Should i stay ... or should i go...?
i love my boyfriend to death but he can be a real jerk sometimes i think it because we havent sceen eachother in so long and i know he cares cause whe i gave him the choice to choice between me and his addtude he started workin stuff out wit h me but the past couple of days its beeen rough i promised him i would stay by his side no matter how tought it was i dont it to be over but at this poitn im thinking things might be easyier to let go then to hold on but then again that would be takeng the easy way out ...
i do want to be with him people just tell me it might hurt less to just give up and let go but my i feel like he is the one for me
2007-03-01 14:34:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as much as it hurts to leave him.. you should!!
if he doesnt respect you, you shouldn't be with him.
2007-03-01 14:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by rolly_mc_polly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is the one for you...Just please, think seriously about your age....You have so much time to worry about serious relationships...Try to enjoy life now...Why be so serious when things aren't going that well...Ask yourself, "Would I marry him with the way we get along now?" If you can't say yes to that, then get out of the relationship...If he is that complicated that he's so moody, I think you can do much better. Do not sell yourself short for the first guy that comes a long...Get involved in your school and work on your studies and be the best you can be...You will be much happier some day....
2007-03-01 14:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being treated badly, with little to no respect is "for you", then by all means stay and continue to try and change the jerk. If you feel you deserve better, run as fast as you can away from the freak. Your choice.
2007-03-01 14:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Zenawoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only promise I know of that you need to take seriously to stay by someone's side is called a marriage vow.
2007-03-01 14:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I loved my first real longterm bf to death....and it did nearly kill me. He was a jerk to me and didn't respect me or my life at all. If you're young(er) then get out. It isn't takign the easy way out and it isn't being selfish. You really need to be happy. :)
If you don't think you'll be happy without him, then ride it out for a little while longer, notice i said little.
2007-03-01 14:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a little bit more.
2007-03-01 14:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋