Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

been together 13 years our son is almost 12. He has 2 older girls20 and23. there are 4 grandchildren. 2 from each daughter. The 23 year old is the problem. Has been the problem for 11 years. I have beant over backwords to help her and she is getting out of prison on thursday and i haft to give her son back to her this is the 4 th time. She still wants to blame everyone else for her actions, and Ifeel she will never change unless she excepts that ahe is the reason she is the way she is. i DONT WANT HER TO BE AN INTERFERENCE WITH MY FAMILY ANYMORE BUT SEE no other way out but then to leave ,in turn hurting my son the most. what to do.No one cares for my husband much for the way he has treated me. But he is a real hard worker takes care of us. But I have reracently came off anti depressants (8) years, and I just dont feel I need to fight anymore and the only way I see to fix it is leave..

2007-03-25 10:23:08 · 6 answers · asked by lou lou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this hot guy and think he like me back..... got any flirting tips?

2007-03-25 10:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by Brycie 2 in Singles & Dating

Last sunday's dear abby featured a stay at home military wife... the article really got under my skin.
He husband chose to be in the military and she chose to stay at home. Why is she even given the oppurtunity to whine and complain?

2007-03-25 10:22:38 · 6 answers · asked by camel toe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a girl whom I am crazy about and like alot of women i have liked/been crazy about, shes been in past bad relationships ...She has trust issues, but I know she feels the same way about me as I do about her.!!!! For someone who is guarded about their feelings, how careful should I be when it comes to the pace of the relationship. AGAIN...I want to do whatever it takes to make this work...

2007-03-25 10:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by brian77tx@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

so this guy and i never got the chance to become "official" as boyfriend and girlfriend... so i never had the chance to show him what a great gf i Could have been... because Some Other Girl came along. then They are now bf and gf. and i only went on two dates with the guy.. but we Always talked on the phone and texted every day and night.. and when he ended it it felt like i had been in a car accident.. i was shaking so bad and i couldn't eat for at least a week. it hurt me more than i ever thought it would. because it came to a Complete shock to me, because he Really seemed like he liked me.. and said he did.. just the Night before. but he had Lead me On and played me for THREE WEEKS - the time he started liking this other girl. he said it was because he didn't love me.. and because he thought i was too good for him (too smart and good-looking he said)... and now it's been about 2 months and i am STILL depressed.. so depressed. is this normal?? or what is wrong with me? :(

2007-03-25 10:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't stop thinking about my gf. I also would never want 2 lose her, and I feel happy when I talk 2 her and also when I talk 2 her I feel like I want 2 kiss her. I don't know if this is love or just some weird feeling I have.

2007-03-25 10:21:56 · 21 answers · asked by Mighitman 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 10:21:35 · 23 answers · asked by tanny 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My man has been working very hard lately. He's always spoiling me and I want to return the favour...Want to treat him somehow.Any cool ideas?

2007-03-25 10:20:33 · 5 answers · asked by Lala85 2 in Singles & Dating

A while ago if you saw an interracial couple at the mall or somewhere some people would stare or make a quick glance over at the couple. Now in the present how is interracial dating/marriage seen as?

2007-03-25 10:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm not on about who...... where would you like to go/ what would you like to do? describe the perfect evening/day with your ideal man....this is not an offer i was just asking... XXX

2007-03-25 10:19:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know the initial blast of kindness from the good friend is going to be nice, but I'm kinda scared about the reprecussions of anything I do wrong will be held against me by two girls. One holding everything you do wrong over your head is already hard enough, but the second one AH.

Would it be worth it to attempt this?

2007-03-25 10:19:14 · 1 answers · asked by Simcow 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband just told me he doesn't want kids (I do) and wants a divorce. He moved out, got his own place and filed the papers....all of this happening within 2 months. He doesn't want to go to counseling because he feels a counselor cannot make the decision for you. I feel there may be more of a root cause to why he doesn't want kids. One day I feel like the luckiest woman, the very next I feel like my world is over. I didn't see this coming at all! Before we got married, he said he didn't know if he wanted kids but might want one some day. I on the other hand have been very clear from the beginning that I want a family. Because of my faith in Jesus, I don't feel that divorce is always the answer. My husband is not religious at all, so this is something that has us viewing marriage and divorce very differently. Since I don't want the divorce and he does, should I sign the papers or just put him off until he at least agrees to seek counseling?

2007-03-25 10:18:58 · 15 answers · asked by Kaye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In high school there were people including girls who teased me because I was nerdy. After college I am the man with the muscles, the boxing ability, and the baddest urban wear. All the ladies want me. What was so funny is that those same girls who teased me in high school even wants me now and I turned around rejected their offer and laughed at them to make them feel stupid. Is that great revenge?

2007-03-25 10:18:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last week I decided to study with a girl in my statistics class. Now heres the thing, I already knew the majority of the material and really did not need to do any studying. But because I thought she was cute I thought it would be a good opportunity to get to know her. We arranged to study around 1 pm. And wound up studying until 5 in the morning. While we were together we were able to spend some break time together. We played a random video game as a team for 30 mins. We made some food together too. I think she is really cool, and definitely my type. She called me the next day and told me she wanted to take an honors class I was already taking, I'm not sure why, either she thinks I'm smart and that I will be able to help her or she likes me too and wants more excuses to hang out. What should I be thinking and what should I do.

2007-03-25 10:17:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What wold you do if a guy poured his thoughts to you? especially maybe if you liked him back, even just a little bit.

2007-03-25 10:17:00 · 8 answers · asked by broken_paladin15 2 in Singles & Dating

i have liked this man for the past year and i am extremely attracted to him, i called and told him he was eating me alive and he said it was mutual. he is seeing someone(for a couple months now) i know its wrong to get in the middle of anothers man, but i dont want to ever date him,i just want to have sex with him, im pretty he will have sex with me, I am just wondering how i go about calling him to set it up? what do i say without coming accross like a sleeze?

2007-03-25 10:16:55 · 36 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 10:16:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

AND you didn't know what you had till it was gone?

2007-03-25 10:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad has been known to drink way too much in the past and this has resulted in him maybe having cancer of the liver, he is on chemotheraphy for the next 4 months or so. Tonight my mum was in the kitchen with him crying because she thought he was drinking way too much tonight but i don't know.

I hate it when my mum cries, and i want to be able to help but what should i do?

Please helpful advice only

2007-03-25 10:16:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend Jennifer like this boy who is in my 6 per. or in my last class. She realy likes this guy but he is always talking to me in that class and he tries to sit by me everytime he gets. I'm afriad that i might get a chruch on him b/c i'll end up hurting her and loosing a friend what can i do ?

2007-03-25 10:16:19 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Princess♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

he deletes mine and my friends comments if they have anything to do with me or say anything about a "girlfriends" i asked his why and he could really answer until he asked me why my comments are hidden and i said cuz there my business and he said well then that why i delete urs and he could say anything about the whole being single thing we have been together 4 yrs what should i do? what should i say? what should i think?
anything?

2007-03-25 10:15:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 10:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and one of my friends have confessed that we like each other well she says she is afraid of what ppl will say if anything happens between us, so when we are around everyone she is normal the way they know her, but when she is just around me she acts like she is really in to me but after awhile it really starts to suck, cause my feelings for her are really strong and i don't know what to do now, some ppl tell me to fight for her and others tell me to not even try.....so should i move on or not????

2007-03-25 10:12:55 · 9 answers · asked by confused of life 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I'm 11 and I never had one but I've had a regular kiss from my girlfriend and i would like to know what it feels like. Holla

2007-03-25 10:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by ghettoboy57 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in college, and one of the classes I am currently taking is Speech. Monday of last week, one of my friend Justin told me that he thought there was a girl in my speech class that liked me. Now, he's not in my speech class, so it took me by suprise when he said this. I asked him why he did, and he said Because she is always talking to you - she will walk up and start talking to you no matter where you are, and no matter who you are talking to. I replied by saying Well, maybe she's just being friendly. Justin remained adamant that he thought she liked me, and so I told him I would ask her out that Friday. I ran into her on Friday, and she started talking to me like usual. I asked her, after a few minutes, if she'd like to go to coffee with me. She paused for at least 10 seconds, with her head down, kind of sighing to herslef as if she didn't know what to say or do. She finally replied with Sure, I'd like to. Does she like me, or is she just being nice? What can I ask her to find out?

2007-03-25 10:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by racing_into_the_future 1 in Singles & Dating

I am shy guy. I have a hard time figuring out what to say when I see a woman i think is cute. please help

2007-03-25 10:12:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mightyjoe 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys! please answer this!! about girls?
Guys, men, do you fall in love?
Do men ever really fall in love, I mean the way women do? I have many guy friends who are honest on this subject, so I have lost all hope. Do men ever just get butterflys just THINKING about a girl, not about a girl naked? Do they ever just sit in bed and watch their girlfriend sleep and think " Dang she is SO cute when she sleeps"? Instead of, " I wonder if I felt around a little if she would notice..if she did I wonder If she would slap me?"If put in the situation where a ht girl throws themselves at the guy, and his girl isnt putting out, would he ever stop and think, " Man, if I do this it will rip my girlfriend apart. Maybe I should control myself and wait...." DO they ever just love to hang out with a girl and not think about " Heyy maybe if make her laugh a little more she will put out tonight". Ever just look at flowers and think hey So-n-
So would really like these, not "hey if i get her these maybe ill guilt her into a good bj tonight". Are girls anything more than sex?

2007-03-25 10:11:21 · 1 answers · asked by pleasetypeidhere 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 10:10:57 · 10 answers · asked by freddy 5 in Friends

I like this guys very much but he doesn't know that I like him. I can't tell him that I like him because of a personall reason. He has a girlfriend two months ago. When he is talking on the phone with the girl he has to speak with in front of me. When I am having conversation with him he always have to talk about the girl. Telling me that she is making a lot of money. Do you think that he is making me jealous or am i imaginating.

2007-03-25 10:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by jeanny d 1 in Singles & Dating

play games with a women knowing they cant have them? what makes them so attracted to this ?

2007-03-25 10:10:20 · 5 answers · asked by okey dokey 2 in Singles & Dating