i have two friends with benefits and they are both like best friends and i have no clue what to do when one of them wants to do "stuff" w/ me and the other isnt really like that (we only make out and he hasnt tried anything else...yet) who do i stick with???
2007-02-21 10:19:28 · 7 answers · asked by killakaren♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you prefer the second one so stick with him. If I were you, though, I would NOT do the FWB thing with anybody unless you really do NOT like the person at all or ever want it to develop into anything. It sounds old fashioned but ask any guy, they do not start relationships with girls they are already getting sex from without having to do anything for it. Men are just different from us and totally love the "thrill of the hunt". By just giving it up you're kind of taking that away from them and they will therefore never consider anything serious with you. Good luck and don't sell yourself short! You deserve a guy that will treat you wonderfully not just put you on the side as his "FWB"!
2007-02-21 10:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you feel more comfortable with. Or, the one that would put a smile on your face.
2007-02-21 10:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats kind of slutty and dangerous. I hope you set higher standard for yourself in the future.
2007-02-21 10:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them as friends and find someone else.
2007-02-21 10:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither.... or you wouldn't be asking this question.
Stay away from the user who wants you to do stuff.
2007-02-21 10:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a question only you can answer. it depends all on what you feel you need or want.
2007-02-21 10:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both
2007-02-22 08:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by BILL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋