Friends - December 2006

It seems like i'm still in high school when I hear grown as*s people talking sh*it or getting mad because "He said, She said" sh*it they hear... And your the only person who knows the true story... But since the "heard about it" they think they know it all...

2006-12-27 09:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 5

My best friend got back into a relationship with her abusive ex-boyfriend. Since then, she has avoided most contact with me, except when she's at th bar drunk and needs to text me with a stupid message. We agreed that we needed to talk about what was going on, and she admits that she knows it is hurting me. We're supposed to get together tomorrow, and I thought that since we wanted to to celebrate Christmas together, that it would just be the two of us. She informed me that we'd be going to the bar and meeting up the ex-boyfriend and his sister (who, btw, always ends up getting into dangerous situations when she's drunk), and would it be okay with me. I told her I wanted to hang with her, but she informed me that if I couldn't accept hanging out with them, she would only hang out with me in the afternoon, and wouldn't go and have drinks with me without them there. The ex-boyfriend has called me horrible things . It hurts not to have my bff, but its worse being in this situation.

2006-12-27 09:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly Jones-Fair 3

I'm a male in my mid-twenties. I've been a loner pretty much all my life...not so much out of choice but because I'm very self-conscious. I think I've have avoidant personality. I want to make friends with people my age, but I feel weird doing so. Pretty much everyone already has their own set of friends, so they will think I'm a weirdo when all I have is them to hang out with and no other friends of my own. Everyone says find clubs to join, but its not that easy with my schedule and location. I need some help. Thanks.

2006-12-27 09:23:43 · 7 answers · asked by . 1

Im 19 and my gf is 21 but I told her that Im 23.I really love her and I don't want to lose her and I guess she feels the same.I feel so sad because of this matter but I don't know how to tell her and if I do what will be her reaction.please help if you have some experiences or feelings about it.

2006-12-27 09:18:15 · 23 answers · asked by kiki 1

shes from NJ

2006-12-27 09:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by haz3L 1

my ex finished with me more than a year ago an since iv had 2 other boyfriends but the relations don’t work out because i cant seem to forget that other person who i feel for..so do you agree with me..you never seem to fully forget you 1st love

2006-12-27 09:08:12 · 35 answers · asked by pink an black 1

my friends are definitely talking behind my back. they talk about how quiet i am, and that i'm pissing them off because of that. but i can't help being quiet... i'm naturally like that! would you be upset if you had to go through the same thing?

2006-12-27 09:06:56 · 21 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3

..anyone that just wants a platonic, yet keep in touch kind of friendship??? Are you interested???

2006-12-27 09:04:40 · 16 answers · asked by chatterella 3

I work with this girl who i've been "friends" with for the past 10 years and she a little crazy always want the attintion and wont give up till she gets it... Just the other day she started hatting on my "game" and told a guy we both worked with that i have a b/f (which isnt true) and i'm only with our co-worker for gifts... And i got upset because she did it again this isnt the 1st time shes back stabbed me... But me being a good friend i forgave her a million times but this last time she made me really upset... so i just told her to "kick rocks"... was the mean on my part?

2006-12-27 08:59:04 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ 5

This is mainly for people who's been out of school for at least 5 years.

2006-12-27 08:53:25 · 16 answers · asked by Phillip D 2

2006-12-27 08:46:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi...
This is one complicate story... Me and my best friend met one guy...he was soooo hot...not only hot he was very nice person...mentaly and physicly...i liked him from begining...during time he started flearting with me...after some time it was obvious that he likes me too...but I needed to go somewhere for my holiday so my friend told me do not start nothing with him...u r going...and i didn't after a few weeks...i noticed she strted flearting with him very much...she told me she liked him as well very much...then he stop noticing me and strted flearting with her...they became very colse...they r not together...but they are very close...i really do care very much about him? and she is my best friend?...it is too confusing...any ideas what should I do or how should I act...
Thank you

2006-12-27 08:45:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 17 years old & the only child. My parents are extremely over protective. I have a neighbor which i dont talk much 2 that they hate because of his past and they assume that hes trying to get at me because of rumors people have told them so now everything he does somehow has to do with me and as for me i cant do anything go anywhere or even talk on the phone as i use to ive told them to stop that im not 5 years old but they dont understand. they are always thinking the worst of me when all im realy doing is studying and working and to top it off get good grades. I really cant stand it anymore i cant express what i feel i cant do anything...HELP ME....

2006-12-27 08:44:50 · 2 answers · asked by candy 1

My best friend of 8 years passed away last week...the thing was, we stopped talking almost 2 years ago over a stupid fight. She and I both had lots of problems and both needed antidepressants but we were truly the best of friends and I was the godmother of her young kids. I have since moved away to another state. I have often thought of calling her but kept putting it off. I missed her terribly.
I got the phone call that she had passed and after finding out that she really went downhill in every aspect of her life I felt horrible that I wasn't there for her! She became ill and died but not necessarily from her illness, it could have been a combination of many things. I really feel inside that she gave up...he husband found her dead in her bed.
I never got to make peace with her...and due to lack of funds I could not go to her funeral. I can't even admit to people who don't know her that we were not speaking. How can I get over this? How can I make peace with her?

2006-12-27 08:44:13 · 15 answers · asked by Prickly P 3

ok, my moms friends daughter (we've never met) want's me to email her. we've never met, so...what do i say?
i don't want to hurt her feelings, so i want to emial her, but....what do i say????

2006-12-27 08:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3

this is the situation:i was in my boyfriend's house on christmas eve, which all his family was there including his daughter...well that day he invited me but he never pay attention to me...he was always with his daughter which is something understandble, but never had the chance to stay awhile with me...after awhile he took to his lil brothers room where his cousins were and left me there, meanwhile he was everywhere w/his daughter even outside w/his friends except there...so later on the day i left, but because i felt left out and sad, but the the thing is that he told his parents that i left because he was only with his daughter and not paying attention to me...now his parents think the worst of me just bcuz i didnt say bye and because i supposibly was making faces to my bf and his daughter
but thats not all, now his parents also dont want to see me close to there bcuz my bf and me got an argument yesterday for some stupidities.

what do you think? please help!

2006-12-27 08:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by glitter2rainbowbrite@yahoo.com 1

What should I speak about? I've been asked to personally talk, any ideas on quotes.. etc.?

2006-12-27 08:37:35 · 4 answers · asked by sikes 2

i'm chicken scared or something but i 'm not that close to her anymore either but I ALWAYS CALL her on the holidays..
well ever sence she has been in and out of hospitals and i seen her all plugged in lost her hair she weights about 1 lb and don't look too good!
I had her phone number in my phone all i had to do was press send! and I didn't I'm a terrible friend and i feel bad because of my selfishness but i really have not a clue what to say i want to keep her moods up not bring her down if i was to call her i would be searching and i still am search for some sort of word then Hey i just called to say marry xmas well i'm going to let you go now...

i mean that sort seems like a slap in the face! but i want to call her! I want to know how she is doing! I want her to know that i love her.. i also want to tell her i'm so scared and i don't know how to act around her!
should i say this stuff to her?
please help me I love her like a sister and she is my oldest friend

2006-12-27 08:37:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 37 years old and don't have any friends that visit me. I work alone. My wife is leaving me. Basically, I'm gonna be alone. I'm too shy for the bar scene to work and I'm fat so even if I went I wouldn't have any luck.

2006-12-27 08:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by david419_2000 1

I have a problem with one of my best mates. he buys something e.g. clothes, trainers, jackets. He would use them to the maximum amount of time which is a good thing because you have paid for it but..... He would have minimum amount of clothes in his wardrobe for e.g. 2 trousers, 2 tops, 1 jacket 1 trainers and he would wear them for a year or two. As a friend i'm cool with that but i heard other people bad-mouthing my mate saying how cheap he looks. financially he is healthy so i dont see why he would not would to go shopping. i have tried several time to tell him about going shopping and he says he is happy with what he has. can you please help me as he is a really good friend of mine and i feel for him.

2006-12-27 08:31:21 · 1 answers · asked by Jack 3

2006-12-27 08:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by liveurlife411 1

Called a friend a bit ago, and he talked "in code" because his parents were close. Come on---we've been friends for 5 1/2 years. I'm offended...would you be?

2006-12-27 08:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5

Looking for a THomas Warren Kadell and dont have his ss# DL# are any other info. please help!

2006-12-27 08:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by talley 1

I've known him 4ever and he's really cute and I think I'm falling for him. What do I do?

2006-12-27 08:21:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

please if anyone can help found out she was living with her daughter and partner martin in cowfold west sussex running cafe in 2001 but not sure now just would love to here from her

2006-12-27 08:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by rabbit18 2

2006-12-27 08:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by *katie* 1

I told my close female friend that I needed time away from her to clear my head after she kept giving me undecisive answers if we'll go further than friends.She said if that's how I feel then she respects that and that maybe I do need time to sort my head out.(told her I don't know what to think\do anymore about her undecisiveness,am confused,need to clear my head).

The conversation ended on this note, with her saying:

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

Not spoken for 3 weeks now.(the longest ever!)What she thinking\feeling?Will she EVER speak to me again?What do I do now?

For xmas I sent her a xmas card and a small teddy(saying special friend)-just saying merry xmas and happy new year. I wrote a short message how special and unique she is+ how important the friendship is to me.

Who'd get 1st in touch again?

2006-12-27 08:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-27 08:12:18 · 37 answers · asked by liveurlife411 1

i have to write a paper on it

2006-12-27 08:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

See we were jjust playin until she kept callin mt bad names so i said i wasn't playin. She started to scream at me so i barly sqeezed her arm so she starts cryin and is being so insane.

2006-12-27 08:03:00 · 2 answers · asked by The dumb only seem to get dumber 1