In high school there were people including girls who teased me because I was nerdy. After college I am the man with the muscles, the boxing ability, and the baddest urban wear. All the ladies want me. What was so funny is that those same girls who teased me in high school even wants me now and I turned around rejected their offer and laughed at them to make them feel stupid. Is that great revenge?
2007-03-25 10:18:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um...if you're really this new badass guy, then why would you care what they thought back then? And wouldn't the fact that they want you now be good enough? So you turned them down, big deal, I doubt they'll be crying over it. So no, not much of a revenge if you ask me. But yea, if you're still weak mentally and emotionally, then go for it, get that revenge you seek. Or you could just prove that you've grown up and GET OVER IT. Sorry to be so harsh, but that's just ridiculous. The point of NOT being in high school is to NOT be in high school. Leave the drama in the locker room.
2007-03-25 10:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by usa_armywife 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you rejected their offer. It was because they rejected you. But people change. They might not be the same stuck up women that they were in school. You need to give these women the benefit of the doubt. After all, you went from being a nerd to a babe magnet. So, it is possible that they have changed too. Next time, think twice before you turn one of these women down. You are a grown man. You are not in junior high or highschool anymore. So be a man and show some real class. I bet that if you give some of these women a chance, you might even realize that they are truly sorry for how they treated you. And one more thing. Looks does change a persons attitude. It is possible now that you are a babe magnet, that some people think that you are stuck on yourself too. Hmmm. Think about that.
2007-03-25 10:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you were teased back then doesnt give you the motive to get back. Just get on with your life and move forward. Sure you felt rejected back then but that doesnt give you in a clear mind that you have to get back. You will get back when you say nothing at all. Trust me on this. The least said speaks volumns . Dont let something that happened back then make you mean. You have a good heart so go with the flow on this one. One wrong doesnt mean a right .. So use your right and make it good. OK.. i am saying you should turn the other cheek.. 2 wrongs dont make it right. Make up your mind revenge? or just keep your life in the right tract. Revenge will always come back to haunt you. I know.
2007-03-25 10:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around and you certainly don't want that. The greatest revenge is just being happy. Rejecting them really isn't revenge, unless of course you do like them, then that would mean that you are being dishonest with yourself. If that's the case, don't do that. High school years can be hard. I was picked up in elementary school and blossomed in high school so I wasn't picked up in h.s. but, I do remember the feeling of being hurt and teased. I made a point later in life to stick up for the underdog, and help out people instead of always thinking of my needs. It really did work for me. Good luck to you.
2007-03-25 10:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am personally against revenge because I don't think it does any good to anyone, and especially not you because it only reminds you of what used to happen...
I actually think it is quite stupid of you to be as low as they were. didn't you think they were immature and mean when they made fun of you? Why would you do the same now? I'm sorry, but that isn't showing much intelligence.
However, I do think they are really not worth it, because people who make fun of someone are usually insecure themselves. I personally have always known that people who are nerdy in highschool become great people with great futures! Please don't change that now that you look amazing! Continue being the great guy you are!
2007-03-25 10:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jakie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realy think u need to see a shrink ,and before that u may write to Dr Phill .I think and sure that he knows how to change these nasty thinking and the revenge ur talking about ..
i know that u went through rough time in ur high school as u said ..u need to take these high school images from ur brain and put instead forgivness and try to deal with those who treated u nasty before the opposite way .
2007-03-25 10:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by ABBEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself! That was in High School -- grow up and move on with your life!!!! Revenge? A good life is the best revenge!
2007-03-25 10:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by NJGuy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When the opportunity presents itself, fine. But don't waste your time thinking of these people and filling your head with revenge fantasies, Enjoy what is available now. Been there..
2007-03-25 10:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like the Toby Keith song, how do ya me now. Just make sure you go to all the school reunions with some young hot babe on your arm(or two) That's the best way.
2007-03-25 10:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting them down seems ok but not laughing at them they might have been rude and mean to you in high school but it is never right to stoop to their level
2007-03-25 10:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Big E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋