My friend had met an old flame in Feb & had felt all the old feelings for him flooding back. She asked me to cover up for her, but I was very reluctant to do so, but gave into her, as i thought she deserved a little happines as her husband had been violnt to her in the past and if their marraige was over it was over. to cut a long story short the guy agreeded he still had feelings for her and wouldnt mind seeing her from time to time but didnt want anything serious as he had a partner and a young child and would never give them up. We were leaving the pub one night wen her husband turned up and saw her hand in hand with this guy they had a huge row and she left her husband for two weeks and stayed with another friend of ours. she and I went to the pub the week after the row I told her it wasnt a good idea. The guy told her after what had happend with her hubby he wanted no more to do with her. She is now back with her husband and has told him and everyone else that it was me.
2006-10-17 03:48:20 · 14 answers · asked by charlie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I doubt the husband is not stupid and probably knows it was her but sometimes it's easier to blame someone else. I would give her a wide birth for the time being. She probably only said it was you for fear of repercussion from her violent husband. Only she can sort it out by plucking up the courage to leave him. As long as your own husband believes you then you are luckier than your friend. She obviously has no self esteem.
2006-10-17 03:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by pinkimmylou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person IS NOT your friend..... Never has been and never will be!!
Tell your hubby the truth and be honest to everyone else. But there is an old saying "lies always come back to haunt you".... With anyluck your so called friend will become haunted very soon.
Stand up for yourself or you will get lost in all the lies!
2006-10-17 04:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by kellz_car 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ruby sweetie, you are thinking with the mentality of the 7'awagaya! lol Hardly anybody will give you an honest straightforward answer to this question here because this is considered to be very private here in Egypt. I can answer you in private if you really want to know ya 7ishariya! I'll just say it was within reasonable limits ... not that sort of safah and habal we hear about sometimes.
2016-03-28 12:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Aline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She blamed you- well he saw her hand and hand w the other guy!! Duh!! Not good to play around in marriage- if he is violent he needs to quit- and there is no excuse for cheating-she doesn't need to use you and pull you in the middle of her games!! Sorry- and she does not need to be cheating with a cheater that has a child= what a mess- she needs to go home and be a wife- and get marriage counseling an work things out- D
2006-10-17 04:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a lot of decpetion to me, do you really want to associate with a person like this? I wouldnt, Id say wash your hands of her and find friends that dont like or cheat. She should of left her husband long ago if he is abusive to her. Cheating doesnt solve anything.
2006-10-17 03:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by bitch_with_atitude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for her bad choices... Whether people believe you or not... You are not at fault for her cheating..... she chose to do it herself.
She sounds like she is not a friend anyway and I think she might attract the wrong kind of people.
You are well rid of her kind.
Your only mistake was acting on her request, but other than that you need to forgive yourself and move on.
Drop her like a hot potatoe and anyone who believes her story... They are brainwashed and can't think for themself......
2006-10-17 04:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is def not a friend she is an enemy, ok so maybe at best she panicked about her marriage, but if she wanted to lie their are other ways than putting you under fire! She should respect you and your marriage and your morals! i would be reluctant to speak to her ever again!
2006-10-17 03:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by sexy pussycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first that aint NO FRIEND thats a FOE an ENEMy. PRAY ABOUT IT TRUST ME GODS ARNSWERS PRAYERS BELEIVE IT OR NOT> forgive your friend and forget her. reassure your husband that you love him and always remember the vowels through thick n thin. cast your burdens onto JESUS christ fro he cares for you. if you have tried everything else try PRAYER xxx good luck n may GOD guide you amen
2006-10-17 04:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by kidda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That person is definantly not your friend. Try and save your rep and your marriage and tell her hubby what is goin on.
2006-10-17 03:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your marriage and forget the so called friend.
2006-10-17 04:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋