my friend is CRAZY!!! HELP?

Question

i met my friend at work. i usually don't befriend girls, but she seemed cool. there are tons of things about her that totally annoy me. like she always talks crap on people behind there back, she is always sorry for herself, she thinks she's the only single 20 year old with a kid, she is totally 2 faced, and is friends with tons of loser that do drugs. well she was talking bout her new bf who is in wisconsin visiting his son and he said he wants to bring him home cuz he don't think the mom is a good mom. my friend was talkin crap on her own bf talking like there is no way he can take care of a kid and pretty much sayin he is not capable of taking care of his son. well i said she needs to have faith in him he prolly knows wut he's doin. then she gave me a nasty look and it made me mad so i said you know yer not the only single person in the world with a kid. your not the only person who can take care of a child. now she's pissed at me. i need advice bout everything. help plz

Answer 1

It depends on how close you are and whether you want to stay friends with her or not. If you do, you could call her and apologize for offending her and hope she comes around. If you've decided that you and your friend don't have much in common and she just irritates you, you might want to reconsider the friendship. Life is too short to spend with friends you don't really like. You could start spending more time with other friends or make new ones. It sounds like your friend has a lot of issues to deal with. If you want to stay friends you can help her deal with them - but if not, the fact that she's mad can help you put some distance between the two of you. Also consider whether she respects you or not. If she talks about others behind their backs she might be doing the same about you. If she doesn't respect you I'd cut her loose. Good luck to you in whatever you decide.