how can i get my girlfriend to be more active during sex??

Question

i mean she barely kisses my neck and ears. its like im doing all the work. the only time she touches me during sex is when she is holding on while im on top of her. last night i told her it was like im having sex with a dead person. i love my girlfriend but i like to feel wanted to. i want her to attempt to please me. not just me doing all the work

Answer 1

what an ***, you could have told her in a better way. You probably hurt her feelings a lot.

Maybe she's just shy or doesn't know if something she does would make you uncomfortable. You should talk to her while you're at it.. tell her what you'd like her to do. That's always nice. Show her.. don't tell her she's like a dead person

Answer 2

She could be shy and embarassed so don't be too hasty with her. Also she may not even be enjoying it! Try watching videos together and reading a few books on the subject. Some people are just like that though my ex wife was I called it dead fish syndrome but we managed 19 years together. Whatever you do talk to her, but don't push her or put her down.

Answer 3

I think you need to provide more details. Sounds like you all have been together for some time and lost the 'spark' so to speak. Try a little more conversation (dirty talk) before sex, or try and find what sparks her intemost erotica zone.

Answer 4

Maybe she doesnt know what you want. Have you told her, hey I would like it if you did this? Try communicating more and try slowing down... lots of fore play to get her reved up...

Answer 5

that sucks!! the only thing you can do is tellllll her!!! if she doesn't want to change for you...then move on!

Answer 6

r you sure shes still alive......