If you feel in your heart you like someone, you ask them out and they don't feel the same. Why listen to your heart after that?
p.s. this didn't happen I was just wondering
2007-03-01 14:35:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is many great answers.. I don't know what to choose. Though, I do agree with most of you that the mind does play tricks!
2007-03-01 22:33:29 · update #1
Number one: most times you should listen to your head. Number two: rejection in dating is a fact of life.
2007-03-01 14:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You need to develop wisdom and experience. Long lasting success is having the wisdom to know when the heart is on the right track, or your logical mind. The truth is - there is no simple answer. Most often the best course is to know how to evaluate the relative correctness of either approach.
Best thing - practice, I mean it. Sometimes try the logical approach, sometimes try the emotional angle. You'll start to develop an instinct (wisdom) about how to decide.
Good question.
2007-03-01 22:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by lip11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your heart is never wrong.
Just because you feel it doesn't mean the other person automatically does. Nothing happens for no reason, you have something to learn from your experience and you just need to figure out what. Maybe you have to learn to balance between your heart and your head. Maybe you had to learn not to throw your whole heart into something before you know the full story. It's something you have to figure out for yourself but your heart is never wrong.
2007-03-01 22:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The heart doesn't lie...the mind does..its the ultimate trickster, tell it to be quiet and just be...however u feel at that moment is the truth.
And to answer ur second question...maybe ur heart was just trying to teach u a lesson in courage...which might be needed in the future for someone else whom u might have to approach.
2007-03-01 22:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by susieozbornehiphop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your heart is never wrong, its your mind that plays tricks. So seriously listen to your heart.
2007-03-01 22:39:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kristi in Nevada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your brain weigh the risks, but let your heart have some influence. A broken heart or bruised ego are usually worth the risk if you might find a good mate.
2007-03-01 22:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what you describe is a rarity. One's heart is generally never wrong, but one's manipulative siblings and relatives might
try to make you think it is. Avoid the dangerous memory suppression pills and stand up for your rights and true feelings.
While you're at it, stand up for and insist on what you want to do!
2007-03-01 22:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Tis better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all." Caring about someone helps you grow as a person, even if it doesn't work out the way you want. You can't listen to *just* your brain all the time, or your life will be very cold and lonely.
2007-03-01 22:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Katy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are too confident! ur heart is telling the truth...but...it need some time to prove it! always think twice! if ur heart say that u have to die...will u do it?(sometime it is not all about heart, but ur mind who affect ur heart!)
2007-03-01 22:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by althaea_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it wasnt your heart that led u astray. The other person said no not your heart. Dont blame ur self if you were rejected.
2007-03-01 22:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋