I know I will "NEVER" find a friend like him or get that close to another ever again.
Has anyone got any sugestions on how to pick up and go on ?
2006-12-27 15:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Bridget 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Count your blessings:
You had a great friend.
You friend is no longer suffering.
His memories are forever written indelibly in your heart. This is a great thing.
Do not brood. It does not help. Just look at all the good things. It brings sunshine into your life.
Time is a greatest healer of all. Give it. Take solace in the fact that there are countless others in the same situation as you. Join a support group with similar situation - Your doctor can help find one.
God bless.
2006-12-27 15:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone you care for is hard and to such an ugly disease to. I have also lost a best friend/companion about 6 yrs ago, well it will be 6 on May 25Th of next year and I still miss him. He is always in my heart. I lost my mother 5 yrs ago to Cancer also. People say you get over it and I do not believe that, with time it changes the feeling kind of mellow out a little. I would not ever want to forget them. I am truly sorry for your lose. You are in my prays.
2006-12-27 15:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by newwingsfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry to hearken to about your co-laborers daughter. that's poor and that i have heard about that taking position with pitbulls beforehand. i imagine that maximum human beings cry over the death of their canines because such an in intensity bond is shaped quite in many circumstances. in case you don't love canines that a lot firstly, i imagine it should be difficult to create such an in intensity bond and also you'll probably not cry at their death. If the canines had behavioral topics or led to nuisances for the period of your stay at the same time, that too would probably reason you now to not experience as a lot soreness. I, on the different hand, understand how close of a bond someone could have with an animal because I have had between the most loving canines I have ever seen for almost 5 years now. He cuddles with me, provides me massive hugs and is continually extremely excited when I get residing house each and daily. No human is ever that excited to work out me - LOL. they extremely are (may be in case you get the right one) "guy's superb chum" and that i imagine all of us would cry over dropping their very superb chum.
2016-12-01 06:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by gnegy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to read that. But u need 2 move on. I am not saying 2 forget him. U need 2 go outside hang out with good people n search 4 a new friend. Talk 2 your friends try 2 enjoy life. It really hurts wen u loose some love1 but life don't ends there. Ur frend soul will cry if he saw u crying n depressed from Heaven. So Cheer up
2006-12-27 15:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cancer is a very ugly illness. But you need to remember that it's better the he is not suffering anymore. It is always hard to lose someone you love. But it's better to know that they are not suffering anymore, then to have them here and in pain. I have lost several very loved people to cancer, and have never really got over it. But at the same time I couldn't stand to see them in the pain they were in. They are in a better place. And yes, I miss them very much, and no one can ever take there place. So just remember the good times, and the love, and the person they were. They would want you to be happy, and to go on with your life.
2006-12-27 15:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by Bobby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you expect to get over it? Be gentle on yourself... you lost your best friend & companion -- I'm not sure it's healthy to be "over " something so devastating. I know in time it's possible to move forward. Have you read books on grief and the whole process? And the never part, well never say never right. Maybe you won't find his exact duplicate but that doesn't mean you won't have another meaningful, close relationship in due time.
2006-12-27 15:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by JeyJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that you will never find a friend like him or get close any one else? You need to give yourself time to grieve! Only time can heal your sadness! Plus, you will always miss your friend but as time goes by the pain is not as harsh or piercing! I like to think that once we die and go to "the other side" that we will see our loved ones again! ~that always makes me feel better....plus, your friend is with you and watching over you! And, does not want you to continue missing him/her anymore...because they are right there with you! I hope this helps!
2006-12-27 15:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will ever make that pain go away sweetie. Time will help ease it but it will always be there. You have to live on and remember to think about him and how he would have wanted you to be after he had passed. Always keep him in your heart and mind and keep him alive there. Plus don't bury those feelings of hurt and let them build up until they explode. Try and talk with someone to help you ease those feelings or at least let them out.
2006-12-27 15:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never get over him completely. He will want you to remember him, but he wouldn't want you to be alone for the rest of your life. He would want only the best for you. It is OK to move forward because you will never loss your past, but don't give up your future.
2006-12-27 15:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be youreself and youll find there are a lot of interesting people out there.
2006-12-27 15:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋