I've become really good friends with this girl. We used to do everything together and I guess you could say we were pretty inseperable. Something happened, but i'm not sure what and now shes got what I like to think as a new best friend....I miss how we used to hang out and talk, and ive told her this, and she feels the same way. Shes told me some things that make me question her loyalty to our friendship. Things have become really awkward between the two of us, I guess thats mostly my fault because I try to avoid her and when we are around each other I dont believe anything she says. How can I approach this situation and try to help save our friendship?
2006-10-17 04:47:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is your friend saying that makes you think that you don't believe her? Friends grow apart as they get older, which is a part of life. Have a get together with your friend and see if you guys still have a lot in common. Friends come a dime a dozen but true friendships last forever. Talk to your friend again and touch basis on how much you really miss her. Show her that her friendship means a lot to you and you still want her to be a part of your life. Everything will work out I promise. You two will get back together again someday. In the meantime, keep your head held up high and focus on the most important things in life.
2006-10-17 05:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you still want to be friends then you two need to sit down and figure out how the two of you can work it out. Trust is a big issue. If you two question what the other is telling you then it'll never work. I don't know exactly why you don't believe what she tells you, but write down the things that bother you and see what you come up with by yourself and if you can't figure it out then when you sit down and talk to her bring them up to her and see what she says. If you still question her then your freindship is over. There is nothing that anyone can do to save it. I just went through this and ended the friendship of 18 years. Its not going to be easy since you two use to be really close. I'm sure that your other friends will help you through it. Also avoiding her isn't going to help the situation any. Talk to her and try to be open minded about what she says and hopefully the two of you can work things out. I hope this helps. Feel free to email me if you need someone to talk to. Good luck.
2006-10-17 12:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you not believe anything she has to say? Sounds to me like the two of you have grown apart. I have had plenty of friends over the years that the two of us have just grown apart. I suggest getting together with her and seeing if you still have anything in common. Sometimes I think that you have different friends at different times in your life for different reasons. I am not friends with any of the same people I was friends with in highschool because I grew up and they didn't. It is sad when you realize that you longer have the same bond but sometimes it is part of life. Good luck!!
2006-10-17 12:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by eeyore9939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋