I work with this girl who i've been "friends" with for the past 10 years and she a little crazy always want the attintion and wont give up till she gets it... Just the other day she started hatting on my "game" and told a guy we both worked with that i have a b/f (which isnt true) and i'm only with our co-worker for gifts... And i got upset because she did it again this isnt the 1st time shes back stabbed me... But me being a good friend i forgave her a million times but this last time she made me really upset... so i just told her to "kick rocks"... was the mean on my part?
2006-12-27 08:59:04 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think she feel jealous from u because u r much pretter than she
and guys g ive u more attention to u then her
and she notice that the guy who work with u feel more attractive to u than her
so she decited to tell him that u have bfriend to make him sto think about u
so give her a final chance
if she did it with u agian
so cut ur friendship with her forever
2006-12-27 09:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that was not mean on your part. You probably should have told her to kick rocks a while ago. Even though there are haters everywhere, it is up to you to eliminate them out of your circle. She is out to get you and get what you have. This so called friend is more of a headache and doesn't have your best interest in heart. If all she cares about is putting you on blast and calling you out to the world, why have you kept her around. She's not going to do anything but bring you down and keep stabbing you in the back until you don't have anything else for her to feed on. So had you not told her to go on about her business, she would have continued to make a fool out of you until she was ready to move around.
2006-12-27 09:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by DWAUNA L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off I have no idea where you learned english I think you should go back to school. Second if your screwin your co-worker for gifts then she did the right thing. You are not single and if you are then your a hooch. for give her? will she forgive you? she shouldnt.
2006-12-27 09:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by somebody 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is called jealousy. you dont need that kind of negative energy in your life, get rid of her, i swear, people like that are the ones that bring you down. It may be nice to feel like someone has to go through all that trouble to make you feel crappy just because theyre extremely jealous, but all in all its better to leave her behind! You should never allow someone to do that to you.
backstabbers can never be friends.
2006-12-27 09:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Tell her that friendship is about being happy with people, not upstaging them. Her behavior is normal for a 10 year old not adults.
2006-12-27 09:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a hater always a hater. She's going to stab you over and over because you roll over. She'd never disrespect you if you demanded respect. Step up to her this time, tell her where the line is, and don't let her cross it.
2006-12-27 09:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mergeman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the definition of a friend? Forgive her but get a better friend. With friends like this, you don't need enemys.
2006-12-27 09:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick rocks? Like it. No, you did the right thing. You don't have to back-stab her back or be mean but tell her she ain't welcome 'round your door no more...
2006-12-27 09:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a person like that shouldn't even have as good a friend as you
2006-12-27 09:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by ningenius+.+ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend. You should get revenge by backstabbing her and talk sh*it about her behind her back and get new friends. Good friends don't talk sh*it about each other.
2006-12-27 09:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋