Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now...He told me he loved me but im not sure if he ment it or not. How can you tell if he truley ment it.

2007-03-01 14:44:03 · 1 answers · asked by cute_angel_08kdh 1 in Singles & Dating

good looking and poor or ugly and rich?

2007-03-01 14:43:25 · 2 answers · asked by Sir Hard & Thick 2 in Singles & Dating

My 14 yr old step daughter is super super sweet to my face, wants me to do things for her and with her but...she would love to have her parents back together. I know that will never happen because I am very secure in my marriage with my husband. Why does it bother me so much that she feels that way? Do I have a right to be hurt by that? Should I stop doing things with her? I need help. Any advice out there would be appreciated. Thanks!

2007-03-01 14:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by sizzlininvegas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a nice girl at a gifted & talented summer college credit program.
She lived some ways away, so we chatted using Google Talk. (And texting..and the phone) A lot. So much her mom find out. And ended it right there. I refused to give up and contacted her through covert channels like challenge-based email, pseudonyms, phone # masking, etc), which got initial replies and then...total silence. Nothing worked, even though it was clear she was opening the mails (reader-confirmation tech) I am absolutely certain as I used tots of diff. things, some for my own creation. So then I get an email saying "I'm not coming back to the place, so bye, It makes no sense to talk to u"...Then I check the enrollment list and she's on there! I tried asking y she did that with no reply. I'm on BAD terms with her mom (She cursed at me and stuff, so I got defensive). What do I do? Thank you so much!

2007-03-01 14:42:18 · 2 answers · asked by DarkDespair5 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 14:40:39 · 2 answers · asked by wikawikawoo<494> 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, last time i told all of you about my gf. if you don't know what im talking about, i wil explain again. ok this is how it goes, my gf whos 23 years old, i been dating for a while now. anyway before she dated me, she had a ex bf, and they made the choice to have a baby, but broke up a few weeks later. anyway she told me she was going to have a baby thats not even mine!. we never had sex, and she said shes going to keep the baby. anyway i came here and asked for advice, and i told her how i felt. i said im glad shes keeping the baby, and im still going to be with her, i love her, and i will help her take care of the baby. im 18, and my 23 year old gf is having a baby thats not mine, but i made the choice to stay. i got a job, and i can help her if she needs it. were not getitng married, and she said shes never going to see her ex again. i love her, and if that means baby sitting the baby if she has to go somewhere, i won't mind. what are your thoughts on this? and be 100% honest.

2007-03-01 14:40:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am living ON and wonder if I can move back to BC when I divorce. Am I supposed to live distant where husband can see baby every week? If I give up money from him can I move away? I'm doing him good too right? by the way what's average child support monthly?

2007-03-01 14:39:35 · 3 answers · asked by raindrops 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the situation my best friend and i got back from a concert about 8 week ago we had a great time right i drop her of at home i told her i would call her the next day, i pick up my cousin and we grab some drinks and we are driving around and he called her to have a few with us, but when he called her i didn't know he was talking to her right; she had said she was bored i said only boring people get bored, and he told her i said that i thought he was talking to his friend, in fact he was talking to my best friend, we get to her place she didn't look at me or talk to me at all, i know i should have apologized as soon as possible but didn't think that this would happen, i try and call her and she will not return my calls i don't know what to do, what should i say to her in the message when i call it's been 8 weeks, So sad need your HELP or maybe she knows that i like her B/C i told my sister that i like her and had strong feelings for her, and my sis said something that freakedherout

2007-03-01 14:39:27 · 1 answers · asked by LifeIsTooShort 1 in Friends

Do married people still sleep together even at risk of the healthy spouse getting sick? or do they sleep in seperate rooms until the other is well?

2007-03-01 14:38:51 · 9 answers · asked by naztakuan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met my friend at work. i usually don't befriend girls, but she seemed cool. there are tons of things about her that totally annoy me. like she always talks crap on people behind there back, she is always sorry for herself, she thinks she's the only single 20 year old with a kid, she is totally 2 faced, and is friends with tons of loser that do drugs. well she was talking bout her new bf who is in wisconsin visiting his son and he said he wants to bring him home cuz he don't think the mom is a good mom. my friend was talkin crap on her own bf talking like there is no way he can take care of a kid and pretty much sayin he is not capable of taking care of his son. well i said she needs to have faith in him he prolly knows wut he's doin. then she gave me a nasty look and it made me mad so i said you know yer not the only single person in the world with a kid. your not the only person who can take care of a child. now she's pissed at me. i need advice bout everything. help plz

2007-03-01 14:38:36 · 1 answers · asked by hickgirl4ever 3 in Friends

dont want to give the normal flower rituals like others. so i wonder wat is the meaning if i gave a girl perfume as a gift?

2007-03-01 14:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by Bob Crama 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, recently i liked this guy who turned out to be a total jerk. long story short, i flirted too much with him and he thought i was a bit crazy. now, i'm changing schools (again) and i just met one of my soon-to-be classmates, who reminds me of the first guy- not the jerkiness part, but its something about his teasing sense of humor... and how he acts like he doesn't really care about me one way or the other. so my questions are, is it really just an act that the new guy doesnt care, and also, how do i change my flirting so it doesnt end up like the 1st guy, without totally not flirting so he thinks im not interested??

IM me with ?'s: smurphgirl131

2007-03-01 14:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by smurphgirl131 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a box that is a couple of months past their date. Their official shelf life is 25 days.

It looks ok, would you eat it?

2007-03-01 14:35:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you feel in your heart you like someone, you ask them out and they don't feel the same. Why listen to your heart after that?

p.s. this didn't happen I was just wondering

2007-03-01 14:35:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i stay ... or should i go...?
i love my boyfriend to death but he can be a real jerk sometimes i think it because we havent sceen eachother in so long and i know he cares cause whe i gave him the choice to choice between me and his addtude he started workin stuff out wit h me but the past couple of days its beeen rough i promised him i would stay by his side no matter how tought it was i dont it to be over but at this poitn im thinking things might be easyier to let go then to hold on but then again that would be takeng the easy way out ...


i do want to be with him people just tell me it might hurt less to just give up and let go but my i feel like he is the one for me

2007-03-01 14:34:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go to the gym just to see the hot guys workout. (or is that your motivation?) That's what it seems like.

2007-03-01 14:34:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-01 14:33:18 · 24 answers · asked by Real 2 in Singles & Dating

what does a girl have to do you for you t=like her and give her a chance? ive never had a reall boyfriend and im 23. im not ugly, but im not beautiful. im funny and caring, im love guy stuff like camoing and fishing and being outdoors. my guy friends say that any guy would be lucky to have me, but no one wants to even try? can you please help me. should i try to be more girly even though its not me. i dont think i should have to change just to get a guy, but maybe i should. please help!

2007-03-01 14:32:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other day, one of my friends said to this boy that I sort of like and I THINK he likes me, "she likes you", and he made a sort of weird sound and then moved over farther away from our table. Then like today he was just all talking to me, he usually doesnt,about our assignment in that cute little iam shy way.
I just dont know what he thinks.

2007-03-01 14:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5 in Singles & Dating

anything please, I need I deas

2007-03-01 14:32:26 · 22 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

A man who has lost his hair due to balding at a young age or a man with long blonde hair? Long as in long.

2007-03-01 14:32:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was 9 years old my cousin did inappropriate things to me.....Ive never told anyone..


My cousin and I get along great...and I have no animosity ..but I now look and see that what happened has had a tremendous effect on the person I am today...

SHould I mention this now?

2007-03-01 14:31:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 14:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by jjrjeff 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have been dating a guy I met online, well sort of met online. He is a friend of a friend an he introduced us then we started talking online an eventually dating. He lives local to me not even 2 miles away I have been to his house tons of times in the last 3 months, all times of day, usually spending the night. It's a typical bachelor pad. Well today with a little snooping on public record search site I find out he’s married. It's him on the site thats a fact everything matches up. My friend that introduced us knows nothing of him being married. He said he has never seen him go on more then a couple dates in a # of years. Well he got married to a girl 19 years his junior, which is 1 year younger then me just over a year ago. I haven’t seen hide nor hair of a wife in all this time. I know most his friends and nothing suggests there is a wife. I know for a fact they were married and there is no public documents to show a divorce. What am I to think of this? I’m confused....

2007-03-01 14:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mesa 1 in Singles & Dating

how long after a break up do u date again? or get involved in a serious relationship again? so u won't be called a slut or player, or whatever

2007-03-01 14:28:12 · 1 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my parents 30 minutes away from the university im currently attending. I really don't want to live on campus because I'd be away from work, which is 5 minutes away from my parents house. I don't make a lot of money but the schedule is really flexible to my classes and such. I also can call out if need be and not have to worry about losing my job.

My question is Should i move out and live with three friends?! Money would be tight but my parents and I haven't been getting along and its been really stressful. ANOTHER BIG PROBLEM is I love my boyfriend and he lives in an apartment near my parents house. I've been spending most of the nights at his place but I don't think he's going to ask me about moving in anytime soon...

2007-03-01 14:28:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband says that i dont show him any affection anymore.. i rub his back, gently caress him, we make love, we kiss... what else can i do to be more affectionate... please help

2007-03-01 14:28:05 · 6 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I turned him down my junior prom and this year, he's asking me to go to the senior prom with him. We're friends, but I really don't want to go with him. How should I refuse him? On my junior prom, I didn't see him there. I kind of feel bad for him.

2007-03-01 14:27:57 · 16 answers · asked by Cecilia 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 14:27:52 · 3 answers · asked by t-man 1 in Friends

we say hurtfull things but we love each other

2007-03-01 14:27:17 · 6 answers · asked by I Like It 2 in Marriage & Divorce