It never happened to me but I'm worried it might. I'm wondering how common this is.
2007-02-21 10:34:54 · 17 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Not if he was a good friend...can you talk about your expectations before getting physical? It's usually best if you have a frank conversation about what you both want/don't want before moving on. Whenever one person wants more than friendship than the other, invariably feelings get hurt and the friendship ends. If you're confident you're both just looking for a friendship with benefits, go for it. I had some of my best sex with men who I was good friends with.....you tend to be more honest and it works better. :)
2007-02-28 05:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by luv2teech2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had sex with any of my friends and don't plan to. If I have a friend, a friend is a friend and if it goes into romance, that's different because it's good to have a romance based on a good friendship. But I'm still waiting for marriage even if it does.
Why would you want to have sex with someone that was just a friend anyway? It would ruin the friend relationship for me.
2007-02-21 18:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah one of my ex boyfriends I had a really good friendship with him until we had a relationship and had sex then split up we fell out big time
My man friend now wants me to get into a relationship but I dont want to as what happend with the other one I think friendship is more important than a relationship - he is ok about it.
2007-02-26 15:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by julie p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had that experience before but I must say it will ruin the friendship. Sure, some have "****-buddy" but after sometime they will eventually tire of each other and then have these regrets. So, it`s not "cool" to sleep with just anyone, let alone with your friends.
2007-02-21 18:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by queenbee_tch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Not yet. Thank God. But i have heard From some of my Friends, that happened to them. I Feel For You., And Sorry to hear that Too.
2007-02-28 00:43:21 · answer #5 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya its a huge prob everybody loves there friends if you evr get in that situation just think do you want to have sex for one night or have friendship for a lifetime
2007-02-28 08:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by vallan1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but there were more reasons than just that. We still talk occassionally, but not like we used to.
2007-02-21 18:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure it happens but it depends on the friendship and both of your maturity levels, also it depends on the emotions involved.
2007-02-21 18:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sw33tT4rt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have. It ruined every thing! it wasn't that good and I lost a great friend.
2007-02-21 18:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Happened to me, its not good
2007-02-21 18:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋