when i was in the same class with my friend, we were so close and always talked to each other. now, my teacher moved me to a different class and when me and my friend see each other in the hall, we merely say "hi". i really want to be close to her again but sometimes i just run out of things to say to her. she also is always hanging out with her bf right now. help!
2007-01-31 11:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by :)dreamer. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And she is my TRUE friend...........And i did make new friends but i just want to be closer with this one. if i go to her we do just start talkin but sometimes i just don't know what to talk about.
2007-01-31 11:15:47 · update #1
Glad that you takes friendship seriously and sincerely. However, life is not as such. Nothing is everlasting. People change and people move from places to places. You got to learn to detach attachments so that it does not hurt you so much. Get to know more people and build friendship but not 'attachment'.
Your gf is probably not so close to u as u thought and she is probably going thru the same situation as u. Both of u r lost on subj to talk as both of u r not seeing the same thing and sharing the fun. Whatever it is, let things go naturally and do your best to maintain ur relationship with her as a good friend would.
2007-01-31 11:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when you feel like they are turning their back maybe she feels that you think that you are better than her and she might be feeling the same thing as you but afraid that you will laugh or make fun of her for feeling that way. You might be close again but it is like a new shirt you like to wear it when it is new and then in time you decide to go back to the old and favourite shirt, her new BF might just make her realize how much she misses you Good luck
2007-01-31 11:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Janice D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think you should do is call her up and make plans over the weekend with her. She must be sad with separation at least a little bit, so that could break the ice. If she is hanging out with her boyfriend, maybe you can invite him with one of your guy friends or boyfriend (if you have either). This can give you time to also get to know her boyfriend. Just follow your intuition, it will know what to do, and Good Luck!
XOXO,
Katherine
2007-01-31 11:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happend to me but i made more friends in ma other classes lol so if u are in a different class that doesnt mean that u guys still cant be friends but it means that u just dont see eachother and as to the bf that tends to happen just get them to hang with u
2007-01-31 11:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i can totally realte to dat.
n if u guys r really close like u said u were in class den u dun need to think about wat to say
juss say hey (name) was up do u wanna have lunch together. den juss tell her how u feel. and let ehr do most of the talking for a while till u find sumting to talk about. or juss b elike hey (name) member in math class wen dis and dat ahppend hahaha omg den talk about stuff in ur class like argumesnts or stupidenss den juss go wit the flow and juss relax and juss be ur self dun try to impress her or watever cuz ppl will noe wen u tryin to impress dem and they migth feel uncomfortable
good luck hun
2007-01-31 11:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Leila A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her anytime available and get together more closely.Being move to another class is normal and that will not separate you from your friend.Advice her not to hang out with her bf for it will be fatal .She will be the loser.
2007-01-31 11:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by batu5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just the way it is with a new class or even a new school but ,people are just different,just get togeather with them and talk about it
2007-01-31 11:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by sami-joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is moving on. Sit her down, and talk about what you think is happening.
2007-01-31 11:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry so much...(easier said than done)...if she's a good friend then she wouldn't be so distant, and if she's not a good friend then you shouldn't care. You'll make loads of new friends!
2007-01-31 11:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by L T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this always happens we grow apart and grow up a little more, make some new friends,have fun!
2007-01-31 11:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋