will my friend alway get mad at me for NO RESON!!she my best friend but i can't let her do that anymore because she doesn't know how i feel when she dose that!! what should i do?
2007-01-31 10:01:54 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her that you will no longer be the target for her anger. You are not her verbal punching bag.
2007-01-31 10:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well with experience I always get mad at my friends and tell them there acting like brats and then I tell them I'll never be there friend. Well then they'll tell me there sorry and then I
l'll probably be friends with them again the next day. Even though I'm a fifth grader I can get pretty mean, but I try not to say anything to bad to hutr there feelings, especially cussing. Though sometimes I feel like calling them other thing. But this friend sounds a lot like mine. I hope I helped a little and good luck!
2007-01-31 18:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right of her to get mad at you for no reason, but do you think there might be something happening at home that causes her to get angry like that??? Sometimes people lash out at someone they are close to, even if they are not mad at them, b/c they can trust them not to leave them when they are having a fit. If she is projecting her anger on you about something that is happening elsewhere, it's a sign that she trusts you to stay friends w/ her no matter what. I would just discuss it w/ her, ask her why she treats you this way, she might not even realize she is doing it. If she still acts like a spoiled brat, then ditch her.
2007-01-31 18:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she gets mad at you for no reason? Ask her what makes her mad? Most people get mad for a reason even though they may not tell the person with whom they are mad. You need to find out why she is mad at you and why she feel the way she feels about you from time to time. Once you find out then act accordingly to change things if possible.
2007-01-31 18:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is overly-sensitive and easily irritated. I do not know what it means that she "always gets mad at" you, but it may have something to do with what is going on in her home, and it might also have something to do with hormones. You don't have to be a 'punching bag'-- you can simply tell her how you feel.... that you are tired of being on the receiving end of her anger. Honesty is the best policy.
God bless.
2007-01-31 18:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter's best friend used to accuse her of refusing to tell her what is wrong, when there was nothing wrong. It was just a way to make my daughter grovel and beg to be forgiven when she hadn't done anything wrong. I told my daughter that a real friend wouldn't do this to her. They are no longer friends.You could explain to her that you are not going to put up with this abuse any longer. She may change her behaviour, but I don't think it is likely. If not, find some better friends, who are more mature. Good luck.
2007-01-31 18:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever heard of the phrase "if u love them let them go...if she/he doesnt come back they were never meant to b urs and if they come back,they were always urs"
same goes here, if she means that much to u then tell her how u feel,unless she doesnt realize wats she is making u go thru how else will she know till u tell her? if she understands then she is a good friend who really loves u and u both can figure it out how to help her and she gets angry with u,then mayb she wasnt a friend to keep after all. hope this helps.
2007-01-31 18:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by S.Kishwar A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going to get mad at you for no reason tell her. Let her know what she's doing wrong. Thta is what friends do. Take her aside and let her know what she is doing. Tell her how youfeel when she does it and set the rules before she does!
Take Care!
2007-01-31 18:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by rinoa1us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and if she still acts like that then she's not your friend and you need to find better ones. Don't call everyone your friend, you especially don't give the title of your best friend to someone who doesn't deserve it. Let someone who deserves that title give you a reason to give them that title. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-31 18:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after sometime, give her ur side of the story
tell her how u feel
communication is key!
if u miss her - only do the above then
if u feel ur better of witout her - chuck it and move on!
2007-01-31 18:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by YabbaJabba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋