so my EXbest friend wrote me this yesterday:
"i put the same thing in your facebook i figured you would look at this one first.but here is what the message says anyways;
Can I talk to you about stuff after 6th on thursday? I really want to talk about all that drama from last semester. I can bring you home if you want/ need to be. I feel that we are wasting a once good relationship i miss being friends with you. :( if you want to talk earlier than that give me a ring. if you dont know my number/dont remeber its ---------------- my cell is new so it might be better to call me on that anyways i have a regular cell phone now that number is ----------- i have finally caught up with the times when it comes to cell phones. YEAH!!! so i guess talk to you later~ tara"
lol uh the reason why we are not friends anymore is because i bought this tennis dress and everyone said they liked it and she said "is that black or purple?" me: "purple" her:"oh b/c if it was black it would be ugly" then a few
2007-01-31 10:37:49 · 6 answers · asked by destroyedradio 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a few days later i was on a girl named katies myspace and i saw taras comment saying "lacey has a pic. up of her and her shitty dress" and i read that and i got pissed off b/c of 1) what she said 2) she talked behind my back in a bad way. yea some best friend. so i text her and she comes out of class and **** and calls me and i tell her we cant be friends anymore and she thinks AND STILL DOES its just because she didnt like my dress [even though its about back stabbing and lying to katie and saying that she DID tell me she liked it pft..] anyways after like 3 harssing emails telling me im stupid im ugly ill never get a boyfriend im a ***** im an *** hole im selfish whatever! and my mom talking to her mom and her mom not beliveing shes saying any of that and her mom calling me a liar, and after me putting porn as her background to piss her off [i had her password I DID NOT HACK INTO THE ******* THING] and a parking incident and some other **** she wants to be FRIENDS AGAIN!?!? and yeste
2007-01-31 10:38:10 · update #1
FRIENDS AGAIN!?!? and yesterday i replyed with:
"idk ill think about it i guess lol... how can you call me a ***** on someones myspace then want to talk about being friends again? ill let you know tomorrow i guess"
into THAT detail she posted on this kid erics myspace, calling me a ***** after he asked why she doesnt talk to her "best friend across the room"anyways, i get an emai lback this after noon...
"there is something called a change of heart!!that was like a week ago. anyways the reason why i have had this change of heart is b/c i was at church on saturday and the homily was about forgiving and forgetting so that got me thinking then the other day on the radio i heard a thing also about the same topic. and so that got me thinking even more. i need to know about if i am giving you a ride home or not so we can talk porfavor. "
lol i dont know what to say. i really dont, NO i dont want to be friends with her again because i think if she wanted to be friends it wouldent take som
2007-01-31 10:38:34 · update #2
take some ******* church show to make her apologize. idk what to say to her though. help me?
lol i feel dumb for posting this on here, but i really dk what to do
2007-01-31 10:39:10 · update #3
mimi- UH if u read anything haha it wasnt about the tennis dress its about her going and talking behind my back
2007-01-31 12:31:20 · update #4
its natural to not know what to say to her. I dont believe she is really your friend cause she would not be talkin bad about u when you are not around and then when u confront her about it she doesnt have an ounce of remorse. And NOW she sees u are not gonna beg for her friendship and she sees that u truly believe she did u wrong and i agree with u. I would not be mean to her because holding grudges is hard work u can listen to what she has to say and if u dont want to be her friend that is your choice and i dont blame u. Just don't waste too much time and energy holding a grudge. You could feed her with a long handled spoon meaning to just be cordial but always keep in the back of your mind what type of person she is and dont let her get close to u again that way when she does something ignorant like what she did then it wont phase u too much cause u already know how she is and u wont care. but if u continue to hold a grudge then u are letting her know she can get under your skin and bother u
2007-01-31 10:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reason for being mad turned from a little thing to a huge mess. To tell you the truth it's really stupid. She might have been jelous that you were getting attention so you should just forgive and forget. Just dont call her your best friend anymore dont trust her as much if she's a fake person who just wants to be popular and blame her problems on you. This is currently happening to me with my friend who keeps pn getting worse every couple of months. I'm not sure if this is the problem with your friend or not but let her know that you dont like the fact that he talked trash about you behind your back and just be her friend again (if you want to [think it over.])
2007-01-31 10:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mariniac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, friends are forever no matter what everyone fights and it is over something small. Tell her if she doesn't like your dress to tell you, not everyone on myspace. Let her know she hurt your feelings even if you don't want to be friends with her anymore why would you want to have that build up between you. That's what friends are for to not let you go out in public looking stupid, and if you go to church like you say its called "forgiveness".
2007-01-31 10:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Deja 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me and my friend were in a similar problem, but if i could go back in time over a million bucks i would any day.... i messed up a great relationship and it sucks...... but now shes friends with other people and i miss hangin out all the time with her... take my advise and dont throw it away! trust me if you do your going to want it back..... well..... at least i do..... and it sucks! and i know what we had is gone forever........ and i will miss that..
2007-01-31 10:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by .:{LyNdZ-aY Lo0}:. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt get mad over a dress, but the backstabbing thing that was just rude if her. But, if when yall were together yall had a really fun time, then you shoudn't be mad at her, but w/e thats my opinion
2007-01-31 11:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by krazy_lollipop12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont u think the reason why u two are mad is kind of stupid??? over a tennis dress??? i think u should just forgive and forget...there are bigger problems out there
2007-01-31 10:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋