Im confused about a man Im interested in.......?

Question

I have been interested in a man that works at Raleys for almost 2 years now. In that almost 2 years I have only talked to him briefly (Like saying how how are you ?? and are you hiring??).He is totally my type.I have NO idea if he has a girlfriend.I have been told just to ask him but don't want to look like a jackass in front of him. I have also been told that maybe I should ask a coworker but I dont think that is good idea because I dont want to get him in trouble or embarrass him.Would it be lame to write him a note telling him Im interested in him and that I wanted to know if he was involved with someone and if he wasnt would he be interested in getting together sometime?? I want to know how to put it without sounding lame, desperate or pushy and without making a jackass of myself or making him uncomfortable. He has been smiling at me more lately when I go in. Any ideas are appreciated.Thanks you all!!!!!!

Answer 1

Just say to him when you have a chance...

or just be yourself, "Hey...you know we've been friendly acquaintances for some time now right? Well I've found in that time that we seem to be nice to each and I think that it would be a good time to ask..If I may, but are you spoken for? You know, do you have a girlfriend? The reason I'm asking is that I'll admit that I've gotten to like you as a good acquaintance and I'd like for us to go out together sometime and have a good time, maybe at a movie or have a meal? I'd like to be better friends and hope that we can be. What do you think?

you don't have to say exactly like that, but mean it like that, This way you're showing not only interest, but also compassion towards being a friend which is pretty important first thing, right? Then let the friendship develop and find out more about him and what makes him "tick" before you really take the shot you're obviously up to. Hope this helps....Good Luck....

Answer 2

adult males particularly are not that complicated. complicated under pressure out for actual. it type of feels you're getting way ahead of your self. Take sometime at a time. Be friends first and finest. After time you will see. No video games, adult males hate it as much as we ladies do. it must be that if he's flirting and previous gf is there, he won't be over her. Watch and notice if he flirts in basic terms whilst she is latest. If flirting and she or he's not any the place to be seen, must be geniune interest, yet sometime at a time.

Answer 3

In a way, it's actually more difficult for women than it is for men. What you need to do is get HIM to ask YOU out.
Smiling is always good. Brushing up against him in a seemingly accidental way is good. Touching his arm - letting him know that you are interested. This way - if he doesn't respond, you can just walk away like nothing happened, no harm no foul. FLIRT. It's not that hard. Wear something sexy but not slutty, something that shows the top of your breasts, accentuates your behind, a short skirt is always a good bet. Make him want you.

Answer 4

Writing notes is kind of high school. Next time you see him and say hello, just ask if maybe he would like to have lunch sometime. Lunch can be taken as friendly or romantic. If he says yes, just take it from there. If he says no, you can fall back on it just being a friend lunch and not feel foolish.

Answer 5

Strike up conversation with him. He may be gorgeous but he may also be an asshole. After a week or two if the conversations continue just ask. Get to know him better. The note is a little junior highish

Answer 6

no the best way is to directly ask the man, the worse thing is that he could be taken, so what? move on. hope this didnt sound too mean