ive known this girl since 8th grade and most of the time i have known her, her mother has had cancer and since then my family and i have ALWAYS been there to help her and her family. in 9th grade all of sudden she started treatin me like total crap and i came home and cried everyday...when i asked her y she was acting so horrible she said that she was just messed up because of her mom. i put up with her makingfun of me for a very long time until i couldnt take it ne more...her mom passed away but shes still a bully to me and other people she thinks are below her...she manipulates people into thinking she is so sweet but reallly shes not...she even got me suspended form school once...should i feel guilty that im mad at her? im so confused!!!
2007-01-31 11:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her you won't put up with her crap. she is desperate, and she needs attention, don't give it to her, and she may, just may come bak a better person with out you try it.
2007-01-31 11:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be guilty for being mad at her. she isn't a good friend after all. you were the nice and sweet guy who was there for her and her family but she never showed much appreciation. i can tell she gets her ways and remember she got a lot of problems. maybe her past and her mom's death has to do with her being like that. all you have to do is be a friend to her and accept her for her. but its alrite to be upset at her for treating you like that. how can she be a friend if she suspended you from school, made you cry and treated you like crap. you need to stand up for yourself and speak out. you know, sometimes people like her pick on people because they are insecure themselves and have a big ego...so they pick on people who are below them, which makes them feel better but what they are doing is very wrong. maybe try to avoid her from getting you into trouble but still be a friend to her. i know its hard and you are fed up....all i can say is tell her how you feel and dont be weak.
2007-01-31 19:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her youre tired of her crap.. nooo you shouldnt feel guilty she shouldnt be treating you this way bulling thats bullshit... she needs to cut that out.. and if she doesnt you need to really stand up to it.. and find some friends that will treat you special...
I hope this helps you
2007-01-31 23:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got u suspended?! wow. if she's hurting u so bad, just don't be her friend for a while. maybe she'll realize that she misses having u there to talk to and will stop being so mean.
2007-01-31 19:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Michael T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋