Okay, so I have a marvelous boyfriend who I absolutely LOVE!! His best friend is dating one of my best friends, so that's pretty cool. But his best friend is one of my closest friends in the world, and we're so close that people who don't really know us think we're dating, even though we both have significant others. We talk ALL the time at school (you'll seldom see one of us without the other), we text most every day, and talk on the phone two or three nights a week. Is this bad, since we are both dating someone else? <3
2007-03-11 14:32:32 · 24 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it's not bad..as long as the other two people don't mind you two being as close as you are, and if they do, then they are not the kind of people you want to be dating anyway, are they? you want to date the kind of person who wants what is best for you and wants to do things that make you happy, and if the one you are dating is jealous of your friendship that you've had with this other person for so long, then he is selfish, and that is not good for you. think about this with your head and not your heart. good luck.
2007-03-11 14:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you 2 should be glad that both of you still keep in touch, don't ever give up your friend for a boyfriend. If you 2 are best of buddies, there is nothing wrong with that. Just amke sure it's not to the annoying point, like you start being rude about it or something.
2007-03-11 22:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Whole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me ask YOU a question. When you think about him do you think about a friend, only, or do you think romantically about him? If you said "friend only" then I think you're okay. I myself have a girlfriend whom I couldn't live without. She is my absolute FAVORITE person. But there's this other girl I'm always talking to, sending notes to, etc. Kind of like you explained. Me and her are NOT dating, and it's a mutual thing to not do so. Neither of us have "feelings" for each other, that are serious, so we're cool.
However, if you DO have romantic feelings for this friend, you may need to re-evaluate you're feelings for him, and for your boyfriend.
Hope I helped. Good luck, sweetheart.
~WolfMage
2007-03-11 21:50:30 · answer #3 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that if you really like your man who gives a damn about what other people think if you really "LOVE" him go on with your life. But on the other hand you and your friend sound really close but if your sure theres nothing between you two just keep going with your man. It would be pretty hard 'if' there is something between you and your friend because your best friend is going with him. Good luck
-Tizuâ¥
2007-03-11 21:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by tizu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a friend that close, opposite gender or not, is wonderful. If you've known each other for a long time it can be more like siblings than anything else.
Of course, your (or his) significant other may become jealous, which is a separate issue.
2007-03-11 21:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy_lyn_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not wrong..But i think you have feelings (or beginning to have feelings) for this close friend of yours ..or you wouldn't even be asking this question would you ?.
I say if you like him more then your current BF you should see if he feels the same. You could always ask him. Or text him an I love you.. and see what his responce is...then if if its too much say you meant to text your BF and got the wrong person.
2007-03-11 21:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is like it sounds - like you are seeing your boyfriend's best friend more than your boyfriend and talking to him (text and phone) more than your boyfriend, then yes, it IS bad. No wonder people think you're dating him.
2007-03-11 21:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sit down one day nd think about it, do really like your boyfriend more or your best friends boyfriend more. If u like ur best friend bf more than start spending more time with ur boyfriend and less time with ur best friends bf. or....... things could get ugly if u know what im talkin about. Good LUck!
2007-03-11 21:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by VanessaRose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...its not bad or wrong to have friends of the other sex even while ur dating someone else, as long as your significant other knows u and his friend arent going out
2007-03-11 21:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by killerpicklez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not bad, unless other feelings are involved. Don't let outside judgement affect what's inside. The outer side doesn't see the inside very well.
2007-03-11 21:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋