lost my gf of 2 years few weeks ago- been quite wierd since, met up with her few times- she says she will think bout things then few days later doesnt want to know me.
Spoke to one of her old school mates last night, and she said that its not like her at all. that she is just being like it to fit in with her new work crowd and is trying to be popular. meen they left her on her own on a night out last week. she was gona walk all the way home but we bumped into eachother- and i cut my night short to get her home. meen how can they be mates if they leave her? though she has gone back to them and told me she doesnt want to know me no more and she never wants to see me again.
Why do people get like that? meen i never treated her bad and cant she see they arnt true friends? it anoys me alot because i can see her throwing her life away
2007-02-21 10:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have figured out that she isnt worth sweet f**k all if she is willing to chuck me that easy- its just weird because she gives me mixed signals like one minute she doesnt want to know me then the next she likes me. then it seems she goes away spends time with her mates and doesnt want to know me again.
I know deep down that part of her wants to get back with me- though it seems like something is stopping her and that is her mates? i meen she might have found somebody else though i dont get tht feeling from her. any more views?
can anybody suggest what the hell is going on- as someone said to me, to be 2gether for 2 years we had somethnig speical- so why has she gone to not wanting to know me now?
2007-02-21 10:25:48 · update #1
One simple answer. Short and sweet. Just drop her. Obviously, she doesn't know what she wants in life and if she wants to try to do things out of the ordinary to fit in then she ain't worth the time and the stress. I understand 2 years is a long time, but I had a terrible 2 year on and off relationship with this one girl...more bad than good, but when you need to get over it. You need to get over it. Let her know that you're tired of her childish games and if she really wants you or still likes you like she says then she needs to stick to her word and stop being so conniving and deceitful. Sometimes, people change because they come to a realization in their life and they feel they need to do something about it on their own...but it seems to me like she's just going back and forth between the past (you) and the present/future (her "not so true" friends). You can do better. You deserve better, because nobody deserves this.
2007-02-21 10:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by bL@(kR0s3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is bored! that is what it comes down to. She could see her life stretching out in front of her and she didn't like it. She wants change and is not being too fussy about where it comes from. A small question though, did she know that you were out that night? It doesn't sound like a coincidence. Her friends are not the bad guys. She probably wasn't left, and even if she was, she's a big girl now. (If she is not, then she shouldn't be out in the first place). All she needed to do was jump in a taxi. Don't let her play games with you, she has made her decision. My friend did this, she ended up going out with a horrible guy, who had a girlfriend which my friend knew all about. But at the time she wouldn't listen to us, it was too much fun and excitement. We all wanted her to get back with her ex, as he was lovely and we missed him. But she wouldn't as she was young and didn't want something that serious. However by the end of the year she had met a new guy, and had started a serious relationship. She needed to get something out of her system. Yes she wants to fit in! That's normal, what is not normal is to expect to be in a long-term serious relationship when you are still changing so much.
2016-05-24 04:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Daniela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't that special my friend. My boyfriend did the same thing to me when I was 19 (many moons ago.) Suddenly did an about face out of nowhere and wanted something different. Didn't even hesitate...next day he was seen with some other chick...pr*ck.
Truth is she will end up getting screwed over good but that's her choice. You can't be there to save her only to have her kick you in the face after you've done so. She probably resents the fact that you even helped her in an odd kind of way. Maybe she is trying to assert herself and find her own way. Obviously she wants something new which doesn't include you so get over her (fast) and move on. You'll be much happier in the long run even if you're feeling a little rejected and jaded right now. Lots of fish in the sea and now you've learned something too so you'll eventually learn to find someone who has their head on straight and the same goals and expectations from life as you. In the meantime, get yourself together, get out there and have some fun with life and get your education and a good future started for yourself. Good luck.
2007-02-21 10:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. just because you didn't treat her bad doesn't mean anything. I am a girl & this has happend to me quit a few times. The reason why she reacted this way was because you broke her heart & she doesn't want it to get broken again. Thats why.
2007-02-21 10:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's over, she found something, or someone she wants more. time to move on. all there really is too it.
just be glad it was 2 years and not 20
2007-02-21 10:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by randini692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are strange creatures....get used to it.
she cannot think that much of you if she can play with your emotions this way.
my advice would be to move on, once you find another woman make sure you dont take this one back
2007-02-21 10:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by safcian 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good luck
2007-02-21 10:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋