I am a 12th grade student doing commerce. I am basically not that good in studies, i've a friend who've been with me for more than a decade and for the past those years I thought I really understood him as he was really kind to me and was a good real ideal friend. Now he behaves very indifferently and he doesnt talk to me at all, seems like he is trying to avoid me at this point...And I feel extremely sad for his change in attitude. Whenever he opens his mouth he talks about gadgets and all other science subjects and nothing else....Pls help me...
2006-12-27 16:44:45 · 3 answers · asked by Vips Says 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetie
As long as the guy talked about gadgets and all other science subjects and nothing else, I think that is a good future husband for some body. In your age, the guy always wants to tell his girlfriend how beautiful she is. After that, they usually talk about sex and more sex. It ends up with more trouble that you do not need right now. You need to think about some gadgets and all other science subjects to have some kind of conversation with this boy. You really don’t want to loose him, even as a friend. He probably knows you were boring with him now with little of any connection in the conversation. He might think you were lost interesting on him. Don’t you think you need to talk about, “College for life?” That might light everything up a little.
2006-12-27 17:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the commerce part have to do with it? Besides that, are interest change, your will change at some point too. Dont think this is the end of youre relationship. My best friend, whos a guy had three really good friends since they were kids, when they were in the 12th and graduating theyre interest began to change, he went to college in a nother state and was making new friends, but still loving the guys back home, the other was still stuck on high school girls so was still staying in touch and the last was out doing all sorts of things such as getting married on a whim and joing the army. His interest has shifted, youre still budies but sometimes your eyes shift from what you trutly hold on, but you always return to what you love the mose. Lucky Charms man be cool and dont be clingy...Dude he doesnt think youre gay does he?
2006-12-27 16:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ask a Health Nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you especially since you are good friends. Maybe those are the things that interest him the most. Everyone changes over time.
Maybe talking to him and asking him if there is anything wrong. Iron out the wrinkles. :)
2006-12-27 16:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋