Friends - October 2006

My friend & I have been together for 4 years and she is very controlling & over bearing at times. She wants to run my life & tell who I can & cannot see. I have been trying to stop doing things with her & stop calling her too. Now she is stalking me. She sits across from where I work at and she follows me at times. She text messages me all the time telling me to call her when I can & when I have time. Why does she stalk me?? What does that mean? I thinks she likes me like a girlfriend too. She is always showing me affection. I wished she wasn't like this at all. What should I do??

2006-10-17 05:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by scolburn1961 1

Are there people here who have a problem with jealousy?
For example one of your bestest buds has like the best voice I ever heard, is a deadly dancer and everyone just thinks she's awsome and cool.
It is stupid to say this but she makes me feel like a nobody and like I have no talent, I know she doesn't mean it and doesn't even mention it but I just can't help to be totaly jealous of her.

How can I beat this feeling?

2006-10-17 05:47:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just saw the information in a French newspaper today.

2006-10-17 05:45:59 · 17 answers · asked by Woody 2

i have the lady's first name her address, phone number, and license plate number,but everytime i go on a web site to figure her last name it comes up her business and no info do you know of a free website that i can use the infermation that i have to find out her last name?

2006-10-17 05:32:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend is adopting a new born who is still called baby girl jones so she needs a first name That goes with jones and is Not that common but cute at the same time thnaks!

2006-10-17 05:25:58 · 21 answers · asked by *Glamour* 2

Is there a Japanese (translated to English) phone book directory or a Japan people search directory I could use? If so I would gladly apprciate it. The last name of the family is Nagayo/ and I recall that my mom say's the name of the sons were Shenji and Shieki. If you are from Japan or know a way that I can contact this family please, please let me know. It's very important to me to help my mom. Thanks.

2006-10-17 04:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by malaika712 1

I am married, but not necissarily all that happily. I have a good friend at work that is driving me nuts in my dreams....she is cute but not that cute, but we click really really well (opposites attract sort of thing). and she is in my dreams every night with out fail....some times sexual most of the time not though.....in a lot of my dreams i am actually married to her instead. Do you guys think i should do something about it or is my sub concious just infatuated?

2006-10-17 04:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by brandon l 2

I've become really good friends with this girl. We used to do everything together and I guess you could say we were pretty inseperable. Something happened, but i'm not sure what and now shes got what I like to think as a new best friend....I miss how we used to hang out and talk, and ive told her this, and she feels the same way. Shes told me some things that make me question her loyalty to our friendship. Things have become really awkward between the two of us, I guess thats mostly my fault because I try to avoid her and when we are around each other I dont believe anything she says. How can I approach this situation and try to help save our friendship?

2006-10-17 04:47:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a very ugly boy.

2006-10-17 04:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by moon 1

2006-10-17 04:40:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do about my best friend?
I have known my best friend (girl) for 2 years now. I am a guy. We used to be so close, and did absolutely everything together. Now she has a new boyfriend, who she told me about even before they got together. She does everything with him now. When he is not free she decides to text, phone or meet me just to staisfy me, not meaning it . Basically only when convienent for her. When I try to not talk she eventually asks me to meet with her, putting more strain and hurt into me.
I have told her many times how I feel, and she does not listen and always has an answer. I have texted her recently again, saying I miss the old days, the fun, and said also that I am not trying to be awkward but only telling the truth.To give her a final chance, and she has not texted back. Then i told her again how i feel, and she was very aggresive. Now she is being really nice to me, but I fear it is a short term thing only. I just want to spend time with her alone!

2006-10-17 04:26:46 · 18 answers · asked by Michael 1

Is there a casual way to tell my bf that have a male friend matt i met the first day of college we became friends fast and i was considering dating him but my mom was not thrilled he was 22 years old so i told him we should just be friends.He also was still hung up over an ex.gf who cheated on him he seemed emotionally unstable and was constantly depressed. He told me he used to be addictted to drugs (meth) and was going to meetings. I started seeing my bf because talking to matt was like being sucked into a black hole.I really feel a connection with my bf and we have a lot in common/family oriented large families.I told matt yesterday i had a bf and he called me a stupid ***** and that he was going to break both of my legs.I am kind of scared all three of us attend same college. My bf is also a hot head from staten island.

2006-10-17 04:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by Jackie P 1

Also what is the feature if you found you'll leave the man or not marry him

2006-10-17 04:21:13 · 11 answers · asked by my_a7lamy 3

i have a friend... that grew into an intimate relationship. We became steady after a while but then broke up because she said she cant love me, because she only treat me as a special friend. and i have found out that she like another guy, but admitting only to be friends which i doubt so. she said that they are only friends but treating him like his boyfriend...

2006-10-17 04:16:32 · 10 answers · asked by smileefacee_2 1

this kid at my school wants to fight me but i don't want to. he wants to fight me due to rumors around school that i called a girl who i really really like a b*tch. now why would i do that if i like the girl im a sophmore. and she's a freshman but the kid that wants to fight me is also a sophmore what do i do iv' got 5 days until he comes back from being suspended for fighting

2006-10-17 04:15:23 · 2 answers · asked by jon 1

I need a penpal.

2006-10-17 04:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by waskibabe 1

This past Sunday, a very close friend of the family lost her 3yr old son because her boyfriend sat a loaded gun on the bedroom floor. The little boy picked it up and shot himself in the face and died. Her 9yr old son walked in and saw it as it happened. I am very angry with her and I don't know how to get past it to attend the funeral. I feel that if she knew a loaded gun was in the house, she should have made her boyfriend put it away. My daughter is 6 weeks younger than her son, and I strongly feel that she did not protect her child. How do I get past my own feelings to attend the funeral? I can't sleep at night and it's been on my mind the last 2 days. She sickens me. (This is not a joke.)

2006-10-17 04:11:30 · 35 answers · asked by GreenEyedSista 4

my friend has been really upset and when i was talking to him he was talking about sucide and its really scaring me what should i do????

2006-10-17 04:11:00 · 6 answers · asked by somebodyssexygirl 3

I need fast answers! I don't know what to do. There are these 2 girls! They're bullies, they bullied me all last year cause i was the new kid in school! anyway, I have this friend that i met a while ago! At first i wasn't very nice to her cause she asked for paper but i wouldn't give her it, i told her that i needed it! She asked me to help her with her work, i wouldn't even do that, and she wouldn't do anything to help me either! Anyway now these 2 girls taht are bullies. They got in a bit of a fight last week. Now Jamie, one of the bullies is going to meet my new friend in town at lunch time. I don't know what to do! I don't want her to get hurt, she doesn't even know about what's going to happen! I can't find her to tell her not to go! Lunch already just started, and i'm scared that somethings gonna happen! Please tell me what i should do. I want her help her, but i don't know how. I don't want her to suffer the same way i did! What should i do?

2006-10-17 04:06:55 · 17 answers · asked by Kayla B 1

Am I asking to much from my children's schools bus company? Times have changed.?
I have children that catch the bus from my house. One 1st grader, 2 second graders. 1- 3rd grader , 1- 4thgrader and 1 -5th grader. We live in the Kansas City area and is getting cold. Not only that I am unable to see the bus stop that is at the bottom of the hill at my street. A number of the kids have been labled " hard to handle kids" I and many others have asked that an additional bus stop be made closer to the top of the hill. Were they can be more closley watched. The bus owner has rudly applied that that is were the stop has always been. And there has never been a problem befor. She is very rude and confruntational about the matter and will not even listen to my plea. Other mothers have even called her,and her dimener was the same. I went on line and found a School Bus Scheduling and Routing info for our district. It was adopted JANUARY 18, 1982 revised in 92,99,01. It brakes my heart that they will not acomadate us. Am I asking to much?

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2006-10-17 04:04:51 · 10 answers · asked by Ang 2

There is a person named "Kushal Samant", whose email address I want find out. He lives in the city of Kudal (India). He is 16 years of age and interested in Computers too. Please, do help me to find his address. Do me a favour and do not post lists of people finding sites, but tell of the results. Thanks for any and every help you render for I an waiting for your positive response.

2006-10-17 04:02:50 · 2 answers · asked by Cephalic 3

smile:)

2006-10-17 03:51:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend had met an old flame in Feb & had felt all the old feelings for him flooding back. She asked me to cover up for her, but I was very reluctant to do so, but gave into her, as i thought she deserved a little happines as her husband had been violnt to her in the past and if their marraige was over it was over. to cut a long story short the guy agreeded he still had feelings for her and wouldnt mind seeing her from time to time but didnt want anything serious as he had a partner and a young child and would never give them up. We were leaving the pub one night wen her husband turned up and saw her hand in hand with this guy they had a huge row and she left her husband for two weeks and stayed with another friend of ours. she and I went to the pub the week after the row I told her it wasnt a good idea. The guy told her after what had happend with her hubby he wanted no more to do with her. She is now back with her husband and has told him and everyone else that it was me.

2006-10-17 03:48:20 · 14 answers · asked by charlie 1

I was teased eva since the 3rd grade & my mom abused me. I have this issue where I can't trust people cuz 1 of my closest friends was using me 4 my money & cuz I bought her stuff.

So now 1 of my friends that is like my sister hangs out with me all the time & I didn't start buying her stuff until a month ago. I've known her 4 half a year & I'm starting 2 wonder if sometimes when she doesn't talk 2 me if it's cuz she knows I'll still talk 2 her & still buy her stuff. Help!!

2006-10-17 03:46:24 · 6 answers · asked by lakersfan_4life1 2

I have a good friend whom I have romantic feeling for. Can I still be friends with him without hurting myself or our friendship? How can I get passed my feelings and keep it friends only?

2006-10-17 03:43:53 · 4 answers · asked by manda 1

My friend has a rich grandma who buys her anything she wants, when she wants it. It got really bad at prom last year when she came to school and bragged and bragged about her 400 dollar dress, and criticized me for buying one at Deb's for 60. All she did was talk about this dress. So after prom she settled down again and now that its time to talk about college, she is criticizing everyone for not turning in applications yet, she keeps reminding me that since MY family gets free lunches, that i could apply for free, and brags about how she's going to go to an ivy league college. She rubs it in her face that she gets better grades than me, talks about me behind my back when im not at school, and today i caught her getting something wrong and she literally yelled at me in front of the entire class because she was so upset. She's driving me crazy and i dont know how to tell her to just calm down or leave me alone...right now id be happy with either one.

2006-10-17 03:40:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My lover has a licence to own a motorbike, and I do know that a motorbike is a dangerous way to travel, how can I tell my lover onto buying a car instead. What advices or words to say to a lover onto thinking of buying a car to drive around and still have the motorbike as well as part of his daily transport. Help Please.. thanks so much =)

2006-10-17 03:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by SimileyDaisy 5

He dosent have the best looks but has a good heart. Im always thinking of making out with him or loose my virginity with him. I have alot of dreams about it especially with him. Is that bad? Or am I taking a step too far because he isnt even my boyfriend?

2006-10-17 03:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by Helen W 1

im 21 and she is 28. i met her this year-jan6. we call ourselves best friends we have been there for each other. we have slept on the same bed 3 things and nothing happened although i wanted some but i dont make the first move even if im horny like ****.. e n ways my problem is she mad at me over a stupid reason and she ignores my calls. i helped her out with 1600 when she was in debt. she said she gonna pay me before school starts and school resumed like 2 months ago and she hasnt paid a dime. i dont normally ask people to pay me back( i think it's kinda rude) i normally wait but i cant wait any longer- im now in debt and i really wanna pay off the debt with the money she is owing me.... screw our friendship... i dont really care if she is mad at me or not... i just wanted my money and whenever i get it, i think im done with her cos i think she is pulling me backwards in my dreams. should i call her like 10000 times a day until she picks up or sood i wait until she calls me ?

2006-10-17 03:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

because one of my so called friends(who's a smut) sleeped with the guy im messing with and i forgave him because i still have feelings for him and someome told me that she lead him on but forgave her because i forgave him so my other friends are now mad at me because they think im stupid for forgiving both of them but yet before i forgave them they were trying to get me to forgive them both ?

2006-10-17 03:21:40 · 13 answers · asked by dimplz_89 1