage of people who serve time for dealing drugs are repeat offenders. It is very rare that a leopard changes its spots.
2007-03-28 15:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your sister and aunt what their issue with him. If their reason is valid leave him alone. At any cost never let a relationship with a man keep you from having a close bond with your family.
2007-03-28 15:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by 43SamoanSteelYank43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married at a young age. Go to college. Don't throw your whole life away for some guy who's already getting into trouble.
2007-03-28 15:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents and older relatives see your bf for what he really is, you see him for what you want him to be.
Good Luck!
2007-03-28 15:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋