Friends - January 2007

i talked to this guy named Whit i have known him for 2 weeks (i like him) and i got him number, and today i talked to him and i got a hug :) i emailed my friends spencer ( he used to like me) i asked him if he could tell me somethings about Whit, and he said
"why do u want to know that about whit"
Is spencer just sticking up for him, or does he not want to tell me cuz he used to like me? was it a bad think for me to emial spencer and ask him? what do i do? does it sound like Whit likes me? he stares at me a lot. does it sound like spencer still likes me?

2007-01-31 14:31:23 · 14 answers · asked by Jess 1

I have a friend for 7 years. We were close. Her uncle threw her out of the house and she had no other family. I gave her shelter and food, paid for her bills while she was depressed, and when she got better, I gave her a job at my office temporarily even during a rough time financially. I never charged her rent, food, bought her new clothes and paid her a good wage much to my fiance disagreement about hiring her. A year later, I was going through a rough time with my fiance. We had arguments often at home. I crashed physically and emotionally for 3 months and couldn't work. Then when I came back to work, she started to resent me. I was told that she wanted to have a share of a project my fiance got going at work. My fiance and I got married. She told my mother that I force him to marry me for the money (he is totally in debt). She didn't go to my wedding, moved out when I wasn't home and stole the files at my office. We had never argued. I am confused? What happened

2007-01-31 14:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by no where 1

First of all, I really don't want to break the friendship, my friend is a really good person and we've been insperable since third grade. Well this kind of happened after I left her house early, we're neighbors and well, I was at her house and I felt sick, and I was also really bored. So my brother was there too, hes 11 months younger than me and my friend has a brother his age so they're best friends too. He wasn't going to sleep over because he was really tired. Well when I was at her house, it kinda showed that I was really bored, but I tried not to show it. [Pst I'm really bad at acting.] So I left when my brother left, saying that I didn't feel good, which WAS true. But we don't go to the same school, she goes to private school, and I've had a fever like the whole week, and yes, this has been going ON for a week. I guess she just thought I left because I was bored, she never answers me online, txt, phone, nothing. I know shes there, because she always changes her AIM profile like every two seconds. Anyways, I'm getting really upset over this, and she won't respond to ANYTHING.

Thank you! [And no rude answers, please.]
I appreciate the effort.(:
&♥; s a r a h

2007-01-31 14:08:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the better option: Telling the truth as to why you want to end it, or to ignore the person entirely?

2007-01-31 13:51:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean my friend was 148 cm at the age of 13 and she is still the same at the age of 17 will she ever grow.
there is no dwarfiness in her family all her parents and relatives are tall like more 165cm.

2007-01-31 13:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well um im 15 and im suposed to b watchin my sis and she is 8. so my parents rnt home till mon. so im watchin my sis. my friend ws over and shes usualy annoying and trin to hang out with us and junk so she kept coming in my room and junk so i told her to get out but she didnt so we ended up fightin like normal siblings and i got realy mad and agervated and kinda lost it and told her to just stay out of my life so she started crin and throwin a fit like a normal annoyin 8 yr old ( her at least) and so iignored it but then shes like well i hate you to and ran outside with her blanket and pillow and really i have no idea where she is.. and like i dont no where she would have gone? so um if ur 8 wher e would u go? and um like if u hve any idea or suggestions please let me no or email me or somethin... its Hockey_Playin_kyle @ yahoo.com.. so ya please let me no about anything peace out

2007-01-31 13:32:06 · 1 answers · asked by hockey_playin_kyle 1

Mistakes happen. What if you are chatting thru text messaging with your friend about a certain person and you get carried away, such that your message was accidentally sent to that guy whom you are talking about. And there's no denying that she/he is the topic. What is the best way to get past this situation?

2007-01-31 13:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Solomon Grundy 3

i always seem to have no one to talk to. I just want a few good friends to talk with. if anyone wants to talk, then add me. pinxcandyapple@sbcglobal.net or ilovemesodealwithit@hotmail.com.
Mandy

2007-01-31 13:10:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Picture this, you are in 5th grade and you are 11 years old. You really like this girl in your class and your best friend in the whole class claims that everyone knows that you like her. You deny it but you have a crush on her, what would you do? Would you try to see if she likes you or will you do things that will make her like you more.
Also, you are nowhere near friends with this girl and you sometimes get in trouble.

2007-01-31 12:58:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and a friend of mine been fighting for over 3 months, even tho we both wanna be together, lately i had an emotional-brekadown infront of him and he's like this must end. the day after, i called and apologized about the drama iv been causing and i told him it's not fair that he judge me for the way i was that time, cause we know each other for around 4 years! he was like ok no problem..
now, we'r back.. kinda better.. i mean i lost a lot of the feelings i had for him, and he got pretty much cocky on me! i asked him wheather he got back bcz he wants to or bcz I wanted to, he said bcz i aplogized and he wants us 2 b friends, long story short...
Now, i think that he think that iv DYING over him and i cant live w\o when the truth is i just dont wanna lose a friend nor the good relationship we had back then bcz of hard phase i went through..
i feel so bad about myself that he thinks that, that im weak and that he's better than me.. wat should i do?

2007-01-31 12:57:36 · 6 answers · asked by anne_anne 2

2007-01-31 12:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by Speedy 2

This girl is my best friend's cousin+ my best friend's sister who also has a crush on me was there.

2007-01-31 12:51:59 · 16 answers · asked by Sparky 1

I'm thinking about sneaking out of the house to watch some movies with my friends. They live right next to me. We would have to walk a little bit, but we would wear all black and have cell phones and pepper spray. Also, two of us know karate. I was wondering if you had tips on things to take or how to do it. Also, I would like to know if i should go out the sliding back door or the kitchen window. Your sneaking out experiences would be great, too. Thanks!

2007-01-31 12:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-31 12:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Dr.Pepper 1

What do you think about this quote?

QUOTE:
"If you deny childhood, you deny life.
They can't speak up for themselves so we
must. It's like, how do we define love,
it's a very, very deep feeling, but it's I think
the most important force of life."
"Remember, if you ever need a helping hand,
it's at the end of your arm. As you get older,
you must remember that you have a second hand.
The first one is to help yourself, the second one is to help
others"

2007-01-31 12:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by YAWN 6

My roommate is trying to bail on my fiance and I. She signed a lease with us back in November and said that she wouldn't bail on us. She has been a total pain the neck. She never pays her part of the bills on time and is totally sloppy, and is rude. We used to be good friends. The other night we got into a big fight because she was a month behind paying us back $100 which was what we had paid for her part of the bills. We cannot live at this place by ourselves and we are looking for a new roommate, but how do we get her to be coropertive and pay us what she owes and get her to stop being such a b**** to us? And what are some ways to post an ad on wanting a roommate?

2007-01-31 12:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by sexsports_fun 2

I know this girl at my school who is always bragging about herself and how guys like her so much. She said some pretty meen things to me before, but the only problem is, she is a person you don't want to mess with. I'm kinda like that to, but not as bad. I want to now why she's doing this and how to make her stop!

2007-01-31 12:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by vcat_11 2

In this case, a friend of mine got jelaous because today is one of my other friend's birthday, and because of that she envied my friend for recieving more gifts than what she recieved for her birthday. Now what can I do to make her convience that it is not right to act like this, especially when you say it to me behind my other friend's back? All ideas or sugestions are appreciated. Thank You.

2007-01-31 12:38:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past month I have been angry at my friend but I dont know why. Every time I am around her I kinda want to get away. When I see her, I knida get worked up. I dont know why I feel this way. There were zero awkward situations between us. One day I just felt that something was really wrong between us and I didnt like it at all. We still talk but, it isnt the same. Have you ever been in this situation?
I thought it would pass, but it has gone on for too long and I feel upset and guilty. But I cant stop being angry and uncomfortable around her.

2007-01-31 12:34:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Best Friend and I have known eachother since 6th grade and we have been really really close. Recently we have been drifting away and it hurts me soooo much because we used to be like sisters. Now whenever I ask her whats wrong she says "Your not funny enough" and "ur too serious" and "ur always depressed". But I cant get her to understand that I cant be funny when I feel hurt, when she ignores me and makes fun of me and then she expects me to be funny..thats alittle weird. Then she says that she cant be the same bff she used to be, because im always depressed and emotional and im TOO DEEP and that she needs FUN in her life...but the reason I am depressed and emotional is because I hate feeling avoided and ignored and treated bad to...and when we became best friends we promised to listen to eachother in times of need..and at the moment I am having some problems..THATS THE REASON IM DEEEP..and it would be nice if i could talk to her..cuz she used to have my back..now its all drifting

2007-01-31 12:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by raisinbunion 1

2007-01-31 12:30:37 · 5 answers · asked by Money 2

I haven't been to school in a few days, and my teacher was already asking me where i was. Then she walked into the classroom later on that day and was staring straight at me the whole time with a kinda smile on her face. She's usually gettin into my business, like b4 she gives me something to grade, she'll be like " do this after you get done with ur....(looking) english hw" Sometimes when she's showin me how to do something, she'll get really close to where her head is almost touching mine and her hair is brushing against my arm ( no exaggeration!!). Sometimes she'll look at me outta the corner of her eyes. When other teachers talk about me, she'll take up for me and say "she's nice." What does all this mean? Why is she acting like this?

2007-01-31 12:25:41 · 5 answers · asked by annabanana 1

today after school i was walking out with my boyfriend & he seemed a little odd to me because he wasn't the way he was earlier.

his eyes were kind of droopy/closing in a way & when i asked him what was wrong he said he was just sleepy. and if i'm not mistaken i could swear that he was talking as if someone were holding his tongue (kind of like a drunk but a little less).

he told me that he use to smoke weed a little, a long time ago. but says he doesn't do it now...which is another reason why i may suspect this...what should i do?

2007-01-31 12:21:29 · 5 answers · asked by atticus_pinky 1

She works and goes to school. 50 hours a week.

Her parents have money issues, and her mother is sick.

What should I do???

2007-01-31 12:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-31 12:17:16 · 5 answers · asked by $Mz.Nina aka Baby G$ 2

My best guy friend is turning 14 on Febuary 5th. He is in to football but not skateboarding. Any i deas on what i should get him???

2007-01-31 12:14:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My teacher assigned a report 3 weeks ago. I handed it in..i did an oral presentation on it. My teacher is REALLY strict. My mother even said the highest grade she will give me is a 93. May sound good for you. Not for me....I am expected to get higher than my friend "who is the brainiac in my class" who has a 99.8 GPA! (Grade Point Average) For the first marking period, my average was a 93. My best friend:98
Today I come home with my report/oral presentation grade
I got a 95 ..wow so great. I am proud of myself...but not my mom
"You got a good grade..but we did( ******-My friend) get higher than you?" I try my best. I have big goals..
I want to get into Stuy HS
Want to get into Columbia and become a cardiologist
I want to have a 99.9 average
but it is not working out!
What should I do????????
Is there some kind of smart medicine that can make me a brainiac?

2007-01-31 12:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by Stranger in New York™ 4

I just recently had surgery and my mom is having to help me for right now but my brother and sisters have been talking about me and her behind our backs. My stepdad is very resentful of me and my husband and I are getting a divorce. I just don't understand why everything is coming down on me at once. I am a decent Christian woman that tries to help my family at different times but now that I am down, they don't want anything to do with me.

2007-01-31 12:12:41 · 4 answers · asked by Diane T 1

We used to be really great friends and since we broke up, he doesnt even want to look at me, but i think he is an awesome person and i still want to be friends and i want to show him that but i dont know how.

2007-01-31 12:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by vballgurl_1 1

I have a friend that's a girl who I used to really like. We both decided to be friends but now she keeps giving me hints here and there that she may like me or just being very friendly. Anyhow, I do not want to be friends with this girl, she has just caused me too much confusion to the point where I just don't want to see her anymore. She is way too dependent and she gets too close. When I don't talk to her at school (we are both 16 btw) she gets upset and and assumes she made me mad but I just want to have her out of my life. Would it be smart to just try to ignore her? I'm afraid if i hang around too much i may fall for her which i don't want to happen. I want to just be aquaintances, not friends. Please I need some advice on this situation. thanks

2007-01-31 11:53:40 · 3 answers · asked by liquid_force_evolution 2