We are very close and i dont think asking her striaght out will work. I've known her for about 5 1/2 years. What signs do i look for thats she's into me and what could i do to boost our relationship.
2006-12-27 15:17:54 · 22 answers · asked by Harley G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We are very close and i dont think asking her striaght out will work. I've known her for about 5 1/2 years. What signs do i look for thats she's into me and what could i do to boost our relationship. Every time our eyes meet, she stays looking into mine for about 10 sec and then looks away smiling
2006-12-27 15:40:06 · update #1
Say like, "I know we've been friends for a while and i think i'm falling for you. Do u think theres any chance in the world that we could be more then friends?" Goodluck .
2006-12-27 15:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
I suggest that you just ask her since you've known her for 5 1/2 yrs this shouldn't be to hard. So what about " Blank, lets go out to dinner this Sat. and maybe get a movie in?" See what she say's , I'm sure she'll say yes.
While you two are out allow this to be a time where you talk and get to know each other more. If she's into you trust me you'll know. Also during conversation if the evening has went well see if she'd like to maybe do something next Sat. or another day of the week. If nothing else what about let's say see if she's free on Wed. to maybe meet and get a latte at the cafe or something.
As times goes on and your spending time together things will fall into place. Besides whats the worse that can happen other than having a good time with a good friend that could lead to more if you guys have lots in common and enjoy each other.
Good luck.. Hey!! What are you waiting on? why are you still here .. call this girl up ask her out for this coming Sat!! What about a new years eve party!! Go on... pick that phone up!! LOL
Take care and have fun!!
2006-12-27 15:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those very delicate situations that just might blow up in your face: she might not be interested at all. If you know her that well, then you should know by now how she acts when she's interested in someone. Your only recourse is to wait for a good moment, one with some intimacy (i.e. just the two of you) and tell her that you like her more than a Friend, and that if she felt the same way that you would like to develop things further.
Don't freak out if she doesnt return your feelings though - a) you never know how things like that are going to turn out with time. and b) you wouldnt want to lose a freind like that because of your pride.
You've waited this long, a little while more most likely wont make that big of a difference. Take some time to think about it - then when you think you have found a plan of action sleep on it.
I have gotten few sound pieces of advice in life, but one of them was this: never make a big decsion until you have had a good meal and a night of sleep.
Good Luck
2006-12-27 15:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be surprised how sentimental girls feel about what boys think is corny. Under the right circumstances, "will you be my girl friend" can be touching and sweet, especially if you are sincere. Try to plan a romantic evening at home or in a cozy restaurant. Have a little wine (if you are of age, of course.) Sit on the same side of a cozy booth with her. Take her hand in yours, look into her eyes and say, we've been close for 5 1/2 years. At the risk of sounding corny I just want to make it official by asking, so will you be my girlfriend?
Try it. She'll like it.
2006-12-27 15:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games. Be honest; tell her all the reasons she's special to you and why you appreciate her. Then ask her to give you a chance at something more than a friendship. If she says no, at least she knows what she means to you. And if she says yes, then wooowhoo!
As for a sign that she's into you, if she doesn't stop you when you start, then it's a go. Also, make sure to look in her eyes cuz that will tell you most everything you need to know. Good luck!
2006-12-27 15:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by roersu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is thinking the same thing? We are close and yet this guy does not have the courage. Girls like courageous young man.
What is there to do? Just ask. Hey, no harm done. Worst she can say is No. Then, give it time and ask again. What's wrong with that?
2006-12-27 15:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Harley,
There is nothing in the world wrong with simply saying, "I really enjoy your company and would like to spend more time with you. Would you like to go out to dinner with me on Friday?"
That should get your point across without being corny and allow you to be sincere at the same time. Good luck!! :)
2006-12-27 15:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably shuldn't go out with her if u's are good friends. Just be friends with her or else you could end up not liking each other and you dont want that after 5 yrs
2006-12-27 15:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jozza321 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all find out if she feel the same way about you, because she can make a come back and say i don't want to jeopordize the friendship. but if you do the main thing is to express how you fell about her and come straight out and let her know that you have feelings for her and that you would love to be more then friends.
2006-12-27 15:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're this variety of sweetie....and that i'm 'virtually' embarassed to admit I had no clue what the hell you have been speaking approximately till I study the a number of solutions. (surely it became Sofia...the easy bulb got here on, oh yeah, rings! ha) ~tomboy~ I basically squeal whilst *censored*....and oh my do I SQUEAL
2016-10-28 12:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋