How do you get a guy's attention?

Question

As in, you like this guy, he likes you, it is platonic and friendly. You want more but don't want to be pushy. How does one get his attention?

Answer 1

Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't try to get a guy to look your way just because you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below.
Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. Any guy who does want a fake kind of girl is not a guy whose attention is worth having. Resist the temptation to put on a show or to do anything that just isn't you just to get his attention.
Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, just because variety's the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye.
Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.
Flirt. Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way.
Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him. Take interest in the activities he's interested in him, not just so that you can get near him but also so that you can get to know him better and so you can broaden your own horizons.
Talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question. Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. You could even compliment him or ask for help.
Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, that you respect something about him, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.
Be brave and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. Ultimately, this will catch the attention and respect of someone who is going to work well for you, even if it turns out not to be this guy.



Tips
Be sure to have gum, breath mints, Listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly, especially if you're hoping to start a conversation.
It's always a good idea to keep yourself well-groomed. While there are guys who get uncomfortable and intimidated if you're all dolled up, it never hurts to stick to a few hygiene basics: shower daily, brush your teeth regularly, use deodorant, keep your hair decent (not perfect, but decent), and take care of your skin. Better yet, stay healthy!
Speak your mind. You're not a drone, and any guy worth having will love it. Just don't scare them by going into a spiel. It's a turn-on to see a girl who loves her mind, not one who's bent on world domination. Likewise, don't get caught up in complaining (about yourself, others, your circumstances). Negativity pushes others away, and it lowers your self-esteem.
If you cannot relate to any of his interests, or even make a genuine effort to get into it, there will never be ground for a lasting relationship anyway. Dump your intentions now.
Being too straightforward might mean leaving him bored. One way to get someone's attention is to make him curious, and that means leaving him guessing to some degree.



Warnings
Be careful whose attention you're getting, and what kind of attention you're earning. Being noticed by a sleazy guy who'll pressure you to do things you don't want to do or a needy guy who'll cling to you and make you feel limited is something you can avoid by being wary.
You can't get everyone to notice you. Remember that guys come and go, so do not stress yourself if things do not work out in your favor. You are a normal, complete person all on your own, and you don't need a guy's attention to be happy.
Being too obsessive can do the opposite of what you want to achieve, pushing him farther away. If he just won't become attracted to you, leave it alone. Do not push it, or things might get ugly, and you'll earn a bad reputation.

Answer 2

Guys are naturally attracted to Lavender and Vanilla, so those scents in perfumes/shampoos are a plus. Try talking in his right ear- that's the side of the brain that controls happiness. And smiling and giggling in general is always a good idea. Hoped I helped!

Answer 3

well, i am going out with a boy myself, today, he took me to an ice rink with some of my friends. When he got on the ice, he kept showing off by doing all these cool tricks. I just kept falling on purpose to try to get his attention, and i did. I also laugh a LOT whenever he is around. i say things that r funny, i laugh, i jump off swings at the park, i yell, and sometimes, i will even just do something really stupid.

Answer 4

Ask him. Be honest. Don't dance around the situation. Everyone looks for honesty in relationships, so it may as well start early.

Answer 5

go out for coffee or for a drink ...its more personal and you can read he's body language and any vibes...you can talk more intimate and see where it goes from there...if it goes well he should make the move to ask you to a movie or to go out...if he doesn't you make the move...good luck

Answer 6

-flirt a little more, but not desperately.
-don't CHANGE who you are, cause thats who he likes.
-try and get interested in what he likes, or try and find out different quirks about him to help start conversation and help possibly kindle something...
;-) good luck!

Answer 7

you should definitley be very nice to him and don't let him know you want him but let him know that your open for agreement and make sure he see's you dressed hott and with another boy!!!

Answer 8

dress sexy with the hair flowing ...in the wind..that way you get the attention of him and others....remember when a guy is interesting to you he will try his best to get your attention when he sees others looking at you he will try harder to get your attention..good luck

Answer 9

By being sexy, charismatic, gorgeous and having presence with a touch of confidence.

Answer 10

It will happen if you both like eachother enough. one day hell just tell you but you have to show you like him back without actually saying it just have to show it.