Friends - January 2007

there is this girl in my class that tells everyone that me and her are best friends, at first it didn't really bother me but now it does,she is the most annoying person in the world, she does so many annoying things that make me mad and when i try to avoid them she does it more..........anyways she treats me like i'm her back up friend and she is very dictatorial and mean..............anyways one time a told her that i don't want to be her friend and then the next she pretened that nothing happened. the thing about it would be that this our last year in elementary skool and we might be going to different schools, but she is going to the same school that i am going to.........anyways how do i tell her to back off and leave me alone?

2007-01-31 11:45:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

She and I go to the same school and I try to be nice and speak to her everytime I see her but I was just wondering...do I have to be her friend because I go with her bro? She acts like she doesn't wanna be my friend for real...she speaks to me and everything but...she's has her group of people she hang with and stuff...what do you think?

2007-01-31 11:30:32 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5

This guy, that i just met this year, was going out with one of my friends for about a month, they broke up a month ago-and I spent the day they broke up comforting him and telling him that he'll be okay, and that she wasn't *the one*. So now a month later, he tells me who he likes and I tell him who I like, except for one person(him)And I left him a message saying "what would you do, if i lied, and I do like you". and then he figured out it was me.. and then he asked me how long and to tell you the truth.. i've liked him for like 2 months.. but the thing is after he told me who he liked, he also told me that one of the liked him back.. I'm just so confused right now along with feeling really bad.Because I dont want to ruin the friendship that we have and I told him that what ever he choses to do I'll support him.It scares me because he is one guy that I can go to, to talk about anything and im normaly really shy.. so this is the first guy I've ever told I liked him...What Should I Do?

2007-01-31 11:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by LookTowardsYesterday 1

does anybody here go 2 san jose edison academy in west covina,
california?

2007-01-31 11:26:11 · 1 answers · asked by lawrence d 1

ive known this girl since 8th grade and most of the time i have known her, her mother has had cancer and since then my family and i have ALWAYS been there to help her and her family. in 9th grade all of sudden she started treatin me like total crap and i came home and cried everyday...when i asked her y she was acting so horrible she said that she was just messed up because of her mom. i put up with her makingfun of me for a very long time until i couldnt take it ne more...her mom passed away but shes still a bully to me and other people she thinks are below her...she manipulates people into thinking she is so sweet but reallly shes not...she even got me suspended form school once...should i feel guilty that im mad at her? im so confused!!!

2007-01-31 11:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-31 11:23:38 · 4 answers · asked by kidnet3 1

well, my friend is always getting mad at me whenever i talk about a boy that i like or going out with. but whenever she gets a boyfriend she always talks about him every second of the day, i just listen to her stories about the dude.i don't get mad as easily as her. what should i do?

2007-01-31 11:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really need someone to be a good mentor for me. I need someone that can help me with my crush, ideas in school and others. I am in sixth grade and I really need someone to be depended on. Please help!!!!!
XOXO,
Katherine

2007-01-31 11:08:51 · 4 answers · asked by Katherine 3

2007-01-31 11:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by luckykuri786 1

when i was in the same class with my friend, we were so close and always talked to each other. now, my teacher moved me to a different class and when me and my friend see each other in the hall, we merely say "hi". i really want to be close to her again but sometimes i just run out of things to say to her. she also is always hanging out with her bf right now. help!

2007-01-31 11:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by :)dreamer. 3

There is this friend who is really mean to me sometimes and she doesn't think before she says stuff. We are going to different schools next year and she is making a huge deal out of it. For example she says, " Why are you going to a different school then me ?" and " Your just forgetting about friends." I've told my older cousin but she just said that she dosen't think that she sounds like a really friend. And if I try to stand up for myself, she gets all mad and gossips about me until I have to say sorry. She only really thinks about herself. How do I stand up to her but still keep are friendship?

2007-01-31 11:02:21 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha l 2

in a friendship where i am very insecure...i am jealous of my friend's personality ..i realize this is my character flaw and not hers but i feel like dumping her cause it cause me so much anxiety..should i dump her or should i continue to work on my insecurity and jealousy with my therapist...sometimes it seems so much easier to just run away from the problem

2007-01-31 10:46:35 · 9 answers · asked by crap 1

Next time he calls me something or pushes me I'm ******* hitting him in the face. I dont give a **** if hes older stronger and taller. I dont care if I lose, once I fight him he'll not want to talk to me.

2007-01-31 10:41:35 · 27 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

so my EXbest friend wrote me this yesterday:
"i put the same thing in your facebook i figured you would look at this one first.but here is what the message says anyways;
Can I talk to you about stuff after 6th on thursday? I really want to talk about all that drama from last semester. I can bring you home if you want/ need to be. I feel that we are wasting a once good relationship i miss being friends with you. :( if you want to talk earlier than that give me a ring. if you dont know my number/dont remeber its ---------------- my cell is new so it might be better to call me on that anyways i have a regular cell phone now that number is ----------- i have finally caught up with the times when it comes to cell phones. YEAH!!! so i guess talk to you later~ tara"

lol uh the reason why we are not friends anymore is because i bought this tennis dress and everyone said they liked it and she said "is that black or purple?" me: "purple" her:"oh b/c if it was black it would be ugly" then a few

2007-01-31 10:37:49 · 6 answers · asked by destroyedradio 5

I have a really good guy friend and he's so cute but, I'm really afraid that if I tell him he wont like me any more! : ( I already made this mistake before.So, please give me some advice so for now on I will know what to do. THANK YOU!

2007-01-31 10:32:33 · 15 answers · asked by Amanda M 2

My best friend got a new boyfriend. He talks to her, then ignores her. As soon as he is around she ditches us and kisses his a$$. If she is talking to me or any of her other friends, he runs up and gets her away from us, or tries to draw attention to himself. She constantly asks my opinion on her relationship and i tell her that I think that he is wrong for her. She then yells at me and tells me that I am a bad friend. I have no idea what to do. Should i break the friendship? or try to break the relationship?

2007-01-31 10:31:03 · 2 answers · asked by Nikki 3

alright, my step dad molested me (i'm still living with him)and my cousins keep on calling me fat a&& it hurts very much and all this pain i'm going trough no one seems to care.one of my cousins that constantly calls me these names molested me to, i tried to tell his mom but she doesn't believe me and thinks i'm trying to put her son in jail.i've been sexually abused by more family members but it would just be a long list.i'm 18 now and don't know if i'll be graduating high school or not.this whole drama i'm going through takes away from me being focus in class. i want to tell my guidance counselor but i'm scared if she will tell. i want to tell some one my problems.i can't tell my mom because when i told her i lost my virginity at 7 to a family member she said nothing ever since my freshman year.
do you think my guidance counselor will tell?

2007-01-31 10:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nafertiti 2

Well my friends get mad at me for stupid things like not sitting bu them in lunch, or even not picking them to be my partner in a dance. They just get mad so easly. So what do I do?

2007-01-31 10:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I hate this guy who keeps messing arround with me (punching/calling *****) Sometimes we can have a normal conversation for 20 seconds then he acts like a retard. I cant beat his *** because he is a lot taller and stronger than me. I'm not gonna snitch, and I'm not gonna try to avoid him because I dont want to live in fear.

What Do I do?

2007-01-31 10:20:45 · 31 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

I've known my friend since I was in 5th grade, 6 years ago. We're the same age, our families are friends and we go to the same church. She (Allie) has liked my brother (James) ever since we've known eachother. once her parents found out she liked him, they didn't like my brother(8th grade) Allie's parents never let her come to my house if James was there, stuff like that. Allie didn't care and still liked him. At the beginning of ninth grade Allie's parents really locked down on her - she couldn't call our house, or even say hi to James at church. Her mother even tried to tell her that my brother was a pothead, which was not true at all. By this time James had told her that he liked her too, and they were basically dating. Then 3 months later, she just stops liking him. About 2 weeks after that, she starts dating my brother's best friend, and she's allowed to do whatever with him. I'm really angry about all this, and she doesn't understand why. Am I right to be angry at her, or not?

2007-01-31 10:15:52 · 8 answers · asked by Cris 2

my best friend keeps getting mad at me for no reson!!but she dosen't know how i feel i told her that a thousand time but she won't listen!! should i just forget her or should i keep telling her....plz help!

2007-01-31 10:11:46 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki V 1

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2007-01-31 10:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im bullied in schoolcause im considered emo im normal though K anyway my best friend my only super tight friend is leaving going to a different school I am crushed Shes the only person I can talk to everything about please give me advice, NOT CRAP

2007-01-31 10:06:29 · 25 answers · asked by GBH 2

im really depressed..i feel sad alot of times..i cut..and cry myself to sleep alot...i have alot of things goin on at home wit my parents...and at school wit my friend...i dont know wat to do....ive had counseling..but it didnt help cuz i didnt trust her enuf to tell her wat was goin on...so she thinks i stopped cutiin...Now my mom found out that i still do it and i made her feel bad...my dad thinks that my mom is worthless bcuz of me..(stuf i did ..thta my mom cldnt control)...i dont know wat ot do..sometimes i think im better off if i died...IDK WAT TO DO!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-01-31 10:03:14 · 11 answers · asked by ♥♥♥RACHAEL♥♥♥ 1

will my friend alway get mad at me for NO RESON!!she my best friend but i can't let her do that anymore because she doesn't know how i feel when she dose that!! what should i do?

2007-01-31 10:01:54 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki V 1

i am the b-ball manger for the boys team, well me and my cousin are. while today there was alittle fight before practice in the gym, but the coach wasnt there. i thought that some had tould the coach about it, and that he didnt care, cause he is very laidback. so i said something to the coach about it, and the boys that were in the fight got into trouble, and everyone on the team was mad at me and my cousin. one of the boys that were in the fight was this boy i like, and he likes me too. he is really sweet, but i am scared that he wont like me anymore, cause i got him i trouble. what should i do about him? and i feel really bad about the other peaple too. how should i react, and what should i say. i feel really bad!

2007-01-31 09:57:23 · 2 answers · asked by S~Brezzy 3

I'm really sick and tired of being picked on and made fun of! *tear* People in my class sometimes throw things at me and laugh (the ones who throw things are preppy people), sometimes this guy in my class calls me dumb, and others always try to tease me by playing mean jokes like taking my things or laughing at me when i'm not looking at them, and that makes me feel like a looser and REALLY sad... :( I'm shy too but I have tried to stand up for myself but it doesn't work they just don't stop. At times i feel like i shouldn't go to school anymore because of all of this. I cry sometimes wen i sleep because of the thing that has happened to me. I have friends but i barely see them cuz our schedules are different. Please help me. I really wish people would stop making fun of me.

2007-01-31 09:55:37 · 3 answers · asked by One Life 1

I've known my bff since 4 years ago..and we have grown very close to eachother like we got so close, that we would tell eachother everything and do everything together. Recently, there has been a third person involved in our friendship. He is her close friend now, but I feel like a retard because everysingle day im sad and depressed. My best friend jokes around, but says some really mean things to me. I've tried explaining to her, that the things she says is mean; but she still continues. She also stands up for her other best friend more then she ever stands up for me, I always feel bad because im ignored and avoided now. I call her my best friend because she truly is my best friend and i cant afford to lose her, i know that i wont find a best friend like her! I just dont know how i can tell her that we used to be close, without making her think im a weirdo. She lies to me alot now because she says its the best thing to do, so i dont get mad. What should I do, I dont wanna Lose my bff!

2007-01-31 09:54:38 · 2 answers · asked by raisinbunion 1

Well my problem is that my friend got mad at me this one day and he used to go around telling everyone that I don't talk to girls. Then a bunch of girls come up to me and say I heard you don't talk to girls and then they said talk to me. So I am like about what. There like anything and they talk to me in lunch wen everyone is staring and I don't know what to say. In real life I do talk to girls. What am I supposed to do now?

2007-01-31 09:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by Vijay B 1

Everyone, i had this weird dream about a person that i dont even know! This girl walks into my room. She stares at me with totally red eyes and says "Lava Lamps,mm Honey". And the lamps sounds like lumps when she says it. Then she melts into the ground. It was really a weird nightmare. lol. What does this mean? and do u think that dream is weird!?

2007-01-31 09:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by Smart Blonde! 2