How do I tell a close friend that I like them more than a friend.?

Question

My best friend thats a girl is a big part of my life and the idea tha I might be falling for her is running in my mind. should I go about telling her or not, and if so, how?

Answer 1

Before you make anymore stupid moves, lets start small. First, find some sleves for your shirt, you do not look muscular but fat and gay and take those gloves Michael jackson. If I was you, I would use alcohol to make her realize she likes you. She will feel obligated to date you when she wakes up naked in your bed. Get Drunk and F_ck, Jimmy Buffet

Answer 2

Man what a lucky girl! I would love to hear that from my best guy friend...I say go for it, you will never know if you don't give it a try and you may just regret it if you don't later...if you are best friends than thats great cuz should anything not work out you have the power to stay in her life as her friend, just go for it what is the worst that could happen? She won't lose her best friend over something like this...so what do you have to lose?...nothing but you have everything to gain.

The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

" It's hard to live alone, its hard to choose someone to love,
but the hardest part of falling is to admit that you have fallen in love with someone you didn't mean to love from the start... "

"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships, the ones that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more that you did the night before, like a switch has been flicked somewhere, and the person who was just a friend, is suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with."

Answer 3

Put things in your favor by finding out whether your revelation is likely to end in mutual expression of her own feelings or not. Test the waters by bringing up hypothetical situations. You could also ask in a casual way whether or not she's interested in anyone (if she tells you all about her latest crush--and it's not you--it's best to leave things alone at this point). Study her body language. Does she smile, blush, get shy, look into your eyes, turn towards you, touch you "accidentally?" Does she seem to show up wherever you go?--either that or avoiding you? If her behavior has seemed somewhat strange or really intense or interested, I would go ahead and take a chance. Maybe you could make it fun like "Truth or Dare" or build it up by telling her there is something you want to talk to her about later (then smile). Don't be overly flirty though. If you want her to understand how you feel, be sincere.

Answer 4

I think you should try and see if she feels the same way about you, I wouldn't jump to telling her because it would make her feel uncomfortable. you might even end up pushing her away. Just find a way to see what she feels about you, maybe ask her what she thought about you getting married or hey I met some girl and she lives in a different state and wants me to come see her if things are good I (you) might relocate. Just to see.

Answer 5

i think you should try it out u never know that she might feel the same way or you can keep it a secret and don't tell her because you never know that your friendship with her will be ruin. but if u can't her out of your mind tell her and see what happens.

Answer 6

i think you should. life is short. i have a friend also that i really like but cant do anything about it cause im in a relationship, but i mean i want to tell this person but i know the type of person he is and it wouldn't fly smoothly.

Answer 7

Well don't tell her nothing because she has only given you her friendship and that's it.Wait till she gives you a sign.

Answer 8

no way you could ruin ur relationship! unless ur sure she is falling for u too, i would keep the friendship instead of risking it's destruction

Answer 9

Make sure your sure about your feeling's because if you rush into it, it could damage your already friendship.