I am in college, and one of the classes I am currently taking is Speech. Monday of last week, one of my friend Justin told me that he thought there was a girl in my speech class that liked me. Now, he's not in my speech class, so it took me by suprise when he said this. I asked him why he did, and he said Because she is always talking to you - she will walk up and start talking to you no matter where you are, and no matter who you are talking to. I replied by saying Well, maybe she's just being friendly. Justin remained adamant that he thought she liked me, and so I told him I would ask her out that Friday. I ran into her on Friday, and she started talking to me like usual. I asked her, after a few minutes, if she'd like to go to coffee with me. She paused for at least 10 seconds, with her head down, kind of sighing to herslef as if she didn't know what to say or do. She finally replied with Sure, I'd like to. Does she like me, or is she just being nice? What can I ask her to find out?
2007-03-25 10:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by racing_into_the_future 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I asked her if anything was wrong after she accepted my offer, she replied by saying "No, it's just that I've never had anyone ask me that before". "The only times I've ever gone out is when I'm with my sisters and their friends, or when I'm with my family."
She's 19, I'm 22.
I really don't want to screw this up. I think I have a good thing going here, and I realize that I need to take things slow, not rush things, and be myself. Any other suggestions?
2007-03-25 10:18:24 · update #1
We're going to go out for hot choclate sometime this next wek, since neither of us drink coffee.
I have a good feeling about this girl, I really do. I can't explain it... it's just... there! She makes me happy just talking to her - that may sound strange, but it's the honest truth!
2007-03-25 10:22:25 · update #2
Say, "Do you like me?" and wait for her to answer. Then you'll know.
2007-03-25 10:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is just go to coffee, have some conversation to see if you get "butterflies" or not. When you see someone under different circumstances, you both may see different side of each other. I had this situation from girl's point. I thought I was fond of this guy and I was very happy when we met up at the Starbucks. However, when we started talking, I found there were no chemistries btwn us. So, it's worth hanging out and see where it will go.
2007-03-25 10:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would think that because she is always talking to you, that she likes you, but the pause and sigh hint she may have only wanted to be your friend. She sounded kind of like, "Oh great, I hope he doesn't like me as more of a friend..." You can message me if you want any more help; this sounds interesting and I'd love to see if I could do anything else or if something further happens.
2007-03-25 10:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her "Do you like me?" and if she says yes, ask her "In what way?" A girl can like you you solely for your personality and may just want to be friends. By asking her the second question you get to find out what her feelings are about pursuing a relationship. Problem solved :)
2007-03-25 10:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you could ask her if she is single. I think she likes you but maybe when you asked her out for coffee she got a little shy.
2007-03-25 10:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Women don’t want to feel as though they are completely responsible for your happiness and that is what it feels like when the other person has no outside interests. Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone. This doesn’t mean that you should play the game of not calling for a few days; it means that you should set healthy boundaries until you both naturally find a spot for the other in your lives.
2017-02-15 13:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by rogers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your in college?Yes! she wants you,dude! your friend is right she's got the let's play house and I'll make you breakfast in the morning,Hots for you.
2007-03-25 10:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you went for coffee...how was the conversation?/ what do you 2 have in common?....the way to break the ice is know her likes/dislikes then share yours
good luck
2007-03-25 10:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by hykerchik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she does, maybe she just wasnt expecting you to ask her out and it took her by surprize.
2007-03-25 10:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 seconds? no way buddy
2007-03-25 10:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋