My GF and I were out with my friends last night and she was extremely rude and mean to a few people and one in particular. She had no reason to be that way, except that she is just plain rude to people some times. I was embarassed and upset. We got into a fight and have not talked since. She hasn't called me, should I call her?
2007-03-10 15:09:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends. Is her behavior a dealbreaker? What needs to happen for this to be over in your mind AND hers?
2007-03-10 15:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. It sounds like you might have made her jealous or better yet you know how to push her buttons. I had a girlfriend like that who would fight with her boyfriend at my house. The boyfriend was cheating on her. She would catch him with another girl. Break it off with him. Then go back with him without truly forgiving him for cheating on her. The boyfriend was very nice looking and he knew it. Sometimes we do not know how we come across to other people. The girl does sound like she is immature and insecure. Try being more attentive to her. At least try to work it out. Hopefully, she will get glad where she got mad at. If not at least you tried. Some body has to make the first move. You are and will be a better person for making the first move. Go for it....
2007-03-10 15:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. Love is all about compromise, remember? Call her and tell her that you love her. After she is all fine and ready to tlak to you normall again, just casually mention that even though you were the one to make up, you still think that what she did last night was bad, and not to repeat it. Explain to her that you were embarrased and upset, and that you think of her highly and don't expect her to stoop to a level where people are just plain rude to everyone
2007-03-10 15:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should let her cool off and maybe you shouldn't just say that she was being rude for no reason... maybe she had one. So let her cool off for a few days and if she still wants a relationship with you, she should be the one who should apologize.
2007-03-10 15:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should definitely call her. Don't sound like you're accusing her of something--- just simply tell her that she was wrong for being so rude. It's good to talk about it.
2007-03-10 15:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if she was rude for no reason, just because, then no, let it cool down, may be she relaized that she did wrong, email her, tell her your point of view at least like that she will have time to think.
2007-03-10 15:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by Knella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why would you think of calling her? she was wrong and she has to learn.. if you call her your going to make her think what she did was ok and your going to look like the fool. don't call her let her call you. if she feels bad about it and misses you she would of called a long time ago. looks like she doesn't have any respect for you or care enough to call and apologize.
2007-03-10 15:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Blake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, call her and tell her you are breaking up with her until she grows up and finds some manners and common descency. Then tell her when she does find those things to call you back, and if you are still single you'll consider dating her again.
2007-03-10 15:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her what happend? Why she felt like doing that and dealing with the situation in that way. Trust me the longer you put it off...the longer she'll blame you or something :(
2007-03-10 15:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sure y not maybe try saying ur sry for making it a big deal and say nicely that she should just try to be more considerate if it works or not depends on what type of person she is
2007-03-10 15:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋