what does a girl have to do you for you t=like her and give her a chance? ive never had a reall boyfriend and im 23. im not ugly, but im not beautiful. im funny and caring, im love guy stuff like camoing and fishing and being outdoors. my guy friends say that any guy would be lucky to have me, but no one wants to even try? can you please help me. should i try to be more girly even though its not me. i dont think i should have to change just to get a guy, but maybe i should. please help!
2007-03-01 14:32:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should stay the way you are....I mean you sound great and when the right guy comes along he'll be lucky to have you.
2007-03-01 14:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keeping being yourself and the right guy will come. A lot of guys probably see you as just a friend because they have gotten to know you through guy-type things i'm guessing? Try meeting guys at places that you like to go but are more neutral. And don't act girly if that's not you, but maybe just some flirting to let them know your interested. Plus remember that you can always ask out the guy!
2007-03-01 14:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by KBear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then why dont you ask someone out?? I mean does it have to be a guy who asks you out cuz you know you can always make the first move. If your guy friends think any guy would be lucky to have you chances are you are pretty amazing girl and most guys probably think they have no chance with you or something like that. So if you really want a guy then go ask him out.
take care and good luck
2007-03-01 14:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not change who you are for anyone else. A lot of guys do want a woman who is more feminine, but not all do. You wouldn't be happy w/someone who expects that of you anyway. Part of it might be that guys who like outdoorsy women tend to be shyer themselves, so they may not be asking girls out yet. Be patient. Your right guy will come along and you'll know it by the tug on the line.
2007-03-01 14:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy would be lucky to have you. I'd like to have but sadly I judt got out and not looking for another relationship any time soon, plus I'm 18 and Im sure you dont wan tsomeone who's younger than you
2007-03-01 14:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine your the girl guys like to hang out with because your more of one of the guys than most...thats means they are not looking for a romantic connection with you...I'd suggest present the girl in you when dating and keep them with being compatible on their level...I like a women who enjoys things I do, but I need to be a gentleman too..and if my women does it all for herself ...then all those girly girls will get his attention...good luck.
2007-03-01 14:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a very fun person... just keep trying and keep looking for the one... =)
you don't have to act girly, but don't act too much like a tom boy =) lol
best of luck!
2007-03-01 14:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by JC MI 38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by learning how to spell and how to use capitalization and punctuation. Sometimes it's the small details that guys notice.
2007-03-01 14:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey,,,, cowgirl....
Where are you darling,, can you bait your own hook???
good luck
2007-03-02 11:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋