Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

It never happened to me but I'm worried it might. I'm wondering how common this is.

2007-02-21 10:34:54 · 17 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Friends

She is 19 and I am 39. We have a lot in common and I personally treat her as I would any other woman, with absolute respect and dignity. We share the same spiritual beliefs, have a very deep emotional bond, and we lean on each other for support. I am at complete peace when I am with her. To me age is a number, a measure of time. Maturity to me is the key, I have dated women who were in their late 20's and mid 30's, but did not hold the confidence nor the emotional fortitude my fiancee possesses. I really could not see myself with any other woman, no matter what age they were. If she was the same age as I, I would still be crazy for her.

2007-02-21 10:34:45 · 15 answers · asked by joe 2 in Singles & Dating

what are some good marriage books? I am looking for something that might help me and my husband learn ways to make our realtionship better and stronger and to avoid a divorce.

2007-02-21 10:33:43 · 6 answers · asked by liz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 10:32:57 · 5 answers · asked by jennniferbrady 1 in Singles & Dating

She asked how he was doing & if he had a girlfriend..His response "I am okay, I have never been happier. I don't have a girlfriend.. but I have a wife (he wants to marry me).. I love her and she means everything in the world to me and no other girl has ever made me happier.. she is my lil' heart" (that's his nickname for me)

I guess I am just worried because this ex girlfriend is someone who my boyfriend left me for in the beginning of our relationship. We dated shortly & he realized he still had feelings for her. I told him at that point he needed to figure it out before we took our relationship any further. I wouldn't want to be with someone who was not over someone else or unsure of us. That was 2 years ago and 6 months ago he contacted me & told me he made a big mistake & he wanted to get back together with me. We are very happy. Should I worry? He came to me and told me about the email. He tells me I am the one for him. I still feel insecure though.. Am I worrying for nothing?

2007-02-21 10:32:42 · 11 answers · asked by I carry your heart with me... 5 in Singles & Dating

Following on from my previous question

I dont understand women, i mean sometimes they like me and other times are cold I am getting fed up of it

it's getting to the stage I dont wanna go out with anybody, I have been single for ages cos they are jst annoying, and so many are immature teenybopper types, well where i live at least

What the hell is it with them

2007-02-21 10:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanna get back wit him but i dont kno yet cuz for one he got a girl but he say dat they dont go together

2007-02-21 10:32:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 10:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by kisha 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever i try to talk to her she is surrounded by her friends
can u give me any suggessions on what i can do??????
and also if i talk to her in front of her and my friends they will most probably tease me .....pl help
thanks in advance

2007-02-21 10:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by clint c 3 in Singles & Dating

I guess its my appearence...or just my eye make up. Dark eyeliner. SO what?
Also, i had an awesome guy friend last year, and he just doesnt want to talk to me ne more. Weve seperated. Alot of my friends last year look at me and just past by me. I have friends and all but im finding myself to be ignored easily, and NO im not quiet. What can I do to make people want to talk to me?
Or a guy to like me for a change? I don't even dress/act/look like a nerd.

2007-02-21 10:29:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-21 10:28:34 · 8 answers · asked by 27anw 2 in Singles & Dating

With 10 being the most shallow and 1 being the least shallow.

When I mean shallow, I mean judging people on how they look. Do you favor hotties and hunks or do you care more about personality?

2007-02-21 10:28:03 · 38 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 10:27:31 · 10 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to smell good for my first date with my girlfriend what cologne should i wear?

2007-02-21 10:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend might breaking up because of some stupid stuff that ive bee doing. she still wants to be friends though,because i am her best friend weve been together for 4 years. i would just want to forget everything but i still love her a lot. it just would hurt me to see her with someone else.we see each other everyday and i have a couple of weeks to get her to be happy enough to be in a relationship with me. helppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-21 10:25:40 · 3 answers · asked by ALEX C 1 in Singles & Dating

lost my gf of 2 years few weeks ago- been quite wierd since, met up with her few times- she says she will think bout things then few days later doesnt want to know me.

Spoke to one of her old school mates last night, and she said that its not like her at all. that she is just being like it to fit in with her new work crowd and is trying to be popular. meen they left her on her own on a night out last week. she was gona walk all the way home but we bumped into eachother- and i cut my night short to get her home. meen how can they be mates if they leave her? though she has gone back to them and told me she doesnt want to know me no more and she never wants to see me again.

Why do people get like that? meen i never treated her bad and cant she see they arnt true friends? it anoys me alot because i can see her throwing her life away

2007-02-21 10:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so if your at the mall and you dont want to tell your mom your fighting,what do you do?i mean like,you tel your mom you and your friend will always be friends forever and she says "i hope so"what are you supposed to do?

2007-02-21 10:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this one boy who says mean things like," stay away from caleb." When I don't like him. He drives me crazy he also calls me names and makes fun of me all the time. I wish he would leave me alone.

2007-02-21 10:24:15 · 16 answers · asked by mb_geo 2 in Friends

I like this girl that i barely even know. she my friends friend. how do i tell her that i like her????? because i want her to know, but i dont want to be to sudden about it. if you know what i mean,

2007-02-21 10:24:06 · 4 answers · asked by SpursFan126 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I have been together for 2 years we were high school sweethearts and first love. Rectenly she lied to me about where she was. She said she was at a friend but later on I found out she was at a bar. She didnt tell me because I always give her crap where she was going with or whom she is out with. The only reason I do that is beacuse I am insecure. In the past she have cheated on me and I just dont feel safe. Now we are on a break alsmost 2 days now and I feel very sad and scared. Im scared that she might hurt me again but she said I have to learn to trust her. How am i suppoes to do that? I really want to be with her too but I am afaird that I might change for a little time to have her back and then dont trust her again. What do I do?

2007-02-21 10:23:15 · 2 answers · asked by Khanh V 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 10:23:11 · 9 answers · asked by Tunisha M 1 in Friends

This is a series of ten true-or-false questions that will help me determine women's true take on singlehood. Please respond with only "true" or "false." (All of my answers are "false.")

1. I feel like I need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy.

2. My main goal at this time is to find a boyfriend.

3. I sometimes worry that I will die unmarried and childless with 37 cats.

4. When I go out, I always dress to impress any guys who might notice.

5. The best way to attract a guy is to be submissive to him.

6. I sometimes wonder if my intelligence is a turn-off.

7. Women who say that they're happy being single are liars.

8. Men are threatened by ambitious and successful women.

9. I always let guys open doors for me and pay for me on dates.

10. Feminism hurt women more than it helped.

11. It is better for women to be in the home, taking care of the children.

12. I don't believe in 50/50 relationships.

2007-02-21 10:23:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean she barely kisses my neck and ears. its like im doing all the work. the only time she touches me during sex is when she is holding on while im on top of her. last night i told her it was like im having sex with a dead person. i love my girlfriend but i like to feel wanted to. i want her to attempt to please me. not just me doing all the work

2007-02-21 10:22:34 · 6 answers · asked by dgmotley 2 in Singles & Dating

What things do you see or check on a guy.

2007-02-21 10:22:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 10:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by ShelbyXX 1 in Family

This guy that a sort of -- kind of like is always flirting with my 2 best friends. Like my one friend and I we're sitting on my couch watching a movie and he comes over and puts his arm around her and is like "Hey babayyyy"
And he's always doing things like this. Never behind my back, but just only when I'm there. It get's me FURIOUS and my face turns all red with anger and tears. How can I deal with this I hate it.

2007-02-21 10:21:32 · 12 answers · asked by Liyanne 1 in Singles & Dating

umm well first im 14 and my g/f well we got together and been goign out for a week but my friends and some people talk **** to me becuase im with her should i listen or ingore becuase they say shes with me to get me jealous but my g/f tells me their lyring and satrts to cry and wants me to trust her should i???? pleaze i need advice plzz help

2007-02-21 10:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 25 years old and has kids of her own. She has been married twice. The first time lasted for about a year and from what she says was pure Hell. She admitted to me later that he used to beat her. The second one she has been with for about 6 years and been married to him for 5 and I believe she's about to go back to the first one. The kids are confused and I feel defenseless, I know she's an adult and has the right to live her life as she sees fit, but the kids are suffering because of the confusion and I know that she will eventually suffer too. He has just gotten out of prison(which he was in for 3 years) for about a year and was in there for his involvement with drugs. She hasn't seen him in 6 years, how can she possibly think about going back to him. Myself and my family has spent alot of money helping her get away from him the first time, and I just don't know how she could do this to her kids and hurt me this way, when I have been her biggest supporter:(

2007-02-21 10:20:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have two friends with benefits and they are both like best friends and i have no clue what to do when one of them wants to do "stuff" w/ me and the other isnt really like that (we only make out and he hasnt tried anything else...yet) who do i stick with???

2007-02-21 10:19:28 · 7 answers · asked by killakaren♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to now if this guy likes me. well see this guy asked me out and i said yes then i gave him the rejection hotline. so then i broke u[p with him. then he asked me out again and i said i only see him as a friend. now i had recieved a flower from a guy for valentines day (it was white that meant that the person only saw you as a firend) so this guy thought it was pink from his distance. so he wanted to now the persons locker # and combo. he was threatning to hurt the person. then today he had asked someone if they new my locker number and combo. he wanted to leave a dozen roses in my locker (which is relle kinda romantic) but i only see him as a firend. HE IS OBSESSING OVER ME. what should i do. I ONLY SEE HIM AS A FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! when will this get through his head.

2007-02-21 10:19:22 · 1 answers · asked by kelly s 2 in Singles & Dating