I am shy guy. I have a hard time figuring out what to say when I see a woman i think is cute. please help
2007-03-25 10:12:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mightyjoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make eye contact, smile, compliment, attempt to carry on a casual conversation (like what your occupations are, etc). Don't be fake. Don't tell her that you live in your parents' basement...that turns us off a bit because we like independence. I personally like guys who are straightforward and take the initiative to come up to me and say hello. Shy is cute though.
2007-03-25 10:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the-chugger. Women always like to hear compliments. People also like to be called by name, so you should ask that very early in the conversation. Ask questions that take more than a word or two to answer i.e. "What are some of your interests?" Be a good listener. Comment on something she said during an answer so she knows you are listening. Give her the impression that she is the most interesting person in the place and that you had rather be having a conversation with her than anyone else. Don't try to be what you aren't. People can tell whether or not you are being sincere. Look her in the eyes a lot. Just relax and enjoy.
2007-03-25 10:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♂ ♫ Timberwolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry as long as you don't come up to her and say anything rudeful, perverted, cocky...ect.. I think you'll be fine. Don't jump in and show that your interest and ask her on a date right away. Take things slowly there no rush...maybe she need help, just be friendly. Introduce yourself and just get to know her. Perhap if you were at a mall in the food court and she bought a type of food, maybe you can relate to that. ( You like that too, or You perfer this with that.) ect..
2007-03-25 10:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not compliment her on her clothing or her seems appropriate after asserting hi for the 1st time. Getting too own appropriate away might make you appear to be a weirdo to me. start up with a secure undertaking like the climate or the coffee keep and see if she is even involved in speaking with you. If she is, you may pass on from there.
2016-10-19 21:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a compliment. It makes her feel happy. Then go for the kill! Look her in the eyes and smile. Then, say how nice it is to have met you. Do you like to dance ? What types of movies do you like?
You got it!
" Hey, cutie, want to go to a dance with me next Saturday? We could see that funny movie that is playing now." That is what you say to her.
Then, call me in the morning to tell me how it went.
2007-03-25 10:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by pitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "I like your smile" Then ask her about her day. Ask about pets. Ask about her hobbies.
What ever you do, work is a no-no. Do not discuss her job.
2007-03-25 14:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
observe them and find something to compliment and then initiate conversation on
2007-03-25 10:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by 000000000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and you should be fine. Girls can be hard to please but they are easy going most of the time.
2007-03-25 10:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by foxgirl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to tell her your a virgin and you live in your parents basement.
Women love that in a guy..
2007-03-25 10:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋