what should i do ?

Question

im 21 and she is 28. i met her this year-jan6. we call ourselves best friends we have been there for each other. we have slept on the same bed 3 things and nothing happened although i wanted some but i dont make the first move even if im horny like ****.. e n ways my problem is she mad at me over a stupid reason and she ignores my calls. i helped her out with 1600 when she was in debt. she said she gonna pay me before school starts and school resumed like 2 months ago and she hasnt paid a dime. i dont normally ask people to pay me back( i think it's kinda rude) i normally wait but i cant wait any longer- im now in debt and i really wanna pay off the debt with the money she is owing me.... screw our friendship... i dont really care if she is mad at me or not... i just wanted my money and whenever i get it, i think im done with her cos i think she is pulling me backwards in my dreams. should i call her like 10000 times a day until she picks up or sood i wait until she calls me ?

Answer 1

If someone owes you money they aren't going to be calling you. Especially if you ask them for the money. Just remember Money and Friendship don't mix. I tell my step kids all the time this too...you can't buy love. I loaned my ex's money in my life and I never saw a cent of it back. Here is an other thing I have learned...never loan more than you want to GIVE. Think of it as a gift that you might get back. The reason some of them are ex's is because of the loans. I wish you luck!

Answer 2

It sounds to me like she used you. You should always be leery of new "friends" asking to borrow money. Unfortunately there are a lot of users out there, most of whom do not have a conscience. If you really want your money back you will most likely have to take her to small claims court.Good Luck.

Answer 3

if you really bady in need of the money you can call her or send her message if she can't answer your call and tell her in a proper way that you need the money she owes you for you are in need of it.Owe means we need to apy it back.Just give a nice aproach.