My Best Friend Doesn't Seem To Be My Best Friend Anymore..Why?

Question

I've known my bff since 4 years ago..and we have grown very close to eachother like we got so close, that we would tell eachother everything and do everything together. Recently, there has been a third person involved in our friendship. He is her close friend now, but I feel like a retard because everysingle day im sad and depressed. My best friend jokes around, but says some really mean things to me. I've tried explaining to her, that the things she says is mean; but she still continues. She also stands up for her other best friend more then she ever stands up for me, I always feel bad because im ignored and avoided now. I call her my best friend because she truly is my best friend and i cant afford to lose her, i know that i wont find a best friend like her! I just dont know how i can tell her that we used to be close, without making her think im a weirdo. She lies to me alot now because she says its the best thing to do, so i dont get mad. What should I do, I dont wanna Lose my bff!

Answer 1

You and your best friend are drifting apart. You don't deserve a friend who will lie to you and say mean things to you. A friend will always be there for you and stand up for you as well. Explain to her one more time that you don't appreciate her saying mean things to you because it hurts your feelings. If she continues to do that, she is not your friend at all. Harsh reality, but true. Continue to go out there and meet new people. You will find a new best friend who will not say mean things and not stand up for you. Life is too short to be wasting your time being friends with someone who does not respect you. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.

Answer 2

if she is ur best friend, she won't say mean things 2 u and continue saying that even after telling her what do u feel
that is not what a friend should do
find another best friend .. and let her be a friend!just a friend