i talked for 8 hours from 10:00 pm to 7:45 am with my friend michael and i think i mite love him. its just we've been threw a lot the past 4 months. I have a lot in common with him and i talked with him on the phone longer than anyone else. We talk and stuff like that. We used to like each other and were about to go out before he went out with my fake half sister now he doesn't know how he feels and has another girlfriend again but i know its meant to be, he's a grade higher but age don't matter. but what i am saying is this is the only year we can go out cause next year he will be in highschool and then the year after that i am moving! all i am saying is don't tell me to move on cause i am only in 7th grade i am a mature young adult. please help
2006-12-27 15:24:29 · 6 answers · asked by dork 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we are really good friends and have almost wen out b4 should i wait? I don't want to move on but 4 months is a long time i had to wait he teaches me life lessons and stuff helped me get over my fears but now i want more
2006-12-27 15:30:41 · update #1
is it rite for me to fall in love with a guy friend of mine? is it rite to like michael? is it rite to have feelings for him? is it normal to really like michael after talking on the phone for 8 hours? i could have been asleep but i stayed up to listen to him treat me well tell me things that i never thoght a boy would be able to express. to fall in love with his sensitivity and compassion he has, to relize i really like his lessons and personality and really enjoy talking to him. i mean come on this guy took me from rock bottom almost all the way up but how can i sit here and watch us not be together? to wait and hope for something to happen? but doesn't he seem perfect? too perfect? NO JUST RIGHT! he's incredible. so wat can make me go from rock bottom all the way up?
2006-12-27 15:40:11 · update #2
ok our parents didn't know. but we are allowed to talk with each other since our parents approve of us being friends
2006-12-27 15:44:15 · update #3
young relationships nevr last i have been threw 5 times. 3 times with the same guy. but he acutally talks to me shares feelings makes me feel good about life and myself
2006-12-27 16:08:48 · update #4
Okay, Im in 8th grade and let me tell you, this is probably not going to last. Young relationships like these aren't ususally true love anyway. Just infatuation because, hey! we're teenagers here. It happens. Most likely, in a few months, none of this will be the same anyway. i wouldn't worry about it too much. I thought I really liked this guy...I thought I really loved him, we talked ALOT and he felt the same way. Now, we're still friends but we barely ever talk and I can't believe I ever felt that way about him. i think you should just stay friends and not worry about this until you've experienced more in life. It's great you guys are close and everything but go get some sleep. Besides, take it from me, I've learned lately that there is WAY more to life than just guys and so much more you could be focusing on. I mean go have fun, worry about the complicated love stuff later...we have PLENTY of time...
2006-12-27 16:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very immature even for being a 7th grader; you ask for advice but really only want to be reaffirmed of your position. I have to wonder what the heck is wrong with both of your parents for letting you be on the phone for 8 hours in the middle of the night at both of your ages.
Being that you are both young, it is doubtful that his current girlfriend, or his next one for that matter, will last very long but you should wait to pursue him until he breaks up with her or he is likely to lose respect for you and you will end up being his "back-up" girl, the one he runs to each time he gets dumped by the girl he is currently pursuing and really wants.
Being that he has gone out with your half-sister, you will then have the added bonus of adding sibling rivalry into the mix and even if she has no interest in him at all, she may start pursuing him just to get into a one-upmanship competition with you. If she dumped him and he still has feelings for her, he may end up dumping you for her.
Just be aware of what you are getting yourself into before making the next step.
2006-12-27 23:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok first of all your only in 7th grade so things shouldn't get to physical but you should wait or move on. he sounds like worth the wait but of another catches your eye go for it. you shouldn't try to break them up but you want to attract him. make others attracted and watch the friendship grow and grow and grow then you should make your move (as long as they're broken up)
2006-12-27 23:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Drama Queen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would have to say friend - maturity cannot be based on your perceptions of yourself - rather the perceptions of society in general. That is not to say that young people cannot be mature - just the same as older one seldom are :D
You are only young and have a whole life ahead of you.
2006-12-27 23:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
seventh grade is to young to be dating
2006-12-27 23:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well... in that case... get it while you can. If you will give it, he will certainly take it.
2006-12-27 23:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by gabound75 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋