I had known this guy and he help me alot in studies .Therefore i am very grateful to him .However our relationship soured after one incident .I encouraged him to go after a girl who i know too. But the girl wasn't interested in him at all, he was rejected ,i didn't stop him from going further . Since then he has turned cold to me ,he wouldn't want to talk to me anymore .Sometimes he got angry over trivial matter , he has becoming strange . I still regard him as friend but he didn't want to make it up with me. he was a nice guy when i first know him , now he has changed into a different person.
He questioned about my intention on leading him to go after the girl .He accused me for playing with his emotion , trying to disturb his concentration in studies .
Did i ruin our friendship? Did i affected his studies in some way? Does he think that i am a bad person leading him to go after a girl who is not interested in him? Should i apologise or move on?
2007-03-27 06:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by daniel.P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Can you just ask a question instead of writing a novel?
2007-03-27 06:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get over him. obviously, he is insecure. why is he getting mad at you when he is the one who got rejected. as a friend you were just doing your duty. encouraging and supporting him. if he never tried, than he would have never knew that this girl was not interested, and would be wasting his time crushing on this girl. i think you did a good job, with out you, he would have never had enough courage to do what he did. he should be grateful for helping him find out she was not interested, and saving him time. this friendship is not worth you stressing over if he is being a baby over a rejection.
2007-03-27 06:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by kc321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on this is too petty, you probably did mess with him a little had your fun. he sounds like a dork though, which i think he felt you might have thought probably been messed with like this his whole life. you didn't effect his studies he did, he made his own choices, rather you help lead him to them or not, ultimately he did what he did. just move on, he was just a study partner that you feel bad for. he will survive, bill gates did
2007-03-27 06:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever become a marriage counselor. I think maybe an apology is in order and you should back away from his love life just to prevent another incident.
2007-03-27 06:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by mook8e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you thought you were doing something right and if it didn't work out for him you are sorry but that things happen...then move on....if he won't drop it...he is an immature person anyways
2007-03-27 06:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is mad at you over the girl, give him some time he will get over it, tell him your sorry for urging him toward the girl but you can't be responsible for what she did to him, it's not your fault
2007-03-27 06:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but ................ i dont like reading . less words the better
2007-03-27 06:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Xeon001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-27 06:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by pretty in pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋