my husband says that i dont show him any affection anymore.. i rub his back, gently caress him, we make love, we kiss... what else can i do to be more affectionate... please help
2007-03-01 14:28:05 · 6 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Send him flowers; leave notes on his windshield or in his lunchbox; hold hands in public; smile at him frequently. Sex and love are not necessarily the same thing, although both are wonderful. Since your sex life sounds good, go for simple romantic gestures during your more public hours. Let him overhear you raving to someone on the phone about how fantastic he is; take a romantic walk; and above all, tell him you love him... often.
2007-03-01 15:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by dannykel1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does he consider affection? I know that sounds stupid. But really what does HE consider affection? If physical attention isn't it....what is?
Compliments? "Honey, I'm glad you go to work everyday to support the family. That means a lot to me."
A special act that you don't normally do? "I made you favorite supper tonight, because I love you."
Perhaps a gifts? "I saw you drooling over that power sprayer in the hardware store, I thought you might like your own." (you bought it for him)
Maybe it is just time well spent together that he craves? "I rented Die Hard. Why don't we curl up on the couch together with a bowl of popcorn, and watch it?" or "Gosh you look stressed! Why don't you tell me about your day."
2007-03-01 23:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing great to me. What does HE do to show affection to YOU? I like it when my wife just touches me during the day for no real reason. Or when we are doing our shopping she will just touch my shoulder...lets me know that she loves me I guess *S*
2007-03-01 22:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could try cuddeling and giving him hugs and doing all that you do above but pretending to like it a little more. LOL
2007-03-01 22:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish my would o that much.
2007-03-01 22:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by theanswerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants more BJ's
2007-03-01 22:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋