I think that girls are naturally demanding ...it's part of them ..when u get into a relationship with a girl she's the one asking you to do things for her all the time, and u as a guy you just execute ...i think this is the way she thinks she's your gf by asking and you doing quickly without objections ... but why ?
2007-03-10 15:02:26 · 12 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is totally normal. Society today, and especially younger folks, really struggle with this because the role of men and women has changed so much. There was a time when being with a woman was a privilege and something that men had to earn. Now with women working, making money, and often being well off on their own, some guys lose sight of the fact that when you date a woman you are basically auditioning to be in her life. A man has an important role... you are still a provider, protector, father, husband, friend, and lover. Now we would all hope that if you jump through the right hoops for your girl that she in turn does a few of the things for you that men find important... The reality of it all is that whether you are single, dating, married, whatever, women always will place an importance on the things that men do for them... it helps a lot of women to have the reassurance that you are there for them... sometimes it is going out at 10:00 at night in search of ice cream... sometimes it is just being there and listening as she vents about something that you could care less about... welcome to manhood!
2007-03-10 15:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this bothers you alot, i think you should try to find a different kind of women. Not all women are alike, and if this is what you always end up with, there must be something in them, conciously or not, that you are attracted to. Maybe they are spoiled women? Or co dependant. Maybe you like feeling needed? You need to look for the independant type if you want to change this.
2007-03-10 15:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lady J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a question a woman should answer...and honestly. I am a guy, married and have the same problem. I believe it is a control thing. The more you do for them the less respect they will have for you. Whenever my wife asks me to do something or hands me the "Honey Do" list I purposely take forever to do it. Why? Because I don't ask how high to jump when they say jump. Plus, they will always hand you more things to do. I don't know if these types of women are immature or sadistic. Probably both. I can honestly say that I never ask my wife to do anything. I grew up believing that I should do things for myself. My wife will ask me to do things that she very easily could do and I will quote one of my son's books..."Don't ask others to do what you easily could do yourself." Ask her why she can't do it herself? Good luck!
2007-03-11 21:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rmalko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Im a girl and im in a relationship. But im not demanding like that. My boyfriend always tells me that whatever i say he would do it but I dont take advantage of that at all. We respect eachother equally. So I think what you're trying to say is "MOST girls are demanding".
2007-03-10 15:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHIPPED!
Dude, you sound like you're in high school - things change after that, thank God. But you need to take command - you gotta be confident even if you were a homeless vagrant - you gotta KNOW that you're worth more than just being a "gofor". If the girls don't like it, and many won't, they may leave you - but do you really want to be some broad's slave? Or would you like her to be yours?
Write me privately if you need more on this.
2007-03-10 15:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they've been feminized by the movement. They are taught to go against their nature of giving to men (and I don't mean shack-up sex) and this is the way it backfires...
2007-03-10 15:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by strongheaded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do that to my husband.But then when he gets deployed I just snap out of it and do for myself.I just like that he does whatever I ask him to.It's kind of like asking your dog to play dead and shake.There really is no good reason.Aside from it just makes you feel good when they do it.And it's not a bad thing.Men are equally as demanding.Just not willing to see or admit it.
2007-03-10 15:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by sunkissed299 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are dating immature women.
2007-03-10 15:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs to see your actions to understand your feelings towards her - esp. if you haven't verbal confirmed your feelings towards her. she is looking for validity - if you have expressed your love than she is just a b**ch. good luck.
2007-03-10 15:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by RPW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm because we expect you to be perfect! =) Or close to.
2007-03-10 15:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Naomi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋