Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

Her message on facebook:

Hey Chris! Sorry I didn't write back. Did u try to call me the other weekend? someone tried to call and i don't know who it was. thanks for your compliment about my picture. I hope everythings going well with you.

2007-03-27 06:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to tell him by actually talking to him. So I want to instant message him. How do i tell him i like him. i dont want to sound eager lol.

2007-03-27 06:45:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When do u get that butterfly feeling or sweaty or whatever happens to u... i know ya do ;). Please tell me about the kinda girls you crush on, what usually makes u weak in the knees? Just curious.. every guy's different but its fun to know! :D Thanks!!

2007-03-27 06:45:26 · 6 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 06:45:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to give them advice on how to get girls and they wonna attack me...

...I guess it's all the frustration building up after months and months of not getting none.... lmao

2007-03-27 06:44:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always feel unsercure because the way my boyfriend treat me. He always says that he is busy and need more space for himself.

Sometime, I feel really shitty about my realtionship. Once time, he had 2 female friends come to visit, so he ask he to leave to make more space for those girls, but that was 1130 pm.

I dun think he care about me when he ask for that. And I told him next day about that, and asked if there is 2 guy friends stay at my place and I ask him to leave, what will he react? He said if I ask for that, he will respect me.

Sometime, I think he dun care/love me at all, even he says he do care about me and we can fix the problems.

I was really upset and heartborken after that, and now I really doubt about my relationship. It that worth to maintance it, even I do love him.

2007-03-27 06:44:41 · 1 answers · asked by Michelin C 1 in Singles & Dating

Against the advice of friends, family and myself, my sister married a "former homosexual". He said he was saved and transformed by an ex-gay ministry. None of us really bought it but she was very much in love with him and compared to former boyfriends, who were abusive he seemed much more sensitive and giving, despite being just a tad effeminate.

Two years into the marriage, the sex diminishes. I keep quiet when she complains to me. Then this year, he cheated on her with a man. He said it was a "slip up" and has gone back into the ex-gay programme to deal with it. I am trying my best not to tell my sister, "I told you so." because she is really devastated. I also do not want to offend her religious belief but she wants to take him back and I CANNOT watch her get hurt AGAIN! She is my baby sister and now children are involved!

I know these programmes do not change people straight. Where can I get some well researched information on this from an expert she would respect?

2007-03-27 06:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by pixie_pagan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 06:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by mook8e 3 in Friends

2007-03-27 06:43:39 · 6 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 06:43:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i had a date over the weekend with this guy that i have known for awhile, but we never really hung out before.

The date was on Sat. night ending at about 5 a.m. since then i have seen him everyday.

We have both been single for awhile. But i don't know if he just wants to chill with me or if he is interested in dating me?

I need some advise? Please
Are we on the right track.

2007-03-27 06:43:20 · 8 answers · asked by heather_honey_2002hs 4 in Singles & Dating

It all started when we were in class and we were doing an experiment. My friend Tina was heating up this square thing and she then burned my skin with it, and it was a perfect square. But when it turned into a scar it turned into a heart and i aint lying ill try to put pix on my page aight? I think its a sign but idk what do you guys and girls think? Tell . IM TELLING YOU ITS A SIGN.

2007-03-27 06:43:15 · 10 answers · asked by headz2ray 1 in Friends

I had known this guy and he help me alot in studies .Therefore i am very grateful to him .However our relationship soured after one incident .I encouraged him to go after a girl who i know too. But the girl wasn't interested in him at all, he was rejected ,i didn't stop him from going further . Since then he has turned cold to me ,he wouldn't want to talk to me anymore .Sometimes he got angry over trivial matter , he has becoming strange . I still regard him as friend but he didn't want to make it up with me. he was a nice guy when i first know him , now he has changed into a different person.
He questioned about my intention on leading him to go after the girl .He accused me for playing with his emotion , trying to disturb his concentration in studies .
Did i ruin our friendship? Did i affected his studies in some way? Does he think that i am a bad person leading him to go after a girl who is not interested in him? Should i apologise or move on?

2007-03-27 06:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by daniel.P 1 in Friends

Do you think its right for my mom to babysit all the time? She thinks that if she doesn't that she'll lose the love from my brother and that one day she might need him and he won't help her. He's sometimes so mean to her too. That makes me so mad. She doesn't live near me so I can't see what's going on all the time but she cries alot.

2007-03-27 06:42:07 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

Our new neihgbors moved in at Christmas '06.How do we ask them to take it down without creating enemies instead of neighbors?They are not at home much and we don't know them very well. I don't want a new enemy. I just want thier Christmas decor to come down before Christmas '07!!!!

2007-03-27 06:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by luv2share 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I may not be able to meet him, but maybe a chat on the phone or something. or maybe ill meet him for 5 minutes or something. i just want to do something sweet or say something sweet, not lie, and i want him to feel happy. Any suggestions?

2007-03-27 06:41:19 · 3 answers · asked by hihello 2 in Friends

She gives him the excuse of not having found a place yet for months now. He on the other hand because of his busy schedules is also yet to get a new place for himself. Each time i bring up the issue, he assures me of his love and faithfulness n pleaded that i never allow the woman to break us up, as she had vowed to do just that. He tries his best to avoid getting into any scuffle with her cos she's always out for that. I know he's going through a lot of other stress in life like in work and his health and i there's nothing more i like than making his life easier. But, tis time i think i got to put my feet down, i told him to decide if am worth going thru the stress of kicking her out as she's taking her time in finding a place, since she doesnt seem to be in a hurry. Am i being insensitive or over reacting, as he claims never to be hapier and in love with anyone like this before, his friends do attest to the fact when we talk on the phone? can u trust "2 exs" alone together so far

2007-03-27 06:40:46 · 6 answers · asked by mangy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 06:40:43 · 9 answers · asked by Delia M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He called today... Said he could not do it anymore .I said do what? ...He said he was married ..Could not live with his self ...What the freak...Now i sit here crying over some loser who cheated on his wife.. ...Why do i feel bad?.man, what a freaking bummer..Why do i hurt ? ..i went out yesterday , i bought fancy bras and stuff..for a good night thursday..and he calls and tells me this crap..i just want to beat him up..it hurts to be rejected like this ...

2007-03-27 06:40:26 · 10 answers · asked by humblebumblecg 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a serious issue, that I need opinions on?? I have always been a daddy's girl, and last year I got married. My husband is absolutely wonderful, but he is also possessive and jealous due to past relationships. He can not handle mine and my fathers relationship. He has even gone so far as to acuse me of having a sexual relationship with my father, which is disgusting and absurd. We have fought and fought about my relationship with my father. I dont know what to do anymore. He has made me feel like I can no longer even hug my father goodbye or have a private conversation with him without me feeling like my husband is going to think there is some kind of conspiracy going on. THERE IS NOT! And I have told him this a thousand times. He says he knows that there isn't but he is just a jealous person, and is is something that I am going to have to deal with. I cant deal with it, it is going to slowing tear my father and I apart and in the process make me resent my husband.

2007-03-27 06:40:16 · 50 answers · asked by Ellen T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all can answer

2007-03-27 06:40:06 · 29 answers · asked by adonis 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know if they exagerate or trying to show their strength, but some of my friends are proud of having sex 10 times a week. I find it impossible. so what is the right one?

2007-03-27 06:39:38 · 12 answers · asked by Johanpaul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-27 06:39:23 · 3 answers · asked by chica loca 2 in Singles & Dating

If the man has known the woman for many years and now they have random sex (couple of times every few months or so), what does that mean for the man? Are men able to compartamentalize their feelings that easily? I.e., they used to be friends, and now they have sex. And that's all there is to it? Or could there be more meaning?

2007-03-27 06:38:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this boy that i like but i dont no if he likes me!
my friend asked him who he liked and he said - 'i dunno, im a bit confused at the moment' than my friend told him that i liked him and she asked him of he liked me and he said 'thats why i sed i dunno'.
in school he didnt really talk to me that much anyway, but i thought he would now - but he doesnt- as he talks to me a lot on msn and when we text each other.

does he like me or doesnt he?

thanks! :P

2007-03-27 06:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in sep and was wondering if anyone knows of any really good scottish bands in the lothian area of scotland. The theme is scottish so id like a band that plays scottish music but who can also do other wedding music. All ids would be welcome. Thanks in advance

2007-03-27 06:38:15 · 1 answers · asked by lisa G 2 in Weddings

My husband's step-mother and I have become quite close in the last few months. She loves books, so I would like to get her some sort of relational-type book like these
http://www.amazon.com/Why-Daughter-Needs-Mom-Reasons/dp/1581823800

http://www.amazon.com/Chicken-Soup-Soul-Celebrating-Daughters/dp/0757305903/ref=sr_1_1/104-5104465-5650329?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1175012159&sr=1-1

Those are specifically focused on mothers and daughters so they don't quite fit. Do they have any (nice) books specifically targeted towards daughter-in-law/mother-in-law relationships or even a book that is for someone special in your life that doesn't quite fit into the 'friend' category either?

2007-03-27 06:38:13 · 1 answers · asked by amylynn25 3 in Family

2007-03-27 06:37:18 · 31 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Can you have two maids of honor? One of my Really good friends is helping me plan my wedding and I want her to be a maid of honor, but my sister would be hurt if she wasn't the maid of honor....but in her first wedding she didn't tell anyone but my grandma that she was getting married and now with her second guy she is gonna marry I REALLY don't think that she would even have me in the bridal party....she is totally upsessed with having friends and she would rather make them happy and have her boss as the maid of honor than me....and that is fine...it is he day, but I know she would be hurt if she wasn't my maid of honor....so can I have two maids of horor?

2007-03-27 06:37:04 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

Growing up i found that my single Mother 'leaned' on me for support. I was her confidant when i was 4 or 5 years old until my teenage years and perhaps longer but it varied as I left the ‘home’. I was told and saw a lot of stuff i couldn't understand as a child but thought I could, wanting to be an adult. My mom’s live-in boyfriend abused both my sister and me, I (12 yrs) told my Mother (my sister –7 yrs -did not) she stayed with this guy and excluded me from family ‘stuff’. Years later we found out that this guy also abused my sister, for years. Although my Mother is no longer with this man, i feel she has consistently put men and her vices before my sister and my needs were met. I love my Mother but i feel that she doesn't really love me. Yet she is trying to communicate with me/spend time together. I feel that I can’t forgive her. I feel overwhelmed with guilt of not wanting to communicate. Please, if you can shed some light on this for me. Thank you.

2007-03-27 06:36:13 · 12 answers · asked by ms_jgtaylor 1 in Family