Friends??????

Question

HELP.. FRIENdS?
PLEASE READ ALL Well she's been my friend since grade 3, well I have a site, and someone said the colour of my page looked like ****, and to change it.. I remember before my friend told my it looked like ****, and I should chang it, so I thought maybe it was her. But I being my self didn't like what whoever had to say so I wrote after saying that WHO ever wrote this is a ***, and I'm not going to change just because one person told me to... and I staided some names along with it, I staided all my friends names, and my enimies along with it, then my friend write in the guestbox. Why are you blaming me for telling you that your front page coulor looked like ****.. So now I'm really angry with her, should I be, she got all defencive, at least she could be more thankfull I didn't blam her straight up, because I origanaly thought it was her... Tell me should I be mad at her, or at my self?

Answer 1

Your insensitive tirade at everyone you know is very childish. You should be disappointed with yourself because you are passing judgement with no supporting evidence in a public forum for all to see. It does not make you look attractive to others. It makes you look very immature and small minded. Certainly you can make your page whatever color you want, however, in a public forum, like a web page, you are inviting comment from others and as such, you leave yourself open to accept opinions of others whether good or bad. So, you really have no right to flame everyone who doesn't agree with you and certainly you should not insult by name everyone you know or you will soon have no friends at all. Odds are, the comment was left by a complete stranger. btw, women who use foul language are unattractive to boys, it makes them look sleasy.

Answer 2

Weren't you overreacting just a little? If you want an answer to your question than, in my opinion, you should not be mad at her. If you were in her position wouldn't you get defensive?