Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

I asked this woman out the other day by bringing a bouquet of flowers and a card to her workplace? Is this really appropriate? Everytime she sees me , her face "lights up", I really need some advice, here! (P.S., I'm a guy who needs woman's viewpoint).

2007-03-11 14:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by Scott G 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl i love i just want her to love me back

2007-03-11 14:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Dylan . 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for 4 months and she has everything I and every guy can want very pretty, nice body, nice personality, and smart. She is pressuring me to some extent to sleep with her. In my mind I want to do it because I know that she is the kind of woman that almost every guy would like and that she cares for me. However on the other hand I want to wait longer. As a male should I do it or no and why?

2007-03-11 14:33:52 · 19 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-11 14:33:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been depressed for the past few years and have been very quiet in school and around people, never did much on the weekends. But now that my life is changing I'm feeling better and I always want to do everything. I get soooo bored now when I'm not around friends but they think I'm just a quiet boring person. Well I was but not anymore how can I get this message aross so I'll receive more phone calls from people on the weekends and stuff?? I feel like an idiot posting this but I don't know what to do =( Any ideas? thanks

2007-03-11 14:32:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so I have a marvelous boyfriend who I absolutely LOVE!! His best friend is dating one of my best friends, so that's pretty cool. But his best friend is one of my closest friends in the world, and we're so close that people who don't really know us think we're dating, even though we both have significant others. We talk ALL the time at school (you'll seldom see one of us without the other), we text most every day, and talk on the phone two or three nights a week. Is this bad, since we are both dating someone else? <3

2007-03-11 14:32:32 · 24 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

I just dumped my boy friend about 10 minutes ago because i am having feelings for another guy andthat other guy is my x-boy friend.

2007-03-11 14:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by MC 1 in Singles & Dating

if they are unhappy why don't they leave? why do they stay and ruin the marriage by cheating?

2007-03-11 14:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 14:31:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has never promised to leave his wife and has never promised me anything long term. It is very hard to break things off with him becuase I really have it made at my job. I get paid very well and I have a lot of perks and freedom. He is always doing nice things for me and he has never, ever mistreated me or even raised his voice. He pampers me and babies me silly and always lifts my spirits. I have never experienced love like this before, he is my mentor, my best friend, my father figure, and so much more, even though I know it is wrong I am miserable without him. I try to date but no one ever seems to measure up to him. Am I going to have to quit my job in order to move on with my life and get over this man? Please help...any advise you can offer will be appreciated.

2007-03-11 14:31:46 · 35 answers · asked by seekinganswers 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-11 14:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I had this group of 3 friends, and all 4 of us were like in a clique. Lately, they've taken to being mean and rude. A couple days ago, they came up to me (plus another "wannabe" that "took my place") and started telling me all this rude stuff about myself; how I had "changed" and everything. I had told some of them my secrets and made them SWEAR not to tell anyone, and at that moment they said it. Now they're spreading rumors about me, and many people have come up to me and asked if I had said anything about them. I've started hanging out with my other friends a little more, who are not so popular. I know this is shallow, but I'm worried what other people will think of me. What should I do?

2007-03-11 14:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Anna has been my best friend for two years, we have never had a fight. I started going out with a friend of ours, on the day I broke up with him she stoped talking to me. My other friend says its not becuase of the guy. Anna's live journal says she's mad becuase of my know it all attitude. I apologized, she didnt even acknowledge I was standing next to her. Anna is the type of person who is always mad at someone, I just dont know what to do. She's my best friend and I love her and I want us to be friends again.

2007-03-11 14:31:00 · 2 answers · asked by SexyLilChick 2 in Friends

I was at a party trying to get this guy to notice me, and then this short guy comes over and starts trying to talk to me.

I just kept looking at the floor and not saying a word to thus encourage him, but he just would not go away,

and then he started asking me what was "wrong", he was so creepy

I just kicked him in the balls.

Ladies how do you handle short men trying to talk to you in public???

And why don't they know to just stay away?

2007-03-11 14:30:15 · 18 answers · asked by Indian Tigress 1 in Singles & Dating

So here is the thing. My son lives with his grandma and her gay lover and has been since he has been 6 months old, he is now 3 years old. I signed temporary custody to them when my ex and I moved out of her house to keep his mom from taking him but now I want him back he is coming up to visit me in April my question is how can I get him when he comes to see me and How would I go about it?

2007-03-11 14:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by publix_589 2 in Family

2007-03-11 14:29:04 · 30 answers · asked by milne_00 1 in Weddings

I just had to ask because me and some friends were talking about it.

2007-03-11 14:28:08 · 16 answers · asked by Courtney B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

That all men cheat. Men are only as faithful as their options allow. If you have a man whose belly has dunlapped his belt, He probably won't cheat. There is no one that wants him (including you). But if you have a man that is in ANY way walkable (o.k. to be seen with) he WILL cheat. Stop fooling yourself ladies!

2007-03-11 14:28:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i'm losing basically All confidence lately that i used to have because i just basically got played by two seemingly Sweet guys.. who turned out to be players and now "like someone else" better than me i guess. would any of you guys date a girl like me...
i am 17. i'm about 5' 7" i'm not fat or anything either.. or ugly (so i have been told i'm "hot" - i don't think so just saying that's what i've been told i'm cute) i'm extremely caring.. probably too much so because it tends to get me crushed. I am Very trusting.. probably also too much so again. I don't judge anyone.. i don't believe in anyone being "out of my league" because i say you never know Who that perfect person will be. I'm really shy at first once you first meet me.. but after you get to know me i get to be my fun talking self... my mind just seems to 'go blank' when i Really like a guy. but if a guy ever would give me the Chance to be his gf i know i would think the world to him.. i tend to think of others 1st

2007-03-11 14:27:00 · 5 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

After we made love, he was in a hurry to go back to his home in PA . I live in MD two hours away. Anyhow, I said to him is it okay that I take a picture of you with my digital camera? I would like to have a photo of you so I could keep in a frame on my shelf. When you are not here I like to have a photo so I could pretend that you are here when you are not." Then he paused for awhile and said NO! I said why not? I don't want my picture taken . The memories are just as good.! I was so angry. Then as he was leaving he didn't tie his shoes. I said to him you need to tie your shoes. You are going to hurt yourself on the stairwell. He said I am not worrying about it.

Lately, I feel that I should cut it loose. He sometimes gets too distracted with his career his 10 brothers and sisters. I think he doesn't realize that he can be rude because he is too distracted. He cares about his job which he should and sports 24/7. He has been divorced going on two years.

2007-03-11 14:26:48 · 28 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

MY FRIEND, WELL WE'RE EXACTLY FRIENDS BUT YOU GET IT. SHE AND HER BOYFRIEND JUST BROKE AND LIKE HER EX. I'VE ALWAYS LIKED HIM IJUST TOLD HIM LAST MONDAY HOW I FELT. NOW I DONNT WANT TO SEEM LIKE HOMEWRCKER BUT THATS HOW I FEEL I DONT WANT HER TO START TELLING RUMORS DAT ARENT TRUE. WELL TODAY I WAS TALKIN TO HIM AND HE ASKED ME OUT I SAID NO EVEN THOUGH IDID NT WANT TO. HE KNOWS WHY I SAID NOO BUT I REALLY WANT HIM . WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-03-11 14:26:38 · 4 answers · asked by gellisa m 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, I'm in high school, and I really like my female friend. I'm not sure whether she likes me or not. Sometimes, it seems like she does, but other times, it doesn't. But anyway, I've learned that her parents don't let her go out much, and only when they really know the person. I've met her parents, but don't really know them, so I don't know if it's just an excuse or not. But anyway....I've decided to try other girls. I think I've accepted the fact that she might not like me as anything more than a friend. However, even though I might look for other girls, I really like this girl a lot, and I'm gonna continue to be her friend. I'm not sure if she knows I like her thought. No, I'm not just gonna tell her lol. What are some things I can do in the meantime to SUBTLY let her know I like her? Like, what can we talk about, what can I ask her, what can I do?? lol.

2007-03-11 14:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not sleeping with him or doing anything else with this man we have in the past (last summer) i didn't know anything about this marriage back then and his friends that he knew for years and co-workers say that he had a divorce i don't even see him like that and when we do hang out we are with alot of friends my friend keeps telling me that i should'nt be friends with him and she makes me feel very bad about it...she tells me that God is wactching me and i'm in the wrong and that she's offended ....it's not like i'm with him saying"hey leave your wife for me" i'm not like that i have plenty of friends that are married and they are fine....the thing that hurts me is that she doesn't even know this guy and she's telling me not to hang out with him i'm friends with her husband too so what is the difference?

2007-03-11 14:25:24 · 10 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend and he is soo good to me and i've never been happier, but I get frustrated by some of the things he does.Like sometimes he plays video games too long. Its like he's not into the same things as myself and Im way ahead of his time and dosen't seems to be paying attention when Im trying to have an converstation tv on or off. Will these things eventually wear me out and would I be better off with someone older?

2007-03-11 14:25:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left a week ago. He still hasnt come to get his stuff but by the way he is acting it seems as if he wont try to make this work.
He doesnt even seem to care about his son at the moment.
The problem is how do I start getting over him?
We bought a house together nd he was also raising my two daughters with me.They Love him dearly. They ask about him all the time.Everything around me reminds me of him. He and the kids were my whole life. Im a stay at home mom and now I have to start from scratch(which I know i can do) I just need advice to mend a very broken heart.

2007-03-11 14:24:46 · 16 answers · asked by Kimberly G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i cheated on my gf an she says she wont hurt me back...but now its all i think about. its makin me crazy i allways need to know whers she at whos shes with. an everyguy she talks to or talks to her makes me sick to my stomach. is there anyway i can fix this or will it go away. or will it hunt me forever

2007-03-11 14:24:13 · 19 answers · asked by bible_school_drop_out 1 in Singles & Dating

what is 1st 2nd 3rd and home base i need to no i am scared to ask though

2007-03-11 14:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by roxy babe 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean come on, when you're a nice guy they ignore you and whaen you're a bad guy they slap you so how do you know wich kind of girl will stick to the nice guy or the bad one for that matter

2007-03-11 14:23:40 · 10 answers · asked by jparra58 1 in Singles & Dating

its recently been happening to me and i dont know why =(

2007-03-11 14:23:16 · 1 answers · asked by Dylan . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would like to find a Lawyer who is reasonable. I have absolutly no idea what to ask or what to do.

2007-03-11 14:22:02 · 2 answers · asked by Betty M 1 in Marriage & Divorce