Mind you any excesses whether in sex or otherwise can be harmful to both your health as well if your wife complaints it will be considered as cruelty which can effect your otherwise happy married life. My reply may look sarcastic but it the reality my dear friend.
2007-03-11 00:27:16
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answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7
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Your question isn't very clear. Are you having sex three times in a night and want more? Or do you want to have sex three times in a night and are getting less, like once or twice? If it is the former, I really don't blame your wife. Sex more than thrice in a single night might be a bit above the limit even for newly weds, if the woman doesn't have a voracious sex appetite. And anyway, newly wed or not, sex appetite isn't the same for all persons. So you should be considerate to your wife's sex appetite too, which is lesser than yours. If however three times is your limit and your wife finds it too much in a single night, why don't you space it out throughout the day instead of restricting it to the night only? That way you will remain fulfilled and your wife would have lesser problems.
2007-03-11 04:39:41
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answered by Modest 6
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I agree what 'As If' & 'Janu' have written. It seems that she is either physically weak or u r not able to love her that much as she wants & deserves from u. Remove the reasons of the both. U may not be expert in love making to generate full confidence & foreplay. Try your all possible efforts to please her as much as possible to keep her free from tensions. Doing sex thrice a night is quite normal thing for a newly married young couple upto six months, some ones can do the same upto the age of 50 years, if both r physically strong. Do sex when dinner is fully digested. Dissolve honey in warm buffalo milk & feed her 15 minutes before sex. Moreover, her natural sex threshold may be higher & so she requires better fore play & arousal from u than normal ladies. U may not be expert in arousing her which u 've to learn by practice gradually. This comes on your part only. It is not her fault at all. Whatever God has made her u can not change. Always be soft spoken & tolerant towards her. This is not a problem at all. Sooner or later u 'll not have anything to ask from anybody.
2007-03-12 00:24:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I know that this is a controversial topic because not everyone agree.
My wife did not have a lot of experience before she met me.
Since we are really in Love with each other, sex is very good between me and her.
The first time me and my wife had sex, we were already dating 8 months before we became intimate. After 8 months of dating and talking and getting to know each other, we had sex and we could not stop making love and still today with 2 babies. We are still going crazy. We love to have sex because of our strong feeling toward each other. We are very close and attached.
Sex is a beautiful gift when 2 people are truly in love.
I do everything that a man is suppose to do for his wife.
My wife is treated like Royalty not a sex machine.
2007-03-10 15:49:52
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answered by Big P 5
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Man, you need to understand this that we are humans and yes no doubt we all want sex at times, some like it more some like it less but a woman or a man just cant give u sex whenever you want. Its a special thing to be done with care and love. dont treat ur wife like she is a slave. she has got some limitations when it comes to sex.. and dont try n push it too hard.
Do it once or twice a weeek depending on her understanding.. it shd b done mutualy not according to ones wish... hope u understand !! wish u luck
take care
2007-03-10 18:23:57
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answered by Deeps 4
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You are in the top .001% of sexually satisfied men if you are getting sex 3 times a night. And you are not satisfied with that?! You need to step back and think about your wife. Ease up on her.
2007-03-10 15:08:42
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answered by shanequinox 5
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I think your the problem here. But advise is what you want, so. Find out what your wife finds so desirable of you and try to make it ten times better. Peck her every now and then on the spots where she is weakest and then walk away. Playing hard to get is the good one as well as acting as you have not much interest. Good luck.
2007-03-10 15:07:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Most women don't want just sex. They want romance and lovemaking this will put a different spinned on just want to connect physically. Lovemaking is connecting on all levels and using all the senses, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physcically.
My husband makes love to my spirit by letting me know that it's important for him to know what and how I'm feeling about anything at anytime. He always tell me "my time is my Janu time" I realisticly know that my husband needs to work and spend quality time with his kids, etc. However, when he says this to me I know I'm important in his life and he doesn't take me or our love for granted and I feel the same for him.
He wants to fullfill my desires and fantasys and I want to fullfill his desires and fantasys on all levels. I'm his missing rib and he's my king of my heart and soul and our love is unconditional. We both can't wait for the day when we're in our 70's just as inlove with each other as teenage lovers. (smile)
When you and your share your feelings don't hold nothing back. You are all one but respect and trust each other individualities. It works! I know because I living it. God Bless
2007-03-11 14:30:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Why burn her out right from jump street? Unless your getting a divorce next week, chill out. She'll bee there tomorrow. She's not fruit, there's no expiration date.
Let her set a pace that's good for her, because believe it not she'll outlast you in the long run.
Keep in mind when she closes the door, you'll be taking matters into your hand , if you know what I mean.
2007-03-10 15:17:34
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answered by walker9842 4
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Don't pressurise her too much else she will deny it even once a night. It's a new experience for you both but try and understand what she wants too. Relax man....this is just the beginning.
2007-03-12 01:31:26
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answered by AngelEyes 3
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