We used to be really great friends and since we broke up, he doesnt even want to look at me, but i think he is an awesome person and i still want to be friends and i want to show him that but i dont know how.
2007-01-31 12:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by vballgurl_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him and tell him
2007-01-31 12:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two were dating and broke up, you may not be able to do anything right now. If he doesn't want to see you, it may be because it hurts too much right now. Losing someone you care about is never easy. It's possible the best thing to do right now is give him space. Tell him how you feel. Let him know that if it's possible, you would really like to be friends....in his own time. I know it's hard but for now you may have to be his friend from a distance. In time, he will talk to you. I know...I have been in a VERY similar situation.
2007-01-31 12:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you broke up with him? Sorry, its just a reality that once you cross the line from being friends to being boyfriend/girlfriend then you can't go back to being just friends, especially if your relationship was serious. You're going to need to just give him his space. You two may never be friends again and that is the risk you take when you love someone and it doesn't work out.
2007-01-31 12:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh Hello? You may be able to switch from break up to normality but as you can obviously see, not everyone is the same as you.
Give him time to move on and gather thoughts together. Not everyone moves as fast as you.
2007-01-31 12:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys have a problem with just being friends,so give him time ,may be send a note just saying you still think he is cool. would help.
2007-01-31 12:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him, either face to face, phone or Email. Maybe even a written letter. Tell him how u feel.
2007-01-31 12:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by trish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a note sayin:
I am sorry that we are not going together anymore but i would reeeeeeally love it if we could be friends, please think about it...i hate being like this...u know enimies and all it just feels weird.
-ur name
2007-01-31 12:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by crazily confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you are still his friend.
2007-01-31 12:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by 3120johnsons@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously very very hurt perhaps he wanted to be more than friends????????
2007-01-31 12:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him and tell him how you fill, tell hm everything happens for a purpose and it does.
2007-01-31 12:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋