im depressed.!! wat do i do?!?!?

Question

im really depressed..i feel sad alot of times..i cut..and cry myself to sleep alot...i have alot of things goin on at home wit my parents...and at school wit my friend...i dont know wat to do....ive had counseling..but it didnt help cuz i didnt trust her enuf to tell her wat was goin on...so she thinks i stopped cutiin...Now my mom found out that i still do it and i made her feel bad...my dad thinks that my mom is worthless bcuz of me..(stuf i did ..thta my mom cldnt control)...i dont know wat ot do..sometimes i think im better off if i died...IDK WAT TO DO!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

1-800-668-6868
kids help phone
helped me tones, just having someone care and understand you who could help you and no personal info ot things you don't want to tell them.

Answer 2

Depression is something very serious and I have suffered from it for a long time and I can relate to what you are saying and feeling. First, know this....you are not worthless! You have value and you are important. One thing you really need to do is find a counselor or therapist whom you can trust and put your faith in. I suggest you go and see a minister at a church of your choice and ask his or her advice as to who he or she might recommend to help you. It may be that the minister has someone there who can help you or maybe the minister can help you. You need to do this now for yourself. When you start talking to the person don't hold anything back. Instead be honest and sincere and tell he or she the truth about what is going on in your life....everything that makes you sad and depressed and bothers you.....understand? Once you do this tell your mom what you are doing if you feel she will be sympathetic toward you. Don't think about what your mom or dad may or may not say. Don't listen to people who put you down or make you feel bad. Listen to your counselor or therapist and do what he or she tells you. Also, get the book entitled, "Conquering Depression" by Mark Sutton and Bruce Hennigan. It is a great book and has helped me immensely along with therapy and counseling. Don't give up on yourself and start connecting with people who know what you are going through. I am here and available to help you so please feel free to contact me anytime and I will try to help you more...ok? Please know that I am very sincere in saying this to you.

Answer 3

Relax...your question is proof that you don't want to keep hurting yourself, that you're asking for help. A friend of mine went through almost the same thing you're going through (cutting, family problems, etc) and she didn't find any comfort or help in psychologists either. How did she get better? I have no idea...I can speculate, I think she just...grew. She realized that being depressed and what she was doing wasn't what she wanted in her life and she just stopped, of course it never ends completely-from personal experience- once depression sets in, that's that, it always comes back (if it's really a chronic type of depression), but as time goes by you kind of develop tools to counterattack depressive thoughts and whatnot.
I would recommend speaking to your parents about what you feel (if possible, if it's really not worth trying then just forget about it...some parents are like that) and go to counseling, just, TRUST, counselors can't tell what you say to them, and if they ever do it'll be to your parents/family and that's only meant to help. So get help, I don't think you'll find the appropriate help in Yahoo answers.
Also, maybe try putting your feelings into paper, write, draw, etc, I found it really helpful.

Best of luck!!!!!!

Answer 4

You need professional help, my dear. If your parents 'won't listen' or say that they can't 'afford it' then you can ask a school counselor to 'refer you' to someone you can see, or you can call any 'teen help line' or 'crisis line' ... most large cities have them and also many 'smaller ones.' WHATEVER YOU DO, DO NOT TRY TO KILL YOURSELF. If you don't feel 'safe' with your counselor, then you have the RIGHT to tell her and say that you would like a new counselor ... and you may have to do that several times to get one you feel you can trust. And please, dear, do try to stop 'cutting yourself' ... I know that it 'feels good' when you do it, but it will only 'hurt you more and more' and you need to STOP IT. I CARE ABOUT YOU. So do many 'other people' ... but YOU need to take the 'first step' and get GOOD COUNSELING, and then STICK WITH IT. Sometimes it takes a year or two before any 'counseling' starts to 'really work.' If necessary, CHECK YOURSELF IN TO A HOSPITAL ... but keep FIGHTING until you get the help you NEED>

Answer 5

Why do you keep asking this same question over and over? Nobody knows what you should do because you don't even know if you are really pregnant. Get a test, and if it's positive, THEN you can freak out. Until then it's just not necessary or productive.

Answer 6

Usually when I'm Deperessed I just think about happy things, but that seem to make me cry harder, and from doing that I usually be in my room alone with the door wide open so when I know that I'm really letting out my tears. Someone will walk in and just listen to my side of the story, and when I'm done and feeling much better, she will give me a hug. It feels better letting someone know that some thing is wrong then hiding your feelings


so just let them see your tears and be thankful for what you have even if it hurts so much. :)

Answer 7

My heart is bleeding for you. And I know if I tell you to pray and ask Jesus to come into your heart and be your saviour, and he would just like that, you'd probably laugh. don't. I've had a real tough childhood myself and depression and wishes to die seemed almost normal to me. One day, when there was bad fighting going on in my home, and I couldn't take it anymore, I said:" God, Jesus, if you're real, be with me right now. Please put a stop to this and safe me." He did. The fighting ended so abruptly I couldn't believe it. God has saved me many times and whenever I want to get down and depressed, I force myself to ask for his help. He is always there. God bless you.

Answer 8

Hi! My sister , retired school principal, 60 yrs old now, got a stroke, 6 monthsago she used to be adventourous, travel and live in London, now she cannot use her right arm and walk step by step. Think how LUCKY you are, and get the depression OUT OF your head. be thankful for small mercies, like walking and eating without probles. I say.

Answer 9

ooh :(
i can feel what u feel
but try 2 get closer 2 ur mom..talk 2 her and tell her about what u feel
or talk 2 any body u trust , that will make u feel better and let go the sadness

peace :)

Answer 10

Don't feel like you are worthless( don't ever put yourself down) cause you are worth more than 1million in God's eyes. And cutting yourself is a form of suicide. Life have so much for you, and if you die you wont ever see them. just wait and see. trust me I would know cause I was like you