Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

My husband in the past 3 weeks has been chatting frequently via text, email, IM and lots of calls with a single female co-worker. The first time anything unusual occurred about 3 weeks ago over supper...he apologized for bringing up her name all the time. Until that time I really didn't notice. Well then about 1 week ago I noticed him constantly texting her, doing IMs and he said it was about work. Then wheneve he talked about her his cheeks would get flushed & acted like he had a school boy crush. Then we got our Cell Bill and there are numerous days of them chatting on the phone for 99 min, 54 min, 30 min, etc. I advised him that this is really not making me feel good that he is married - she is single and that they are beginning to cross the line. He instantly defends her and doesn't get why I am upset. We are having troubles in our marriage and this doesn't help. He says they are just "Friends". Am I wrong for feeling betrayed?

2007-03-10 15:10:32 · 49 answers · asked by Sheri in Fargo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-10 15:10:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My GF and I were out with my friends last night and she was extremely rude and mean to a few people and one in particular. She had no reason to be that way, except that she is just plain rude to people some times. I was embarassed and upset. We got into a fight and have not talked since. She hasn't called me, should I call her?

2007-03-10 15:09:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:09:07 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I have known for a total of two months, and have been on two dates with in the last month wants me to go to church with her.

She tells me that she is only seeing one person, someone she likes (hinting at me duh).

She calls me her dear, and once called me honey almost as if she was testing the water.

We were making out and I told her JOKINGLY that she is my friend and she got sorta upset and said she is more than my friend but doesn't know what.

She told me she is gonna burn a music cd for me to workout to without me asking.

She told me before that she doesn't make out until in a relationship but we make out even though both of our myspace profiles still say single.

Is she hinting at wanting something more? What do most girls do or say to hint that they want a relationship? She wants one otherwise she would not be dating me (she is religious) but I am not sure if she is ready.

2007-03-10 15:09:06 · 4 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to feel so hot just a few years ago now I barely feel hot when I dress up and put make-up on or do my hair..........
I'm not even old!

2007-03-10 15:08:50 · 4 answers · asked by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 in Singles & Dating

with who and why?

2007-03-10 15:08:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been interested in a man that works at Raleys for almost 2 years now. In that almost 2 years I have only talked to him briefly (Like saying how how are you ?? and are you hiring??).He is totally my type.I have NO idea if he has a girlfriend.I have been told just to ask him but don't want to look like a jackass in front of him. I have also been told that maybe I should ask a coworker but I dont think that is good idea because I dont want to get him in trouble or embarrass him.Would it be lame to write him a note telling him Im interested in him and that I wanted to know if he was involved with someone and if he wasnt would he be interested in getting together sometime?? I want to know how to put it without sounding lame, desperate or pushy and without making a jackass of myself or making him uncomfortable. He has been smiling at me more lately when I go in. Any ideas are appreciated.Thanks you all!!!!!!

2007-03-10 15:08:23 · 6 answers · asked by Tbrat 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:07:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:07:37 · 1 answers · asked by aaliyah' 1 in Singles & Dating

imagine! sheer bliss!!!!!!

2007-03-10 15:06:55 · 36 answers · asked by HERBS 2 in Singles & Dating

My uncle died a few years ago and I miss him so much, we were very close and He was good to me. when I was sad he would make me laugh. he spoiled me to death and I miss that. What do I do?

2007-03-10 15:05:49 · 19 answers · asked by kimberly a 1 in Family

Me and this guy had a huge fallout. (Long story)

Now.. 2 months later he's coming back saying he's so sorry, and blah blah blah. He keeps texting me and IMing me to.

Well.. I told myself I would never like this guy again, because of the things he did, now 2 months later he's back and I feel myself falling for him all over again! I really don't WANT to like him, but I can already feel myself wondering if he's "talking" to anyone.

How can I get over this?!

2007-03-10 15:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a guy that is so cute i cant stand to talk or see him......i smile when i see him......what do i do now?????????????

2007-03-10 15:04:31 · 4 answers · asked by cutiepie11 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i are in different grades and we only see each other after school for like five minutes! and we cant hook up outside of school because i am grounded! what should i do?

2007-03-10 15:04:10 · 6 answers · asked by Ali H 1 in Singles & Dating

So her body looks like she has had 4 kids.But she is kind and loving.She is only 24.Children all very young.She loves her husband.But it's time for her to move on.Is there alot of men out there would would really be up to a challenge like that?

2007-03-10 15:04:08 · 8 answers · asked by sunkissed299 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:02:56 · 34 answers · asked by Adarsh S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think that girls are naturally demanding ...it's part of them ..when u get into a relationship with a girl she's the one asking you to do things for her all the time, and u as a guy you just execute ...i think this is the way she thinks she's your gf by asking and you doing quickly without objections ... but why ?

2007-03-10 15:02:26 · 12 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really attracted to this guy and he seems to be the same towards me. I've always found older men more attractive than guys my own age. I guess it's a maturity / responsibility thing. The saying goes "Men don't get brains until they're 35." And it's true... But I feel nervous because I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I can't really interpret what he's thinking, but he asks me very personal question and always seems interested in me and what I have to say. We have a lot of the same opinions. The other night we sat and talked until 5 in the morning... Should I just go for it or hang back and let him make the first move?

2007-03-10 15:02:05 · 13 answers · asked by Alaina 2 in Singles & Dating

My best guy friend likes my best friend (who is a girl...duh!!) but she don't like him. He always asks me to talk to her for him but she gets really mad at me if I do...so what do I tell him. And to make things worse, I like him!! But he dont even acknowldege me like that!

2007-03-10 15:01:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:01:16 · 31 answers · asked by HERBS 2 in Singles & Dating

What does he feel when he sees her and think she is the most gorgeous creature on earth?

2007-03-10 15:00:23 · 25 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i try to talk to him all he does is say he understands but then turns around and does the same thing again. how do i deal with it?

2007-03-10 15:00:19 · 28 answers · asked by lost and lonely 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-10 14:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by HERBS 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 14:59:41 · 14 answers · asked by Adarsh S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so a.l.o.t. of the time i act like a boy. I'm all "pound it!" "whattup" "homie hug" and im into football and basketball and rock music and skating and i'm the arm wrestling champion of the grade and stuff like that. and alot of my friends are boys and i can really relate to them and all, just im worried that no boy will ever like me as a girl cuz i act like a boy alot. but i mean, i dont ALWAYS act like a boy, when im with my gal pals and stuff i can be a tad girly and im a dancer and i like poetry but still, around boys im always tomboyish and idk im confused, unconfuse me anyone??

2007-03-10 14:59:35 · 8 answers · asked by Holla!! 3 in Singles & Dating

can i get some answers from girls why yall are so hard to get or guys input its all good but haha yeah crazy stuff

2007-03-10 14:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by will B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

As in, you like this guy, he likes you, it is platonic and friendly. You want more but don't want to be pushy. How does one get his attention?

2007-03-10 14:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by yankeedoodledandygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

If a child is planning to go to college after graduation, does the parent who is currently paying child support need to continue to do so?

2007-03-10 14:58:26 · 14 answers · asked by smiley_gal2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce