Friends - December 2006

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2006-12-27 17:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by popstar lee 1

My friend that I grew up with shot himself a couple of weeks ago. No one knows why...but he wanted it more than anything it seems. It has only recently began to sink in. The holiday spirt isn't that happy or merry. Knowing that he won't open any presents or the thought that he won't eat saurkrat on new years with me sucks.
I remember the night that I found out, what a horrible time. That whole day was perfect, and hearing that killed me inside. I know how it happened, the details aren't important though. The rumors at school are becoming outrageous, stupid for that matter. There is nothing that I can do becuase no one knows how they started.
I am not looking for simpathy or an answer for this question. I just need to tell the world what happened and maybe prevent others from the same fate.
No one will really know how much this has changed my like, and the way that I look at life for that matter. I just want every one to know that it isn't the way out.
Some advice would be nice!

2006-12-27 17:13:09 · 18 answers · asked by J-Bird 2

2006-12-27 17:08:34 · 2 answers · asked by samanthapettigrew 1

Ive been with this one guy for a year now , he's my first serious bf and i care about him and stuff so does he , but lately i jus dun feel like i love him in the same way i used to i see him more as a friend. I tend to look at other guys and dont treat my bf like i used to . I feel like we grown apart but i know he's very very attached . We been friends for 4 yrs so i dont know how to break it off or if i should even do it . Theres this other guy i like , i dont think i have a chance of getting with him since they're both friends but i feel like since i like this guy and think of getting him its a sign that i dont like my boyfriend as much ,,, i dunno im confused as hell :S should i talk to my bf or should i just keep quiet until i know for sure how i feel ? ever since we past 8 months he been so boring n he a student like me so he doesnt work , i do though and he never has money to go out and do stuff . Im bored of him :S

2006-12-27 17:01:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

problemes , & other differances

2006-12-27 17:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by leestar_1 2

I'm a single mom of 1, living in a large studio, looking for a job, don't have much $ and the child's father is behind on payments.
I've allowed a friend to stay with me til she finds a place.

She moved out of her sister's house b/c they didn't get along and her brothers kicked her out of their apartment. Her parents live far away.
How long should I let her stay (it's been 2 1/2 wks)? Should she pay me something? She said she would give me $50 a wk (the same she gave her sister & brothers) but she hasn't given me $ for this wk. My rent is $600 a mth. She buys her own food that she doesn't like to share. She comes home in the evenings cause she works.

The positive side of her staying with me is that I have someone to talk to & she watched my child a few times.

Still, when I was going through a really difficult time, she didn't bother to contact me until a yr later (when she needed housing). This girl knows many people & has many friends. I don't know why she came to me.

2006-12-27 16:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by pojfiue c 1

she did something that really hurt me at the time, and tried calling me i guess to apologize, but i was really upset. I havn't spoke to her in a long time...and i think about her a lot...i really miss our friendship...i even dream about her (no, im not a lesbian). I guess it bothers me more than i realize....it's a complicated situation, and i don't know if i should confront her...and if so, what should i say?

2006-12-27 16:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by missamerica 1

I am a 12th grade student doing commerce. I am basically not that good in studies, i've a friend who've been with me for more than a decade and for the past those years I thought I really understood him as he was really kind to me and was a good real ideal friend. Now he behaves very indifferently and he doesnt talk to me at all, seems like he is trying to avoid me at this point...And I feel extremely sad for his change in attitude. Whenever he opens his mouth he talks about gadgets and all other science subjects and nothing else....Pls help me...

2006-12-27 16:44:45 · 3 answers · asked by Vips Says 2

What should I do??? I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.

2006-12-27 16:43:21 · 5 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3

maryalice was stationed with her husband Jerry in Ft Drum NY and Ft Knox KY, does anyone know her????

2006-12-27 16:39:56 · 3 answers · asked by ersecretary45 1

i want to find the family name Kailer at ...Buchenlander str 47... stuttgart 70569

2006-12-27 16:35:34 · 2 answers · asked by anton p 1

new year, new start, right?
well, i want to start off this year at school being nice & getting to have a lot of friends :)
for all you girls who are, or were popular, what'd you do?

& omg. please don`t say anythingg like, "popularity doesn`t matter once you`re out of junior high, highschool, etc."

it matters now. in our society. don't deny it, because you KNOW it does.

& most of the ppl who say things like "just be yourself. whether you`re popular or not, it doesn`t matter." were never popular so they say stuff like that, lol.

but yeah, please help!
with realistic answers (:

2006-12-27 16:33:44 · 17 answers · asked by Taylor. 5

2006-12-27 16:28:04 · 6 answers · asked by coolguy5243 1

i broke up with my ex about 6 mos ago and for about 2 mos he kept tryin to get back with me but even though i still cared so much for him i had to much pride to take him back. well now he lives in another state and i have been looking at his my space well about a month ago i was shoked to see that he had a pic of me and him on his my space. well seeing this made me think that mbey he still cares for me like i do him. I have been dying to send him an email but i coulndnt get the couarge well tonight sent him one i asked him how things have been and apoligised for what i had done. well now i cant belive i sent him an email and i am stessing about it. did i do the right thing and how do you think he will react?

2006-12-27 16:20:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a college student in my 20's and i just realize that there are more things in life

- i'm "tired" of my life: i want something MORE - bigger and better things, i'd rather travel the world than go to parties every weekend
- i'm sick of the "in crowd" and "cliques": i hate people that are soo exclusive and that are into hanging with the same, large group of people every weekend at parties - i only want to spend time with "important" people to me: close friends and family
- i dread school: i feel like i've accomplished nothing in school and badly want to be done soon...it's the most discouraging thing for me right now - and i'm in college by the way...
- i don't like going to the mall as much anymore: there are way too many people on the weekends, teeny boppers are EVERYWHERE and annoy me so much - and no offense, but i see a lot of peoplei know, and i want to shop in peace - i'm not in the mood to talk
- i long for independence...

so am i depressed? or just growing up?

2006-12-27 16:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of my husband's committed suicide on Christmas Eve. We live 400 miles away and it's really hard. We're trying to go home for the funeral, but don't know if we can.

How do you deal with death? Are there things I can do to help my huband grieve?

2006-12-27 16:07:52 · 22 answers · asked by withmyhands07 1

My roommate has someone living in our apartment, that is not on our lease. This person does not pay rent. I've tried talking to her with no luck. I'm really sick of the whole situation. Do I report my friend to our landlord and risk straining our relationship? I do have to live with this person and don't want there to be an tension. Should I tell the landlord I want out of the lease all together?

2006-12-27 16:07:25 · 4 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5

HELP.. FRIENdS?
PLEASE READ ALL Well she's been my friend since grade 3, well I have a site, and someone said the colour of my page looked like ****, and to change it.. I remember before my friend told my it looked like ****, and I should chang it, so I thought maybe it was her. But I being my self didn't like what whoever had to say so I wrote after saying that WHO ever wrote this is a ***, and I'm not going to change just because one person told me to... and I staided some names along with it, I staided all my friends names, and my enimies along with it, then my friend write in the guestbox. Why are you blaming me for telling you that your front page coulor looked like ****.. So now I'm really angry with her, should I be, she got all defencive, at least she could be more thankfull I didn't blam her straight up, because I origanaly thought it was her... Tell me should I be mad at her, or at my self?

2006-12-27 16:04:04 · 2 answers · asked by Rain-- 3

- i'm "tired" of my life: i want something MORE - bigger and better things, i'd rather travel the world than go to parties every weekend


- i'm sick of the "in crowd" and "cliques": i hate people that are soo exclusive and that are into hanging with the same, large group of people every weekend at parties - i only want to spend time with "important" people to me: close friends and family



- i dread school: i feel like i've accomplished nothing in school and badly want to be done soon...it's the most discouraging thing for me right now



- i don't like going to the mall as much anymore: there are way too many people on the weekends, teeny boppers are EVERYWHERE and annoy me so much - and no offense, but i see a lot of peoplei know, and i want to shop in peace - i'm not in the mood to talk


- i long for independence...


so am i depressed? or just growing up?

2006-12-27 15:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE READ ALL Well she's been my friend since grade 3, well I have a site, and someone said the colour of my page looked like ****, and to change it.. I remember before my friend told my it looked like ****, and I should chang it, so I thought maybe it was her. But I being my self didn't like what whoever had to say so I wrote after saying that WHO ever wrote this is a ***, and I'm not going to change just because one person told me to... and I staided some names along with it, I staided all my friends names, and my enimies along with it, then my friend write in the guestbox. Why are you blaming me for telling you that your front page coulor looked like ****.. So now I'm really angry with her, should I be, she got all defencive, at least she could be more thankfull I didn't blam her straight up, because I origanaly thought it was her... Tell me should I be mad at her, or at my self?

2006-12-27 15:52:04 · 2 answers · asked by Rain-- 3

Im 16 y.o. African American female and new to this whole question thing. So does any one out there want to befriend me?

2006-12-27 15:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by just me 2

if I beat weaker boy in a fight and make him say mercy in front of ppl watching?

2006-12-27 15:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by habib122873 1

I just moved to a new school. I have no friends. there's this guy in my class who has been consistently making fun of me,calling me names, talking all kinds of crap and spreading romours about me for no reason at all. it has been going on for more than I month. he has alot of friends, and as I mentioned, I'm a loner. I have no one to back me up. he seems to be nice to everyone in class except for me. I get so pissed off sometimes I want to punch that guy in the face. but I know that won't do me any good. just what does he have against me? this counts as being bullied, right? should tell the teacher on him? or any other suggestions on how to get him to stop bullying me and possibly get even with him?

2006-12-27 15:30:47 · 19 answers · asked by cheesestrings0204 1

i talked for 8 hours from 10:00 pm to 7:45 am with my friend michael and i think i mite love him. its just we've been threw a lot the past 4 months. I have a lot in common with him and i talked with him on the phone longer than anyone else. We talk and stuff like that. We used to like each other and were about to go out before he went out with my fake half sister now he doesn't know how he feels and has another girlfriend again but i know its meant to be, he's a grade higher but age don't matter. but what i am saying is this is the only year we can go out cause next year he will be in highschool and then the year after that i am moving! all i am saying is don't tell me to move on cause i am only in 7th grade i am a mature young adult. please help

2006-12-27 15:24:29 · 6 answers · asked by dork 2

I know I will "NEVER" find a friend like him or get that close to another ever again.

Has anyone got any sugestions on how to pick up and go on ?

2006-12-27 15:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Bridget 3

We are very close and i dont think asking her striaght out will work. I've known her for about 5 1/2 years. What signs do i look for thats she's into me and what could i do to boost our relationship.

2006-12-27 15:17:54 · 22 answers · asked by Harley G 1

why dont people care anymore about people, thanks

2006-12-27 15:13:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-27 15:10:15 · 8 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3

I'm 17 and i've had a crush on this 25 yr old guy for about 3 yrs now and i want to ask him to the movies but i'm not sure what kind of movie i should suggest? Can you please help me? And also..no Chick flicks!! I hate them!

2006-12-27 15:04:36 · 26 answers · asked by Queen of Scream Fan 2

i have liked him for 4 yrs and i am 13yrs old

2006-12-27 14:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous