I am married, but not necissarily all that happily. I have a good friend at work that is driving me nuts in my dreams....she is cute but not that cute, but we click really really well (opposites attract sort of thing). and she is in my dreams every night with out fail....some times sexual most of the time not though.....in a lot of my dreams i am actually married to her instead. Do you guys think i should do something about it or is my sub concious just infatuated?
2006-10-17 04:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by brandon l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My theory is that being unhappy in a marriage doesn't mean to just give up and take off with someone else because no one is always happy in their marriage.
I think you're just infatuated with this girl because it appears to be fun and new. Perhaps a little spark you miss having. This can be exciting. But if you really think about it, how was it when you first met your wife?
I would rather encourage you to communicate with your wife and work on getting that spark back into the marriage. She's your partner. Find out why you're not happy and do something about that.
2006-10-17 05:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um very dificult cos u are actually married bt if ur not happily married then that is another problem as i feel you should sort that out first of all then worry about this girl cos u should marry sum1 cos u love them and want to spend the rest of your life wiv that person and if the rest of ur life isn't happy then u have a problem. Talk 2 ur wife or even a Shrink cos you don't want to make any mistakes or drastic decisions like leaving ur wife for sum1 u hardly kno or staying wiv ur wife wen u are unhappy. i hope that helps my friend.
2006-10-17 12:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because you see her at work daily, that may be the cause for her being in the dreams. The fact that you aren't all that happy in your marriage, but possibly see you being happy in another one, makes you have that dream. Its obviously on your mind heavy and in your heart as well. Best of luck to you and your marriage.
2006-10-17 12:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-20 10:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋