I've known my friend since I was in 5th grade, 6 years ago. We're the same age, our families are friends and we go to the same church. She (Allie) has liked my brother (James) ever since we've known eachother. once her parents found out she liked him, they didn't like my brother(8th grade) Allie's parents never let her come to my house if James was there, stuff like that. Allie didn't care and still liked him. At the beginning of ninth grade Allie's parents really locked down on her - she couldn't call our house, or even say hi to James at church. Her mother even tried to tell her that my brother was a pothead, which was not true at all. By this time James had told her that he liked her too, and they were basically dating. Then 3 months later, she just stops liking him. About 2 weeks after that, she starts dating my brother's best friend, and she's allowed to do whatever with him. I'm really angry about all this, and she doesn't understand why. Am I right to be angry at her, or not?
2007-01-31 10:15:52 · 8 answers · asked by Cris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have every right to be angry at your friend because what she did was messed up. This situation that happened is between her and your brother. I applaud you for looking out for your brother and doing whatever you can to make sure that he's okay. The best thing that you can do is to continue to be there for your brother. His heart will heal and before you know it, he will not even be thinking about Allie. He'll go out there and meet new people. As for your friend Allie, she should understand why are you upset with her. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. If you don't want to be her friend anymore, don't have anything to do with her and make new friends. More than likely, she'll get it. In the meantime, don't worry about her. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-01-31 10:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well their must be a reason why she broke up with your brother and it may just be because of her parents and they probably said that they liked his best friend better than ur brother. so all you need to do is work it out with her and find out but leave your brother out of this and let him go on because soon he will find the love of his life and marry her and just be friends with allie and forget what she did. Also as long as your brother and his best friend are cool then their probably isnt anything wrong about then.
what happened between your brother and allie was an adventure a fling. if your bro and his best friend are cool then your brother must be over her then.
2007-01-31 10:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Righteous anger is something which could anger God. Sinful anger isn't in keeping with reality. We could walk in the Spirit so as to not fulfill the lust of the flesh. this sort of anger that persons get from rumors and lies isn't godly anger. The mobs in Pakistan and in India have originated and been inspired by the devil himself. We could watch what we are saying and verify with the Lord. We could undergo in strategies we can be judged by each be conscious we talk. If we are saying something not authentic approximately somebody it could bring about an harmless guy or woman getting attacked. we could continually try the spirits to work out if the guy is talking righteously while uncertain.
2016-10-16 09:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by silvi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its normal for you to be upset. you feel like your brother was betrayed by YOUR friend. not very cool of her to not provide an explanation, at least to you if nobody else. let Allie know how you're feeling in this situation. sounds like you're in the middle of it all. and its not fair to you. because in the end, you're going to have to side with your brother because, he is your brother and that means much more than a friend. if she still doesn't understand, sorry to say, you'd probably be better off without her.
2007-01-31 10:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of feelings she had for him all this time was probably just a crush made into more b/c she couldn't have him. We always want what we can't have, that sorta thing. It was seriously wrong of her though to date your brother's best friend, she broke the unwritten rule. You need to tell her how you feel and if she is any kind of true friend, she will understand your anger and maybe tell you why she did this.
2007-01-31 10:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are wasting time and effort on some thing that is out of your control. Allie can go out with who ever she wants to, your brother is capable of asking her why she changed her thinking about him if he doesn't already know. As for her not understanding she is right, as none of this is your business,
2007-01-31 10:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's jerky of her to start dating your bro's friend, but it's life to stop liking someone. You and your bro should move on, because he will meet someone he loves, and he will forget about Allie. Plus, this isn't serious dating, it's highschool.
2007-01-31 10:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there has to be a reason why she stopped liking your brother. basically its between her and your brother. you shouldnt be upset because its not up to you to judge.
2007-01-31 10:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋